I am a jealous person and have been called a control freak. How can I not be so jealous of my fiancee?

My wife left me 2 years ago because she cheated on me and became pregnant. This has left me very jealous. I am in love with a beautiful, gorgeous woman but my past seems to be effecting our relationship. I know she would never cheat on me, but I still think about the worse possible outcome- er leaving me. I am... show more My wife left me 2 years ago because she cheated on me and became pregnant. This has left me very jealous. I am in love with a beautiful, gorgeous woman but my past seems to be effecting our relationship. I know she would never cheat on me, but I still think about the worse possible outcome- er leaving me. I am getting married to her in Feb of 08 and I want this jealousy of mine to end before we get married
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