I just moved out with my guy to, so I can relate more so then others. Except for the fact Ive been with mine for 4 years instead of 4 months. Im thinking yall didnt know everything about each other when you moved out together, and didnt have long enough time to determine if you were both meant for each other as often some couples do by jumping the gun. When we moved out it was flawless, yes stressful but we dont even fight at all, disagree sometimes but usually come to a peaceful compromise-thats what relationships are about- give and take- and to make it work sometimes you have to give more then you take. Example I d
o the dishes and the laundry and hes doing all the techinical issues around the house and stuff. May not seem fair but we work together to get things done. Getting mad at your loved one is no way to react, and it seems hes been trying to make it work by relocating for shorter driving time. Its good that you talk but your only talking about the immediate problem, what about the overall problem, how bout talking about reducing arguements, preventing them before they even happen? Good communication is key. And what do you mean you dont love him as much or dunno? You should of questioned that before you moved out with him, if you truely dont love him then what your doing is using him and you should move out. Its shallow and mean to use another person. I suggest you make a list- the good and the bad- and see what outweighs the other. If its mostly bad move out if its mostly good stay and try to work together through yalls problems.
I just read the additional note- leave him- he hasnt left his last wife yet! plus obviously what makes you think it will work with him if it hasnt worked with his last two wives. Dont have kids and marriage unless your sure this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with!