Help! I'm going crazy with boyfriend issues! What to do?

I'm dating & living w/my boyfriend for 4 months. We used to be really happy & stress free. Now we're on eachother's nerves 24-7. He asked work to relocate him 1 hr drive away so we'd fight less, but its not really working. He loves me a LOT, but i don't love him as much (maybe never will). I... show more I'm dating & living w/my boyfriend for 4 months. We used to be really happy & stress free. Now we're on eachother's nerves 24-7. He asked work to relocate him 1 hr drive away so we'd fight less, but its not really working. He loves me a LOT, but i don't love him as much (maybe never will). I think i love him, but i feel like i'm walking on eggshells all the time. anything i do is cause 4 him 2 get upset & viceversa - like moving too slow 2 get something or breaking a glass, dropping something. We're fighting a lot but then talk about it & then everything's ok until the next problem. I'm going crazy. He keeps telling me how I add to his stress - when he says this i feel like leaving him - except he lives with me. then we keep almost breaking up but we cant go thru with it, my brain goes up & down everyday - stay, leave, stay , leave, & i cant stand it. something has to be done. i am treating him bad because i get mad @ him, which is wrong. its like i want him to leave me. what to do?
Update: we have so many things in common & like to do the same things, except now we piss eachother off a lot. i feel like i have multiple personalities. we're trying 2 work things out but always same thing over & over again. he wants to marry me & have kids, & i want 2 also, sometimes. But othertimes I am like hell... show more we have so many things in common & like to do the same things, except now we piss eachother off a lot. i feel like i have multiple personalities. we're trying 2 work things out but always same thing over & over again. he wants to marry me & have kids, & i want 2 also, sometimes. But othertimes I am like hell no. he leaves the apt. late at night if we fight to go drive around & cool off but it usually doesn't work. we know communication is key, but sometimes its my fault. I'm upset too because I would be his 3rd wife & i never have married b4. he is getting a divorce once his wife gets her papers to come to the US with their 1 yr old son but not b4 then, she doesn't know yet, so i'm guilty feeling too.
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