• My guy friend and I have had sexual interactions but he acts like it means nothing?

    I really have feelings for my best friend and we kiss and make out and I’ve gone down on him a few times before but he tells me he feels comfortable around me enough to do that type of stuff and it doesn’t mean nothing. He has no idea I like him but he’s told me we’re to close and too alike to ever be together I... show more
    I really have feelings for my best friend and we kiss and make out and I’ve gone down on him a few times before but he tells me he feels comfortable around me enough to do that type of stuff and it doesn’t mean nothing. He has no idea I like him but he’s told me we’re to close and too alike to ever be together I feel like he’s not being honest with me.. I don’t wanna tell him how I feel, that’s literally not an option.
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  • Is it normal that my boyfriend doesn’t let me wear short skirts?

    Best answer: There is a big difference between "doesn't want me to" or Doesn't let me". If he is ASKING you to PLEASE not wear those things, then he is concerned about your appearance and how others might perceive you when you dress that way. (He doesn't want other guys looking up your skirts.) If... show more
    Best answer: There is a big difference between "doesn't want me to" or Doesn't let me".

    If he is ASKING you to PLEASE not wear those things, then he is concerned about your appearance and how others might perceive you when you dress that way. (He doesn't want other guys looking up your skirts.)

    If his is TELLING you to NOT wear those things, then he is manipulating you. Guys like this start out by telling their girl friends not to do small things. Like "don't wear that skirt, I don't like it". As time goes on, they add more things to the "don't do it" list until you have a father instead of a boyfriend. Guys like this will also do everything they can to keep you away from your friends. If you stay with them long enough, they will even keep you away from your family. They will make sure they have total control of every aspect of your life.

    Anytime you start a sentence with "he doesn't let me", then you are in a bad relationship. Relationships must be a compromise and should never be one partner telling the other one things they can't do.
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  • Why must I be inadequate to women?

    What's the point in dating if you're inadequate to women. Women do not want me, or my measly 5.5 inch penis. It really is an awful feeling, to know women think I'm not good enough either. I hate my life so much.
    What's the point in dating if you're inadequate to women. Women do not want me, or my measly 5.5 inch penis. It really is an awful feeling, to know women think I'm not good enough either. I hate my life so much.
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  • How can I force my friend to have sex with me?

    My friend is so hot, her father just died and I have always been attracted to her. She has been so upset and depressed. I have been trying to make her have sex with me to make her feel better, because I know it would help her cope with her problems, but she keeps rejecting me. What is the best way to approach her?
    My friend is so hot, her father just died and I have always been attracted to her. She has been so upset and depressed. I have been trying to make her have sex with me to make her feel better, because I know it would help her cope with her problems, but she keeps rejecting me. What is the best way to approach her?
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  • Is this considered rape?

    Best answer: You need to tell your friend "Either you talk to me and come clean about whats happening, or I am going to go to the police because I need to know that you are ok and I need to know what is going on, for your safety". If your friend talks to you, and opens up, then you will know more about how to best... show more
    Best answer: You need to tell your friend "Either you talk to me and come clean about whats happening, or I am going to go to the police because I need to know that you are ok and I need to know what is going on, for your safety".

    If your friend talks to you, and opens up, then you will know more about how to best handle it.

    Its possible she's crying for an unrelated reason, and its possible the bruises are from consensual rough sex. Maybe her grandma just died? Maybe she's generally depressed?

    Obviously you don't want your friend to be depressed, but just because your friend is depressed wouldn't mean that her boyfriend is a rapist. You know? It's unfair to jump to such conclusions.

    I know it sounds weird but a lot of girls start having sex at 16,
    A lot of girls like older guys,
    And a lot of girls are very into rough sex and enjoy it and orgasm from it, blah blah blah.

    That is all common.

    Is he raping her? Possibly yes, possibly no, there's no real way to tell.

    But I could say "are you (the asker) killing somebody and hiding them in your garage? Possibly yes, possibly no" you see what I mean? Like you have no proof of anything, just speculation. Bruises happen during CONSENSUAL sex too.

