• Do guys find innocent girls attractive?

    I am 19 and I am not the most educated when it comes to sex. My boyfriend and I talk about sexual things every so often and at times I have to ask him what certain things are because I don't know. I'm also still a virgin and just watched porn for the first time a month ago (and I found most of it to be too... show more
    I am 19 and I am not the most educated when it comes to sex. My boyfriend and I talk about sexual things every so often and at times I have to ask him what certain things are because I don't know. I'm also still a virgin and just watched porn for the first time a month ago (and I found most of it to be too much for me). Do you think being innocent like that is a turn off?
    53 answers · 2 days ago
  • Do I act white?

    I am an 18 year old black girl, and I've heard several people say this to me. I don't know if it's the way I talk, act, or my interests. I didn't even grow up around white people, but I was sheltered and books were my friends, so I guess that's why I sound/act a bit different. I am also heavily... show more
    I am an 18 year old black girl, and I've heard several people say this to me. I don't know if it's the way I talk, act, or my interests. I didn't even grow up around white people, but I was sheltered and books were my friends, so I guess that's why I sound/act a bit different. I am also heavily into bdsm. It turns me on a lot and I haven't found any black people that's interested. Like one of my favorite movies is "Fifty Shades Of Grey". Although I know that it is a but exaggerated, it still turns me on. I love kinky stuff. All the black people I know says how "sick" the movie is, but it turns me on a lot. I want to be both Dom/submissive. It is just like so hot! Is this "acting white" or just like being me.
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • Boyfriend gets tired after sex?!?

    We are both 18. I have never had an orgasm .. hard to do it on myself and hard for him to do it to me. With 1 round of sex he cums too fast... and then we just end and obviously I’m not satisfied. This one time I asked for 2 rounds and he was so tired that we had a couple of days without having sex because of how... show more
    We are both 18. I have never had an orgasm .. hard to do it on myself and hard for him to do it to me. With 1 round of sex he cums too fast... and then we just end and obviously I’m not satisfied. This one time I asked for 2 rounds and he was so tired that we had a couple of days without having sex because of how exhausted he was. Help?
    55 answers · 3 days ago
  • Would you go out with an unemployed woman?

    Best answer: It matters, depending on why. If she's in college full time with a scholarship and doesn't need to work, or else her coursework is extremely involved and her parents are helping or she's taking some loans right now or something, that's her own business and not a problem. If she's mooching off... show more
    Best answer: It matters, depending on why. If she's in college full time with a scholarship and doesn't need to work, or else her coursework is extremely involved and her parents are helping or she's taking some loans right now or something, that's her own business and not a problem.
    If she's mooching off her parents and not doing anything productive with her life, then that's probably not a good idea. She's probably lazy and has no life goals.
    If she had a job and just got laid off because there were too many people or something and she's searching for another, that's fine too.
    62 answers · 4 days ago
  • Ummm...why is he doing this?

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    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • This ugly girl at my school likes me help?

    This ugly girl at my school told me that she likes me and asked me to go out with her, I told her that i would never go out with someone as ugly as her. She cried and ran away, but she still keeps looking at me?! how can i keep her away??
    This ugly girl at my school told me that she likes me and asked me to go out with her, I told her that i would never go out with someone as ugly as her. She cried and ran away, but she still keeps looking at me?! how can i keep her away??
    36 answers · 5 days ago
  • Women! Will you help me to understand the propaganda against nice guys? What do you believe about them? What makes them scary?

    The jerks win by elaborate deception. Propaganda. Convincing you ladies that night is day and that cold feels warm. Principally that nice guys are bad and that jerks are your salvation. We know you secretly like us but are afraid to pull the trigger and risk feeling cast out. What is the basis for this fear?... show more
    The jerks win by elaborate deception. Propaganda. Convincing you ladies that night is day and that cold feels warm. Principally that nice guys are bad and that jerks are your salvation. We know you secretly like us but are afraid to pull the trigger and risk feeling cast out. What is the basis for this fear? What do you believe?
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • Can a 21 year old guy marry a 42 year old woman?

    We have been dating for over a year and I have already moved in with her. We want to get married and start a family together. She told me her whole life story about how she's wanted kids ever since she was little, but no other guys would ever give her a chance and she thought she was just going to die alone and... show more
    We have been dating for over a year and I have already moved in with her. We want to get married and start a family together. She told me her whole life story about how she's wanted kids ever since she was little, but no other guys would ever give her a chance and she thought she was just going to die alone and never get her wish. I teared up when she said that. I want to give her the life she's always wanted. She pretty much told me she would say yes if I asked her. She caught me looking at rings and just walked away with the biggest grin on her face. I'm nervous because she wants to meet my family and tell them the good news, but I don't know how they will react. Could this work out? How long could we be together and could she still have kids at her age?
    12 answers · 20 hours ago
  • Was thinking about taking up modelling, my bf doesnt want me to? He called me an attention seeker and is now ignoring me?

