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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

Should me and my ex-boyfriend stay friends or become enemies?

my ex dumb me for another girl, but it was kinda wierd because he was talking to that girl before we broke up. he still calls me and likes to start fights for no reason. then he starts to talk about how much he still love me. but the next day he is yelling stay out of my life. what should i do? because i still have feelings for him.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Even if you still have feelings for him sometimes it's best to just let go. Me and my gf mutually broke up back in May...and decided to be friends...well that was fine until she started dating someone else almost right away (after we were together for 2.5 years) so I got pissed and stopped talking to her. It was hard cause I still cared for her at the time but not TALKING or SEEING her since then has really helped me to get over the whole thing and move on.

    in summary......Stop talking to him, but don't become enemies...be civil about it.

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  • 1 decade ago

    That is to much of an up and down. I wouldn't say become enemies, because there is no need for that, but I wouldn't suggest staying close, especially if you still have feelings for him. You will never be able to move on with someone else if he's in your life giving you mixed signals. Be a friend, but more of the hello and goodbye variety.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Your ex is screwed up and doesn't know what he wants.

    The best thing you can do is to forget him.

    Go out with friends and start dating as soon as another guy comes along that you think you might have a good time with.

    It is normal to still have feelings toward a boyfriend when you first break up, even if it is your boyfriend's fault. Time will heal.

    But I feel you definitely are better off without him.

    Good luck!

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  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    Sufficient cause for ARREST is different than sufficient cause for CONVICTION. It is not the police officers job to determine if you were actually involved in dealing drugs. If you live in the home where drugs are being sold, there IS probable cause to believe you are involved. It is up to the DA to determine if there is sufficient proof you were involved. What you MUST do is retain the services of a good attorney. You CAN'T win this case on your own. Any halfway ethical attorney would give the above advice to another attorney.

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  • 1 decade ago

    If I were you, I would cool it with him. It sounds as though he doesn't know which way to walk or talk. You don't need that kind of treatment. You sound as though you are a really caring person. Give the relationship a good break and find something and someone else to occupy your time. Tell him up front that you don't deserve this kind of treatment and he needs to straighten up. Believe me, I've been though this. Just don't take it!!

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  • 1 decade ago

    It sounds like he has some unresolved issues that he needs to deal with. I advise you to move on with your life and cut off all communication with him and I understand that its going to be hard considering that you still have feelings for him but if he really cared and loved you...he wouldn't treat you the way he do and of course he wouldn't broken up with you.

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  • 1 decade ago

    well, it's going to be hard because you still have feelings. But you shouldn't let him jerk you around like that . I don't know why guys act the way they do. But while he has a girlfriend.. he has no business calling you for any reason .

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    just be like "hi ______!" and walk on, as if you could care less. but be cheerful and nice when you do say hi. also, if you see him with the girl just be like "hi _girl_! Hi _ex_!" and walk on. don't get upset about something so stupid as this. i am also sure that your feelings will dissipate, and you will begin to like someone new. the next time he says stay out of my life, just say ok (just plain and simply), and move on. he probably only says he loves you to get under your skin. or maybe he's gay and can't figure things out right now. who knows?

    Source(s): umm, i just thought it up on the spot.
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  • 1 decade ago

    Ge this loser out of your life!!!!! Stay away from him while yall sort out your feelings then in a few weeks maybe yall can be friends again. But space is neccesary if you want to be friends in the future.

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  • 1 decade ago

    ex means ex, the past, a close book. You will never move on if you keep in touch with him. Go and open a new story of your life.

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