    DON'T ACCUSE SOMEONE OF SOMETHING WITHOUT PROOF, UNLESS YOU ALSO WOULD LIKE TO BE FALSELY ACCUSED OF A SERIOUS CRIME WITHOUT PROOF. You will never know how horrible a false accusation is, until it happens to you. Luckily, you are PRIVILEGED, you are a woman so you don't experience false accusations like men do.

    I am 26 and my girlfriend is 25 (so we are basically the exact same age) and she's into rough sex and sometimes she gets bruises on her thighs, in fact she usually does. That is not "rape". In fact, heck, she wants sex more than I do most of the time lol. Like I'll be playing video games and she'll have to distract me LOL. So yeah. But she likes to be grabbed hard, choked, etc. THat's just pretty normal for girls.

    I know you are really young so maybe you have not even hit puberty yet, or developed a sex drive yet, or perhaps you don't even know what sex is like and are a virgin. Its honestly something you shouldn't be focusing on yet, school is more important. However, your friend is clearly a very sexual person and into sex.

    One thing I know for sure: If she was not into this guy, she would just dump him, simple as that.

    It's also possible the SEX is consensual but maybe he also hits her sometimes? If she has BLACK EYES or BROKEN NOSES or BRUISED JAWS, that is when you should worry. Most domestic violence cases, the man hits the girl in the face. So if she has those sorts of injuries, you should be alarmed. If its bruises on her legs and arms, thats probably from rough sex, yo.
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  • Friends with “benefits” but no sex?

    I have a guy friend that i see regularly and go to his house. We hug, kiss and playfight a lot and he has touched my butt and boobs, which turns him on a lot and he wants more but he doesn’t want a relationship “at the moment”. However i am not willing to give in to anything more than whats happened if there is no... show more
    I have a guy friend that i see regularly and go to his house. We hug, kiss and playfight a lot and he has touched my butt and boobs, which turns him on a lot and he wants more but he doesn’t want a relationship “at the moment”. However i am not willing to give in to anything more than whats happened if there is no relationship and i am a virgin. I dont know what to do, if i should continue seeing him etc. I dont want to lose him as a friend as we get along so good and have a great laugh every time but then im scared he will force me to do anything i dont want to and that im not ready for if i continue seeing him. Any advice?
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  • When was the last time the timing of something blew your mind a little?

    I changed my phone number last night, and less than 24 hours before I changed it, this dude that I felt bad for letting go...texted me....I had lost his number and thought I'd never talk to him again. Pretty strange....maybe fate is working? That was truly his last chance to contact me and he succeeded just... show more
    I changed my phone number last night, and less than 24 hours before I changed it, this dude that I felt bad for letting go...texted me....I had lost his number and thought I'd never talk to him again. Pretty strange....maybe fate is working? That was truly his last chance to contact me and he succeeded just in time. I don't know though....I pray for a little decisiveness
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  • My girlfriend wants to have sex for Christmas? What do I do?

    We've only been dating since September. We have only hugged and kissed. I'm a virgin and nervous. Don't make fun of me. If I suck and don't impress her, it will be embarrassing. My penis is also not that big. Its not tiny either, but not very big. I wish I was bigger. I'm about 5 and half... show more
    We've only been dating since September. We have only hugged and kissed. I'm a virgin and nervous. Don't make fun of me. If I suck and don't impress her, it will be embarrassing. My penis is also not that big. Its not tiny either, but not very big. I wish I was bigger. I'm about 5 and half inches hard. I've already got her good gifts for Christmas, but she doesn't care and only talks about wanting to have sex. She's a very sexual girl, I didn't know girls were like this. She constantly slaps my butt and even grabs it sometimes. She is my first girlfriend and kiss ever. I didnt even hit on her, she came onto me. I actually have no game. She is very beautiful though. I just don't know if I should have sex, I don't know if I will marry her in the future. But if I tell her,"no," she'll get mad. What do I do? Should I just get it out the way? Were 16 BTW.
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