• Was I wrong to have her sleep over?

    I went to a party with my gf Friday night and I had her sleep over at my house. I hadn’t planned on her staying but we got dropped off to my house at 2 a.m. and had both drank and I really didn’t want to drive 30 minutes to drop her off. To be clear, we didn’t do anything. We just slept in the same bed. I dropped... show more
    I went to a party with my gf Friday night and I had her sleep over at my house. I hadn’t planned on her staying but we got dropped off to my house at 2 a.m. and had both drank and I really didn’t want to drive 30 minutes to drop her off. To be clear, we didn’t do anything. We just slept in the same bed. I dropped her off and when I got back my mom started yelling at me as soon as I got home. She said that it was trashy and started saying she was going to kick her out herself if it happened again. My dad wasn’t even mad about it and she was acting like that. I tried to ignore her but she didn’t stop until I left. Now she’s ignoring me and acting like I did something horrible. I’m 18 and am moving away come graduation, so this really seems petty. Should I tell her sorry to just smooth things over? I didn’t want to drive after drinking and my gf is not some hoe, so I don’t see anything wrong since I’m not a kid anymore.
    81 answers · 3 days ago
  • Is a height 5'5" too short for modelling.?

    If yes, then why? Aren't men attracted to short women of heights around 5'5"?
    If yes, then why? Aren't men attracted to short women of heights around 5'5"?
    41 answers · 2 days ago
  • My little sister is getting bullied? What can I do?

    Best answer: You could tell her to walk over to the teacher while the girl is bothering her so she sees what's going on and she's not just hearing about it. If that doesn't work then go to someone who's higher up than the teacher bc dealing with drama is part of working with kids and with ppl in general bc... show more
    Best answer: You could tell her to walk over to the teacher while the girl is bothering her so she sees what's going on and she's not just hearing about it. If that doesn't work then go to someone who's higher up than the teacher bc dealing with drama is part of working with kids and with ppl in general bc there's drama everywhere and with kids and teens in particular it's really bad. If the teacher wants to b*tch about having to deal with that then she has no real place there bc she can't pick and choose the parts of the job that she wants to do and this girl is a problem for everyone so its not just your sister. So i think you should try to make everyone as many ppl as you can aware of what's happening draw attention to it bullies are more likely to back down when they are called out because they aren't brave enough to stand up to people who call them out. But since she's really young get everyone on board about doing something about this maybe like invent a strict no bullying policy with everyone's help bc one person's nasty attitude should not ruin everything for everyone life is unfair enough as it is it doesn't need be that way 24/7.
    12 answers · 12 hours ago
  • Are you still living with your parents?

    I can't wait until I turn 22 so that I can move out of my mom's house and not hear her mouth anymore
    I can't wait until I turn 22 so that I can move out of my mom's house and not hear her mouth anymore
    9 answers · 5 hours ago
  • This girl says I'm her baby's father but I refuse to take responsibility until there's proof?

    We're both 17 and I refuse to take care of the kid until there's proof that I'm the dad and she can't handle that and is having a breakdown or something,You're thoughts?
    We're both 17 and I refuse to take care of the kid until there's proof that I'm the dad and she can't handle that and is having a breakdown or something,You're thoughts?
    112 answers · 6 days ago
  • I’m so abandoned, what do I do?

    I’m a 19 adopted female, my biological family decided to get rid of me at 18 years old. They sent me to a University 5 hours away from home in the mountains and have left me here ever since. They never come out to get me even during the breaks and my birthday, they would never let me learn how to drive in high... show more
    I’m a 19 adopted female, my biological family decided to get rid of me at 18 years old. They sent me to a University 5 hours away from home in the mountains and have left me here ever since. They never come out to get me even during the breaks and my birthday, they would never let me learn how to drive in high school, Christmas break is now coming soon - it’s 4 weeks long but the dorms will be locked. I will be sleeping outside in the snow because I can’t get a ride to where my home is. There are no buses, or taxi here in this stranded city. I put up on Facebook on several groups to see if someone would be able to give me a ride if I pay them if they are heading there already, but no one has ever replied. I don’t understand why nobody likes me. I’m skinny, blonde, and I have a symmetrical face and fixed teeth. And because I’m alone, some big girls at my University are harassing me both in person and online. What’s wrong with me?, I’m not deformed or disabled or anything.
    32 answers · 5 days ago
  • Besides legally, do you truly think 18 is an adult?

    So besides legally again, do you think that an 18 year old is an adult? I am 18 and I recently graduated high school earlier this year. I'm dealing with a lot of adult responsibilities at home and in life at the moment and some people tell me I'm old enough to do all of those things but others tell me that... show more
    So besides legally again, do you think that an 18 year old is an adult? I am 18 and I recently graduated high school earlier this year. I'm dealing with a lot of adult responsibilities at home and in life at the moment and some people tell me I'm old enough to do all of those things but others tell me that im too young to take on such responsibilities such as but not limited to: cooking dinner for my family , babysitting a 4 year old all day, yard work, grocery shopping for the household, doing everyones laundry, taking out the trash,the whole nine yards and sometimes I'm really stressed because I know things will only get harder once I start college in January and I know my duties at home won't be alleviated or lighten up and I have one other sibling the same age as I and he barely does anything. everyone in my house works full time but me because there is no one to take care of my little brother. I have tried to talk to the family about how sometimes it is too much for me but they just say that they work and I dont and that im an adult now that I should be able to handle these responsibilities but they won't let me make adult like decisions like get a tattoo. My relationship with my family is great and I love them very much but theres just certain weak points like trying to get them to understand how I feel. what is your take on being 18? do you think 18 is an adult? Thanks in advance
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • My MOM literally stole $600 of my money and now she's picking with me. Should I be mad at her?