    Best answer: You may well be attention-seeking....but thst is your choice, to which you are entitled.
    He is attempting to be controlling. That is a danger sign: will it happen in other areas?
    Best answer: You may well be attention-seeking....but thst is your choice, to which you are entitled.
    He is attempting to be controlling. That is a danger sign: will it happen in other areas?
    41 answers · 5 days ago
  • Why do people care so much about appearance and not enough about personality?

    Best answer: Yes, what is pretty is subjective but only to a certain degree and framework. Their is a certain standards of looks you have too meet to at least get called or be considered pretty by other people and society. A person with acne, a person with an oversized body part, buck teeth, wrinkly skin, oversized nose, non... show more
    Best answer: Yes, what is pretty is subjective but only to a certain degree and framework.

    Their is a certain standards of looks you have too meet to at least get called or be considered pretty by other people and society.
    A person with acne, a person with an oversized body part, buck teeth, wrinkly skin, oversized nose, non symetrical face, certain types of deformanties, obese people, a person with warts, a person with a uni-brow, a person with lots of moles or a woman with a beard will find it incredibly hard or impossible for somebody too think of them as good looking.

    People naturally think/assume you have a better personality and better qualities if you are good looking.

    Ugly looking people are also associated/naturally assumed to have nasty personalities and poor qualitied. Nobody likes nasty people and poor qualities

    This is called the Horns Effect and Halo Effect it is a psychological cognitive bias.
    11 answers · 20 hours ago
  • He said he was going to bed but...?

    alr so i overthink everything, and last night i was texting this guy that i’m starting to have feelings for and he said that he was going to bed but was still up like 2 hours later. he was playing video games the whole time. did he not wanna talk to me or?
    alr so i overthink everything, and last night i was texting this guy that i’m starting to have feelings for and he said that he was going to bed but was still up like 2 hours later. he was playing video games the whole time. did he not wanna talk to me or?
    11 answers · 21 hours ago
  • My boyfriend wants me to perform oral sex on him during my period.?

    Well,I dont't have any problem about have sex during my period,but my boyfriend don't want to do it because of religious reasons,but he still wants me to perform oral sex on him (I never did by the way). My question is... How can this makes sense? I have the obligation to give him pleasure and I can't... show more
    Well,I dont't have any problem about have sex during my period,but my boyfriend don't want to do it because of religious reasons,but he still wants me to perform oral sex on him (I never did by the way). My question is... How can this makes sense? I have the obligation to give him pleasure and I can't have just because he is too religious to do it during my period?
    17 answers · 2 days ago
  • What can i do to prove to my boyfriend i am not cheating?

    Best answer: "What can i do to prove to my boyfriend i am not cheating?" - You can't. If he really thinks you are, it's up to him to prove that you are. "i woke up and it was 12:33am to his texts accusing me of being with someone else " - The dude is insecure and doesn't trust you. The... show more
    Best answer: "What can i do to prove to my boyfriend i am not cheating?" - You can't. If he really thinks you are, it's up to him to prove that you are.

    "i woke up and it was 12:33am to his texts accusing me of being with someone else " - The dude is insecure and doesn't trust you. The relationship isn't going anywhere unless those issues get resolved. No trust = no relationship. Anyone who would accuse you of cheating because you didn't show up when you said you were, isn't good dating material. Yeah, you were in the wrong for saying you'd be there and then not going, but that doesn't justify anyone jumping to the conclusion of cheating.

    "He wants me at his apartment every week day " - You're dating, you're not married. He's too clingy. You should both be able to have a life apart from one another, especially if you don't live together.

    Move on. You and your kids are better off on your own, than with someone who feels the need to have you under his thumb all the time. He's the one who should be apologizing and asking for your forgiveness, to even suggest you cheated.
    9 answers · 13 hours ago
  • Love her but can't stop cheating on her?

    I know people are gonna think im a bad person but i do really care for my gf and love her but being with 1 girl is just impossible for a man it goes against our natural animal instics , Shes a loving caring girlfriend and I know maybe i don't deserve her but that's why im here asking for help or advice I... show more
    I know people are gonna think im a bad person but i do really care for my gf and love her but being with 1 girl is just impossible for a man it goes against our natural animal instics , Shes a loving caring girlfriend and I know maybe i don't deserve her but that's why im here asking for help or advice I dont know what to do or how to stop
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • I cheated on my boyfriend and I feel bad?

    I know I messed up and I didn’t mean to hurt him, I feel so bad because I know it’s gonna break his heart because he always spoke about loving me and wanting to marry me and have a family with me and I messed up bad. What should I do? I feel like crying
    I know I messed up and I didn’t mean to hurt him, I feel so bad because I know it’s gonna break his heart because he always spoke about loving me and wanting to marry me and have a family with me and I messed up bad. What should I do? I feel like crying
    8 answers · 9 hours ago