• Should I leave my boyfriend because months ago he undressed me when I was asleep and sick?

    Months ago I posted a question in which I described the whole situation and most of the answers justified his behaviour claiming that he did the right thing. I had high fever (39°), and he was sleeping at my house for the first time because my parents were abroad. I was alone at home and had fever. The first day... show more
    Months ago I posted a question in which I described the whole situation and most of the answers justified his behaviour claiming that he did the right thing. I had high fever (39°), and he was sleeping at my house for the first time because my parents were abroad. I was alone at home and had fever. The first day that I was sick he stood by me, gave me medicines and cooked for me. The second day the temperature raised and I really really sick, and I woke up in the middle of the night shivering, naked (without the upper part of the pj, the undershirt and bra) and when I asked him why, almost crying, he said: because you were sick and your clothes were wet and I had to. He gave me dry clothes and something to lower the temperature. He turned off the light and I felt so ashamed and angry at him and at myself because he had seen me naked. He had never seen me naked before, it was humiliating. I'm also hurting because I think that I'm mean for thinking bad about him, because he did it for good, but I don't know, it's like he isn't the perfect guy I had always thought of, I was really in love with him, but I dare you to find yourself suddenly naked and not to be angry or resent him. I always thought he was perfect but after all these months I still have nightmares about that night.
    48 answers · 3 days ago
  • Your opinion on a woman who only dates black guys?

    Best answer: I don't know why but I usually think of them as sl*tty or big ego.
    Best answer: I don't know why but I usually think of them as sl*tty or big ego.
    26 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it bad to have 2 boyfriends?

    I can’t believe this is happening when before I was crying about being single but now it looks like I’m about to have not 1 but 2 dudes in my life. This guy that used to work at my job really likes me he lives next to me and wants to ask me out and try’s his hardest to get with me. The other day he came knocking on... show more
    I can’t believe this is happening when before I was crying about being single but now it looks like I’m about to have not 1 but 2 dudes in my life. This guy that used to work at my job really likes me he lives next to me and wants to ask me out and try’s his hardest to get with me. The other day he came knocking on my door but ran.. there’s this new guy at my job and he’s already flirting with me he’s always smiling at me there just no telling when he’s gonna go in for the kill..and i gotta say he’s really cute.. to be honest I’m not gonna say no to neither one..I think it’s fun 2 have 2 boyfriends I just can’t believe this is happening I’m so happy overal is this bad?
    31 answers · 3 days ago
  • Is there hope for this relationship?

    My boyfriend and I have been together for about four months. He pressured me into moving in with him after 8 weeks. At first, I told him it was too soon but then I gave in and moved in with him because he kept pressuring me. Since then, we've had a lot of problems. I pay him rent, I buy groceries...I cook, he... show more
    My boyfriend and I have been together for about four months. He pressured me into moving in with him after 8 weeks. At first, I told him it was too soon but then I gave in and moved in with him because he kept pressuring me. Since then, we've had a lot of problems. I pay him rent, I buy groceries...I cook, he drives my car. I do everything for him that he complains his exes never did. He picks fights with me almost every day over petty things. Then we argue and he tries to manipulate me and blame me for everything. I called out of work last week because I was too upset to go to work after arguing with him. I am seeing so many red flags with him...he's an alcoholic and he's in massive debt. He lies to me about everything and if I confront him, we get into terrible fights and he never takes responsibility for anything he does. I really can't talk to him about anything because he's super sensitive and he acts like a child. We never go out on dates anymore...I feel like I'm living a nightmare and I have nowhere else to go. We fought yesterday because he suggested that I put his Disney pass on my credit card, because he can't afford it, then he blew up on me. He said, "I'm not feeling good about our relationship. I'll leave it up to you if you want to end it". Then I said that I would leave if he wanted me to and he said, "I don't want you to leave. I just don't know how to fix this". I am so stressed out and unsure of what to do, or if this can be fixed.
    15 answers · 5 hours ago
  • My boyfriend won’t be intimate with me, and I don’t know how to fix it.?

    I don’t mean just sexually, although that is a major part of it (if I never initiated, we’d probably have sex less than every other month). I mean, he’s gotten super non-affectionate or romantic, and I feel more like I’m just a friend of his who he happens to sleep in the same bed with. I understand that he hurts... show more
    I don’t mean just sexually, although that is a major part of it (if I never initiated, we’d probably have sex less than every other month). I mean, he’s gotten super non-affectionate or romantic, and I feel more like I’m just a friend of his who he happens to sleep in the same bed with. I understand that he hurts constantly, and is tired from work (he is a technician), but I just want HIM to cuddle with ME sometimes. Or to hold MY hand. I’m always the one who has to ask to cuddle, or take his hand. I know it sounds like he is just not interested in me anymore, but I am sure it’s not that. And I’ve brought up a conversation about it a few different times, but he always just ends up convinced he’s a jerk and doesn’t oay attention to my needs, even though that’s all he tries to do constantly. He always makes me choose whatever I want to do, and he tried to do what he thinks will make me happy. But anyways, how to I try to fix this? Or at least, how can I try communicating with him in a way that he doesn’t feel bad? (Even though that’s all I try to do. Each time I’ve brought it up I’ve tried phrasing things differently, etc, so he recieves it better, but he always ends up thinking he’s the a**hole.)
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • I'm 33 and a man and have still never had sex and I feel like I've totally missed out and am quickly losing my chance?

