Sounds like some things need to change on your part and her part.
You sound somewhat insecure in this relationship. Actually, she may be the one in control here. I'd say back off and BE YOU for a change.
You're right you'd thing you would be an important part of her life at all times.
Work on your own self and get more self esteem and find yourself some friends. You can't change someone else but YOU can change YOU ! If you are being too controlling then work on NOT doing that.
Jealously will not change another person ! The relationship will get worse if you are being too jealous, or too demanding. I suggest you get this book I recommend to everyone I meet that is personalized just for you and it has your name throughout the book with positive affirmations about you. It is a great confidence booster and you may need to learn more about yourself and grow in your own maturity. Which is not a bad thing, don't we all need that? You can only do it for YOU, and not for her. Let her see YOU are changing ! That would interesting, huh? Not being mean but becoming a better you than ever.
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· 1 decade ago