• Is it weird to go to a nude beach with my aunt and female cousin?

    I'm a 22 year old guy and my cousin is a 21 year old girl and aunt is 45. They want me to go to a nude beach with them, would it be weird if I got naked with them and went with them? They said they've been there before. My aunt and cousin are pretty attractive so I'm a bit worried about getting an... show more
    I'm a 22 year old guy and my cousin is a 21 year old girl and aunt is 45. They want me to go to a nude beach with them, would it be weird if I got naked with them and went with them? They said they've been there before. My aunt and cousin are pretty attractive so I'm a bit worried about getting an erection there and they might see it.
    22 answers · 20 hours ago
  • My mother physically and emotionally abuses me, can you give me advice please?

    So I’m a 26 year old female currently working part time, living with my mother since I was a kid. She’s been physically and emotionally abusive to me for so long but it has gotten worse. Now she wishes death on me, abuses me physically, threatens me all that nasty stuff. She yells at me constantly, she is... show more
    So I’m a 26 year old female currently working part time, living with my mother since I was a kid. She’s been physically and emotionally abusive to me for so long but it has gotten worse. Now she wishes death on me, abuses me physically, threatens me all that nasty stuff. She yells at me constantly, she is approaching 50 and I think it’s gotten worse. It’s gotten to the point were even my brother is joining in and saying that I’m mental and how nobody cares about the fact that I’m being abused at home. He locked me out of the house yesterday and she was laughing. I really need help, I want to escape. I have no friends no family I can move in with or talk about this with. Last night she beat me up over something so little, my back hurts and I feel like it’s affecting me emotionally. I have recorded footage of her being abusive to me just in case something goes down. What can I do? Please only serious answers. Thanks
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • What to do if the father of your child is aggressive with your 4 year old.?

    I have a 4 year old son. Hes an absolute sweetheart and so loving, but theres one thing I believe may affect his sweetness and positivy and that’d be his father. My son is with me majority of the time, he goes with his father 2x a week, sometimes more because I want them to have a bond but I cant keep pushing the... show more
    I have a 4 year old son. Hes an absolute sweetheart and so loving, but theres one thing I believe may affect his sweetness and positivy and that’d be his father. My son is with me majority of the time, he goes with his father 2x a week, sometimes more because I want them to have a bond but I cant keep pushing the fact that his father is aggressive with him away. I was shocked when I found out he even had to be with his father considering his fathers past history wih the law- assault - multiple times. Hes also been diagnosed eith bi polar disorder and was ordered to take anger management classes which he still goes to but unfortunately i see no change. Some weeks hes good with my son, other times I fear what my son goes through or might have to face in his fathers wrath. He gets upset that my son doesnt like him but my son has explained to me and him that its because he yells at him and grabs and hurts his arms when trying to stop him from moving, again my child is 4. He gets seemingly mad for no reason and needs to control my son, any sign of disobedience and he loses it. Is there anything I can do? Its been years and his dad isnt changing, if fear for my son and Im also fearing for my familys life. He owns countless guns and pointed one at my sister who doesn’t like him. Im scared if I go to court and we get full custody his father will come kill us. Im scared his father will hurt him in the middle of an episode. Im lost
    19 answers · 1 day ago
  • I can't seem to forget what took place before our wedding, and because of that I still hold a grudge against my husband and his family?

    We had a small courthouse wedding in NJ on Feb 19, 2016. The invitations were only limited to my husband's mother, step-father, grandparents and 2 friends, as well as my mother and brother. My mother and brother flew in from Jamaica to attend. My husband (fiance at the time) and I occupied 1 bedroom of a 2... show more
    We had a small courthouse wedding in NJ on Feb 19, 2016. The invitations were only limited to my husband's mother, step-father, grandparents and 2 friends, as well as my mother and brother. My mother and brother flew in from Jamaica to attend. My husband (fiance at the time) and I occupied 1 bedroom of a 2 bedroom apartment and we had a roommate, so it was not convenient for them to stay with us. However my husbands grandparents live closeby in a small house but definitely more space than we had. His mother lives 1 hr away in a big house. I suggested to my husband that my family stay there. His answer was to let them stay in a hotel. They already spent a lot of money on their flight, why should they spend excess money on a hotel when there are family to stay with? My husband offered to pay the hotel because apparently driving 1 hr away to drop them off was a big hassle to him, so I made it a big deal until in the end, my family ended up staying at his mother's. The deal was to have them stay at the mother until the day of the wedding, then they'd stay in a motel while my husband and I went to a beach house for 2 days. When we returned from the beach house, my husband would drop them off, including me, to NY where my mother has family, and they'd spend the rest of time their until their departure. On top of that, his mother had wrote him a text saying "Are you gonna drop them off to NY? Otherwise they are going to the beach house with you."
    26 answers · 2 days ago
  • I have my own car and I pay for my own gas, yet my parents still make me ask them if I can go anywhere.?