    Even though I've never had it I'm sure it is lifes greatest pleasure than one can experience. I'm not a virgin because I'm ugly either. In fact I'm somewhat the opposite. I've just lived as such a recluse for so long due to debilitating social anxiety. I also have little confidence. I... show more
    Even though I've never had it I'm sure it is lifes greatest pleasure than one can experience. I'm not a virgin because I'm ugly either. In fact I'm somewhat the opposite. I've just lived as such a recluse for so long due to debilitating social anxiety. I also have little confidence. I was also waiting for marriage for several years which I now know many regret. Plus I was religious for a long time and I'm not now. I can NEVER get my younger years back now and I feel I've missed out completely on the ultimate pleasure.
    41 answers · 4 days ago
  • Sex and religion. I think I was judged?

    Best answer: To a lot of Jewish guys, gentile girls are a little exotic. Even today, most cannot or will not marry outside of their religion. Still some very strong cultural and family feelings on this issue. But I'm sure he enjoyed getting laid. Other faiths are like this, too, although they don't generally take it... show more
    Best answer: To a lot of Jewish guys, gentile girls are a little exotic. Even today, most cannot or will not marry outside of their religion. Still some very strong cultural and family feelings on this issue. But I'm sure he enjoyed getting laid.

    Other faiths are like this, too, although they don't generally take it as far as having sex. A Mormon or a Muslim will 'date' a gentile, but at the first sign that it is getting anywhere close to 'intimate', they run for the hills.

    Believe it or not, faith is still VERY important to a lot of people.
    17 answers · 1 day ago
  • How would you describe your sex appeal?

    Best answer: I would qualify as a straight 5 nothing special
    nothing ugly either I'm dead centrė that's my
    own view of myself from what I've 🙄 seen.
    Best answer: I would qualify as a straight 5 nothing special
    nothing ugly either I'm dead centrė that's my
    own view of myself from what I've 🙄 seen.
    36 answers · 4 days ago
  • My wife slept with a young guy??????

    Soo my wife is 36 years old, and we have 2 beautiful kids. But recently I just found out my wife cheated on me with a 23 year old guy from work. Like why would she sleep with a 23 year old????????? Why?????????
    Soo my wife is 36 years old, and we have 2 beautiful kids. But recently I just found out my wife cheated on me with a 23 year old guy from work. Like why would she sleep with a 23 year old????????? Why?????????
    15 answers · 1 day ago
  • I find girls with blonde hair & colored eyes the most attractive but I'm too afraid to make a move because generally they prefer other races?

    What to do? I feel really miserable because of this. A part of me thinks that I should try talking to them but a part of me(brain) tells me to calm down because they generally are not attracted to white guys so what chances do a boring and plain average looking white guy like me have? I thought about changing my... show more
    What to do? I feel really miserable because of this. A part of me thinks that I should try talking to them but a part of me(brain) tells me to calm down because they generally are not attracted to white guys so what chances do a boring and plain average looking white guy like me have? I thought about changing my type so many times, almost having like an inside battle against my own self so many times but in the end... I love blondes with colored eyes. I actually wish I didn't because I could move on, live my life, be happy, meet a girl, but no... I am this stupid guy complaining like a whiny lil kid stucked in the same place, living my boring life knowing that Im too scared to step out of the comfort zone. Any advice? I could really use some...
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • I asked my boyfriend if he loved me, he said “Only Partly” what to do?

    He said “I only love my bed and my momma, I’m sorry.”
    He said “I only love my bed and my momma, I’m sorry.”
    14 answers · 1 day ago
  • Wasn't I good enough for you?

    Best answer: That's what she said.!
    Best answer: That's what she said.!
    4 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should i write a goodbye letter to my ex bf? I need closure?

    Best answer: If you think it would help you, then write a letter.
    Best answer: If you think it would help you, then write a letter.
    11 answers · 18 hours ago
  • Should I confront my boyfriend about his Tinder?

    We met on Tinder and we both continued using it even after becoming exclusive. Been together 8 months. We reassured each other that it was just for fun and i was okay with it and he was too. There's trust. I never message any guys back I just like swiping around reading bios when I get bored. I've been... show more
    We met on Tinder and we both continued using it even after becoming exclusive. Been together 8 months. We reassured each other that it was just for fun and i was okay with it and he was too. There's trust. I never message any guys back I just like swiping around reading bios when I get bored. I've been checking in on his Tinder thru his phone lately to make sure he's not crossing the line and he damn well is. He flirts with the girls and even sent messages insinuating they should meet up. Messages saying things like "I went to ____ I should've taken you with" and "When are you free?" None of the girls seem all that interested in him and conversations have died off so it never gone to the point of them setting up a date but I can't help but think what if they didn't ghost him, would he had actually met them? He says he just goes on there because he gets bored. The last girl sent the last message a week ago and my boyfriend hasn't replied so in a way that makes me have faith that he really do just get on tinder out of boredom. I'm still pretty hurt by the messages and his actions. I just let it go in the end though because the convo ended a week ago. However, i'm still thinking about it now, days after seeing the messages and now feel like confronting him after all but is it even worth it?
    8 answers · 6 hours ago