getting over completely - memory erasure. to know about the next guy - you are human we have the ability to adapt, you can make anyone be thi right one. you just need to give in to carelesness, and stop being so concerned with things working. They will do that on their own. As far as having no love left to give, that makes no sense to me, I always thought love was just there. And to the subject of fights, the first thing to remember is that fault is irrelevent and that means you should try not to blame the man; even if you think it's his fault. Whatever the problem at the moment, if someone loves you they will very rarely do harmfull things with the intent of hurting you. Accidents and mistakes are second nature. When you find that something irritates you just sigh and laugh to yourself because you are still alive and life goes on.