    Like, honestly its my money so why do I have to ask? Please if there is a parent on here, explain this to me.
    Like, honestly its my money so why do I have to ask? Please if there is a parent on here, explain this to me.
    22 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why does my dad bully me?

    Best answer: Bullying others is anti-social behaviour.

    People who bully others have psychological problems.

    Tell him to go get help from a doctor or counsellor etc.
    Best answer: Bullying others is anti-social behaviour.

    People who bully others have psychological problems.

    Tell him to go get help from a doctor or counsellor etc.
    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • Advice on a family matter?

    I live 4 hours away from my sister and I'm in town visiting. She lives with her son and her son's father. They've been asking for me to move in with them for years. I've lived with them once for all of one month about 6 years ago and I left. I left because I felt like they were only using me for... show more
    I live 4 hours away from my sister and I'm in town visiting. She lives with her son and her son's father. They've been asking for me to move in with them for years. I've lived with them once for all of one month about 6 years ago and I left. I left because I felt like they were only using me for rent, cleaning, and day care services. Six years later, they're still struggling financially. I'm temporarily unemployed, but I'm living with my dad. My sister's son's father is trying to demand that I stay with them until their lease expires because they need help and nobody is helping them with anything. They've burned all of their bridges by borrowing money from people and never paying anyone back. I've lost track of how much money I lent them over the years. Anyway, he says that he has sacrificed a lot for my sister and that nobody in my family will help them with anything, and that someone else needs to step up. He was recently fired from his job because he couldn't find someone to take care of their son. Nobody in his family is helping, either. I have been here since Thursday and have watched my nephew between Thursday and Saturday. I've given money that I don't really have to help them with their bills. When my sister gets back from the hospital, they want to discuss a few things and I know they're both going to mention wanting me to move in with them again. I don't want to do it. I have no freedom, personal space, or independence here. Suggestions?
    11 answers · 7 hours ago
  • Hello! I'm 15 and I really need help on my life.?

    I really hate my parents. I get into a lot of fights with them and sometimes leads me being kicked out if the house. My mom yells at me everyday about not getting awards or finding out that I played videogames without her permission. Just recently, I got in a fight with them because I bought McDonalds without their... show more
    I really hate my parents. I get into a lot of fights with them and sometimes leads me being kicked out if the house. My mom yells at me everyday about not getting awards or finding out that I played videogames without her permission. Just recently, I got in a fight with them because I bought McDonalds without their permission with my money that I earned. That lead to me deciding not to go to disneyworld with them (it was our summer vacation). I was scared if I went, I wouldn't have much fun due to her constant yelling for the smallest things. However, she had already bought the tickets for flight and the parks. When I told her, it turned into a full blown argument (mainly her yelling). Afterwards, she told me that she wasn't going to pay for me and told me to pay her back for the tickets and housing. She took the money that I had earned working at my cousin's restaurant (around $405). Not only that, but she said I had to pay back all of the things she bought that wasn't required by law (including a $5000 violin). She also said that I wasn't allowed to work in my cousin's restauant and I had to find some other job to pay back all of that money. Is this legal? If so, does anyone know any jobs that a 15 year old could have or is willing to offer one. I can't seem to find any. I live in Catonsville Maryland. Thank you for reading and understanding. I hope no one would have to deal with these types of problems with their parents or kids.
    14 answers · 20 hours ago
  • How do I speak to my 10 year old son about appropriate behaviour online?

    We’ve had his school admins setting up a meeting in regards to this problem back in May. He livestreamed himself to strangers and engages in explicit conversations. Note that my son has ADHD. He doesn’t have the maturity of a typical 10 year old. The problem is that people are worried about his safety AND he says... show more
    We’ve had his school admins setting up a meeting in regards to this problem back in May. He livestreamed himself to strangers and engages in explicit conversations. Note that my son has ADHD. He doesn’t have the maturity of a typical 10 year old. The problem is that people are worried about his safety AND he says some pretty inappropriate things on there. This is all fun and games to him. He openly said that he used this website to talk to strange people, which is how others found out.
    11 answers · 2 hours ago
  • 15 yo and going to get spanked, what shoudl i do?

