Is it healthy to crave a relationship, but never get one because you feel you couldn't handle being in one?

Would it be healthy for a man, who is in his late 20s, to crave a relationship extremely bad and is tired of being alone, but never makes an effort or attempt to get one because they do not feel they could handle one, or do not feel worthy enough? After he continually seeing couples happily together, it discourages... show more Would it be healthy for a man, who is in his late 20s, to crave a relationship extremely bad and is tired of being alone, but never makes an effort or attempt to get one because they do not feel they could handle one, or do not feel worthy enough? After he continually seeing couples happily together, it discourages him?

Is this a problem?
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