    Recently my own mother put me out on the streets while I'm pregnant and kept $600 of mine! Now I'm staying with my baby's father and she keeps on picking with me saying "that's why you're homeless and I can NEVER come back to her house" and she's NEVER giving me back any of the... show more
    Recently my own mother put me out on the streets while I'm pregnant and kept $600 of mine! Now I'm staying with my baby's father and she keeps on picking with me saying "that's why you're homeless and I can NEVER come back to her house" and she's NEVER giving me back any of the money she took! She's really pissing me the **** off! Should I be mad at her? Like I'm mad she's actually doing this to me. I've NEVER DONE anything to her except NOT walk to the store for her. also my other siblings are mad at me too for calling her an bad parent! Well, look what she's doing to me. ? I gave her $100 and she literally turned around and stole my brand new charger that goes to my phone. I don't know WHY they're treating me this way or what I did to even to be treated so badly. Smh!
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • Can I stop this based on what I know?

    My fiancée told me that there’s a genetic illnes that runs in her family. It’s a form of anemia and it’s pretty nasty. I don’t have it so any children we might have will not have it, but there’s a possibility that they become carriers of the gene. So this disease might run in my family as well in the future. I am... show more
    My fiancée told me that there’s a genetic illnes that runs in her family. It’s a form of anemia and it’s pretty nasty. I don’t have it so any children we might have will not have it, but there’s a possibility that they become carriers of the gene. So this disease might run in my family as well in the future. I am starting to think of breaking up this relationship. There’s no reason why I should put a potential deadly gene in my bloodline.
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is this wrong?

    Best answer: That's pretty normal behavior so be happy. When i was a kid i usually just saw my parents fight and yell at each other and after years of ******* me up mentally and emotionally they finally got divorced about a year ago. Trust me its good that your parents love and respect each other so much.
    Best answer: That's pretty normal behavior so be happy. When i was a kid i usually just saw my parents fight and yell at each other and after years of ******* me up mentally and emotionally they finally got divorced about a year ago. Trust me its good that your parents love and respect each other so much.
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • Am I too much of a germaphobe or is mom that dirty?

    So I ve been having many fights with mom because of her laziness when it comes to keeping things clean, for example: when she leaves the bathroom she doesn t wash her hands and claims she didn t touch anything down there for her hands to be dirty "happened multiple times" she keeps the cover of the... show more
    So I ve been having many fights with mom because of her laziness when it comes to keeping things clean, for example: when she leaves the bathroom she doesn t wash her hands and claims she didn t touch anything down there for her hands to be dirty "happened multiple times" she keeps the cover of the drainage in the bathroom exactly next to my toothpaste, she walks outside barefoot then walks around the house with her dirty feet and claims she didn t want her slippers to get dirty "which really confuses me!" she drinks from a glass of water and returns it back in place and claims that her mouth is not dirty, and all of this have caused me to clean around my room more and not allow anyone to come and it got to a point where i use rubbing alcohol all over my body because the whole house feels dirty to me and I hate it so much! and whenever i mention anything about it she starts yelling at me and tells me that i m acting too crazy about being "clean". i m losing my mind! I would move out of the house to cause less issues but in my country if you re a girl then you re not allowed to rent an apartment or own any property.
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • If you ask a family member to loan you $1000 and they give you a check for $20,000, does that mean you have to pay them back the $20,000?

    Best answer: NEVER borrow from family. And its always best to put a loan in writing with both signing and dating and copies to both parties. If this was not done, then they probably would only be responsible for $1,000. The rest I'd consider a gift but all this doesn't make any sense to me. Why would someone give... show more
    Best answer: NEVER borrow from family. And its always best to put a loan in writing with both signing and dating and copies to both parties.

    If this was not done, then they probably would only be responsible for $1,000. The rest I'd consider a gift but all this doesn't make any sense to me. Why would someone give $20K if you only asked for $1K?

    BTW kids are not responsible for the parent's debt.
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • What would you do if your mother called you a crazy nut ?

    Best answer: she is dead and she never did mean things like that
    Best answer: she is dead and she never did mean things like that
    6 answers · 5 hours ago
  • Is my mom being a hater ?

    So my mom called me the other day and basically lectured me about the way I live so I live with my aunt and have a bed in my dads house both offer me rent free I work full time and save my money to create future stability, money aside for my 2 kids, and to go back to school and pay for my school because I refuse to... show more
    So my mom called me the other day and basically lectured me about the way I live so I live with my aunt and have a bed in my dads house both offer me rent free I work full time and save my money to create future stability, money aside for my 2 kids, and to go back to school and pay for my school because I refuse to be in debt. My mom lectured me because I live rent free and I don’t pay any house hold fees and I use up energy/ water in the house and that it’s time that I move out and get my own place and that I should be going to college even if it requires me to get a loan and be in debt. Let me make this clear I don’t even live with my mom my mom and dad are not together and my aunt has her own house. My mom even called my aunt to tell her how wrong it was to help me and that I shouldn’t be living in her house rent free but my aunt shut her down and told her she will help me and my dad says I can live rent free at his house with no problems. I am 25 years old and I have lived on my own since I was 18 -23 but I stumbled in so many obstacles and I decided to take the opportunity to create a better path for myself So I need advice here from moms who are older and have kids who are adults because I feel like my mom is a hater
    12 answers · 2 days ago