    Best answer: When I was a kid in the '60s It was common to see misbehaving kids get spanked in public. At home, kids, teenagers included, were spanked bare bottom, over the knee. Like someone else mentioned, after getting spanked, you had to stand in the corner with your pants and briefs around your ankles. And yes it hurt.... show more
    Best answer: When I was a kid in the '60s It was common to see misbehaving kids get spanked in public. At home, kids, teenagers included, were spanked bare bottom, over the knee. Like someone else mentioned, after getting spanked, you had to stand in the corner with your pants and briefs around your ankles. And yes it hurt. And yes it was embarrassing.

    Now, most kids are brats and troublemakers. They run wild in stores and restaurants. They don't listen to their parents. And they are always getting into trouble.
    19 answers · 2 days ago
  • Withdrawing money without my mom knowing?

    basically I want to order something off Amazon without my mom knowing about it. I plan on buying a gift card to do it since I'm only 17 and don't have my own credit card, but I need excuse to withdraw cash from bank account to buy it with. I have a job and I have the money, but my mom and I have a connected... show more
    basically I want to order something off Amazon without my mom knowing about it. I plan on buying a gift card to do it since I'm only 17 and don't have my own credit card, but I need excuse to withdraw cash from bank account to buy it with. I have a job and I have the money, but my mom and I have a connected bank account. are there any suggestions as to what I can tell her I need the money for?
    26 answers · 4 days ago
  • Should I be upset that my family didn’t come to my graduation?

    I graduated 8th grade 2 days ago and I feel like crap. Only my father and my brother that’s 16 came. My oldest brother that’s 21 did not come because he had to work. It was at 2pm and I feel like he could have got off early to come. I went to his graduated three years ago so I felt like he should have been there.... show more
    I graduated 8th grade 2 days ago and I feel like crap. Only my father and my brother that’s 16 came. My oldest brother that’s 21 did not come because he had to work. It was at 2pm and I feel like he could have got off early to come. I went to his graduated three years ago so I felt like he should have been there. And then none of aunties or uncles even came. It’s just that other people in my class had so many family members there and I feel like no one really cared idk. I didn’t act like I was upset but I am. How can I get over this?
    10 answers · 14 hours ago
  • How to stop my mom..?

    I'm 19, in college, i do my homeworks till 3 or 4 am, i feel so tired everyday, and my mom always wakes me up at 8 to eat breakfast together, i know she loves me and maybe need companion but i can't stand this i need more sleep, but she couldn't understand me, what should i say to make her stop waking... show more
    I'm 19, in college, i do my homeworks till 3 or 4 am, i feel so tired everyday, and my mom always wakes me up at 8 to eat breakfast together, i know she loves me and maybe need companion but i can't stand this i need more sleep, but she couldn't understand me, what should i say to make her stop waking me up early? Lack of sleep makes me sensitive and today i yelled at her which makes me feel guilty as hell..
    17 answers · 2 days ago
  • How can I get revenge on my sister?

    I'm not talking your average "glue her deodorant shut!" pranks. I'm talking dead *** make her leave the house. As in, shes stolen over $400 from me, stolen and broken multiple important things, is always getting me in trouble, and makes my life an actual living hell. I absolutely despise her, and... show more
    I'm not talking your average "glue her deodorant shut!" pranks. I'm talking dead *** make her leave the house. As in, shes stolen over $400 from me, stolen and broken multiple important things, is always getting me in trouble, and makes my life an actual living hell. I absolutely despise her, and want to give her a taste of her own medicine. Preferably stuff that cant really be traced back to me. I'm her sister and a minor so I won't be arrested for certain things. Dont try to ward me off from this. I'll be doing it, whether I get answers or not. I'm thinking, to start paying off her debt, to steal her makeup and start selling it ridiculously cheap as used makeup(because people buy that, I guess). Also, stealing her clothes and stashing them away, little by little, so she thinks shes just losing them. I'll also be stealing money and food from her if I find it. This is all the very weakest stuff I can think of. I want to make her hate living in this house, but I've never been the revenge type, and Google is pretty lackluster for sister revenge. Living in the same house has to give me something to work with.
    12 answers · 22 hours ago
  • My mum has her own personal hair assistant? Is she going too far?

    I am 19 years old and from a wealthy family and we have always had a privileged upbringing. I have alway tried to remain humble, yet my mother has always been on the more spoiled side. Recently, my father has employed a full time personal hair dresser for her who s job is to be at her beck and call 24/7 to touch... show more
    I am 19 years old and from a wealthy family and we have always had a privileged upbringing. I have alway tried to remain humble, yet my mother has always been on the more spoiled side. Recently, my father has employed a full time personal hair dresser for her who s job is to be at her beck and call 24/7 to touch up her hair when required. I understand its a job but she has been making the assistant come to family events and often has her touch up her hair mid-conversation or ends up sending her to the store to get more hairspary etc. Is this a little bit over the top, I feel very uncomfortable and sorry for the poor girl.
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • Going on vacation with my cousins family how should we do rooms?

    We are having a family trip in July. My mom and my little brother is going but not my dad. My cousins entire family Will be there so both her parents are going she has two Brothers. (So 4 females and 4 males) So basically ny cousin and I are both 18 year girls. My brother is 16 and her brothers are 16 and 12.... show more
    We are having a family trip in July. My mom and my little brother is going but not my dad. My cousins entire family Will be there so both her parents are going she has two Brothers. (So 4 females and 4 males) So basically ny cousin and I are both 18 year girls. My brother is 16 and her brothers are 16 and 12. So My mom thinks all the girls should have a room while all of the makes haves a room. But my cousin and I want our own room. Our brothers can share. With her dad. And our moms can share together. Is that reasonable? The extra room will cost us about an extra 200 a night?
    8 answers · 12 hours ago
  • My son is ignoring the family.?

    Day by day , my son is ignoring me (father) more, his mom and his sister. no hi, no bye. I Discovered that he is using same way with the people who work with. he is not social at all, he doesnot have friends at all. always in his room sleeping or playing games. I paid some of his loans at the university and bought... show more
    Day by day , my son is ignoring me (father) more, his mom and his sister. no hi, no bye. I Discovered that he is using same way with the people who work with. he is not social at all, he doesnot have friends at all. always in his room sleeping or playing games. I paid some of his loans at the university and bought him a Car and never told me Happy birthday or to his mom or sister. or celebrate with us father's day . and he didnot eat with us since long long time. he is 23 years old. smart and finished 4 years university. i feel that i lost my son. recently i asked him if we can meet and talk but always he refuse. he lives with me in the basement .
    8 answers · 14 hours ago
  • Is my mum overreacting?

    Last Tuesday (the 5th) my neighbour knocked on our door because she was going to give my mum's electric whisk back after her's broke. I heard the door knock, but I didn't answer it because I wasn't in the mood. She knocked on the door three more times after that. She gave up on the fourth knock and... show more
    Last Tuesday (the 5th) my neighbour knocked on our door because she was going to give my mum's electric whisk back after her's broke. I heard the door knock, but I didn't answer it because I wasn't in the mood. She knocked on the door three more times after that. She gave up on the fourth knock and left the electric whisk outside our front door. Approximately an hour later, my mum opened the door to find the electric whisk. She said to me that she was expecting our neighbour to give it back to her directly instead of just leaving it on our doorstep. So she rang her up. Our neighbour said that she knocked on the door several times, but no one answered - even though she saw me in the kitchen. After she hung the phone down, my mum just started wailing at me. She said things like "how would you like it if she did that to you?" and "I have never known anyone like you in my life!" I told her that I wasn't in a very good mood, but she said it's not good enough of an excuse. Since that day, she has been treating me like absolute crap. Whenever I ring the doorbell or knock on the door, she leaves me outside for up to an hour so I can have "a taste of my own medicine". Whenever I talk to her, she either ignores me or brings up what had happened that day. When she brings up what happened, it always turns into verbal fights that everyone in our neighbourhood can hear. Do I deserve to be treated like this just for that?
    18 answers · 4 days ago
  • How do I escape my abusive mother?

    She’s been physically and emotionally abusive to me for so long but it has gotten worse. Now she wishes death on me, abuses me physically, threatens me all that nasty stuff. She yells at me constantly, she is approaching 50 and I think it’s gotten worse. It’s gotten to the point were even my brother is joining in... show more
    She’s been physically and emotionally abusive to me for so long but it has gotten worse. Now she wishes death on me, abuses me physically, threatens me all that nasty stuff. She yells at me constantly, she is approaching 50 and I think it’s gotten worse. It’s gotten to the point were even my brother is joining in and saying that I’m mental and how nobody cares about the fact that I’m being abused at home. He locked me out of the house yesterday and she was laughing. I really need help, I want to escape. I have no friends no family I can move in with or talk about this with. Last night she beat me up over something so little, my back hurts and I feel like it’s affecting me emotionally. I have recorded footage of her being abusive to me just in case something goes down. What can I do? Please only serious answers. Thanks I work 33 hours per week, decent pay but not enough. Do I go to the citizen advice bureau or council? I need to move out by tomorrow and I’m actually broke at the moment.
    10 answers · 1 day ago