• Does friends with benefits really work?

    I told this guy I really like him as a friend and that I didn't want to ruin our friendship with sex. And this is what he said but people always say sex ruins friendships. Me:Well, I really like you as a friend that's why I bought you a present for your birthday and I don't want sex to ruin it.... show more
    I told this guy I really like him as a friend and that I didn't want to ruin our friendship with sex. And this is what he said but people always say sex ruins friendships. Me:Well, I really like you as a friend that's why I bought you a present for your birthday and I don't want sex to ruin it. Him:Sex will only ruin it if you want something more that I'm not willing to give. Keep your expectations low and you won't be disappointed. That's what I do. **I was the one who mentioned sex to him. I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits. He never said anything to me about sex until I asked him. Before I ever asked him about having sex he had asked me to hangout.**
    18 answers · 1 day ago
  • If your friend paid for your boob job, would you be ok if he then asked to see the results?

    So I’m 30 and male and my friend is female and is 27. We’ve been friends for over 10 years now and we’re very close. Unfortunately we live about 3 hours from each other now and one day when I was in town, my friend told me how she really wanted bigger breast. I told her I’d buy her a boob job for her birthday under... show more
    So I’m 30 and male and my friend is female and is 27. We’ve been friends for over 10 years now and we’re very close. Unfortunately we live about 3 hours from each other now and one day when I was in town, my friend told me how she really wanted bigger breast. I told her I’d buy her a boob job for her birthday under the condition that I get to see them. This is not me trying to be perverted. This is me making sure she uses the money for what she says she’s using it for and the only way for me to ensure that is to be there when it happens. She’s agreed to my terms but what do you guys think? If you were a female and your male friend offered to pay for your boob job, would you be ok in letting him see the results?
    24 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is this bad or am i just sensitive?

    okay so I'm in a group of 3 friends and one of them is really popular and we get along really well until the other one keeps trying too hard to be her friend so it pushes me out. I try and talk to them but the other one just clings onto the popular one so I can't get a word in. every time we are in class... show more
    okay so I'm in a group of 3 friends and one of them is really popular and we get along really well until the other one keeps trying too hard to be her friend so it pushes me out. I try and talk to them but the other one just clings onto the popular one so I can't get a word in. every time we are in class they are laughing away and I'm just sat there with no one to talk to. And they don't even notice that I'm upset. I feel like they don't care about me at all. Am I just being sensitive?
    14 answers · 1 day ago
  • Friend constantly tells me I am not invited to her wedding. Proper etiquette?

    A girl I went to highschool with is getting married early next year.She has always been "out there" and invited herself to my 2nd wedding a decade ago and appointed herself bridesmaid without being asked. I was polite and allowed it since nobody else would participate. She talks about her upcoming wedding... show more
    A girl I went to highschool with is getting married early next year.She has always been "out there" and invited herself to my 2nd wedding a decade ago and appointed herself bridesmaid without being asked. I was polite and allowed it since nobody else would participate. She talks about her upcoming wedding a lot and always says "you are not being invited just putting that out there" or she will mention where she is registered for gifts and when I mention what all do you need she says "dont buy me anything, its not like you are being invited anyway we don't have the space we are having 150 people". I understand she has free will and she can do as she pleases regarding her wedding. But I can't help but feel she is being a childish brat by constantly saying this. My relative told me this is not a true friend and at being in our mid 30s this is asinine behavior and to cut off the friendship stat. What should I do?
    16 answers · 2 days ago
  • Do i have the right to be mad?

    basically I was having a small argument with this girl. let's call her A. A told my best friend O about the argument from her point of view. O texted me about it so I told O all about what had happened and um my thoughts towards A. O (my 'best friend'!!) then decided to take screenshots and sent them to... show more
    basically I was having a small argument with this girl. let's call her A. A told my best friend O about the argument from her point of view. O texted me about it so I told O all about what had happened and um my thoughts towards A. O (my 'best friend'!!) then decided to take screenshots and sent them to A!! which got me into a lot of stuff with my friendship group because A sent the screenshots of what I said to everyone!! do I have the right to be mad at O???
    12 answers · 1 day ago
  • What does it mean if two ex's still look after each other eight years after splitting up.?

    He does the repairs on my house and gives me money when I am short and I cook for him still
    He does the repairs on my house and gives me money when I am short and I cook for him still
    9 answers · 11 hours ago
  • When a woman acts this way around a guy, could she want to date him?

    If she compliments his shirt, asks him if he drinks, if he has a girlfriend, and if he wants kids.
    If she compliments his shirt, asks him if he drinks, if he has a girlfriend, and if he wants kids.
    7 answers · 4 hours ago
  • Can a 16 year old and a 19 be FRIENDS?

    Best answer: No reason you can't be friends, that is a minor age difference. My best friend and I are nearly 30 years apart.
    Best answer: No reason you can't be friends, that is a minor age difference. My best friend and I are nearly 30 years apart.
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • Was this sexual harassment?

    My boss at work who is a very good friend called me in his private office one day and asked me if I wanted to be considered for a new position in the company. Jokingly I said “I like to try new positions”. With a big smile on his face, he said “If my boss knew what I was thinking now, I would be fired on the... show more
    My boss at work who is a very good friend called me in his private office one day and asked me if I wanted to be considered for a new position in the company. Jokingly I said “I like to try new positions”. With a big smile on his face, he said “If my boss knew what I was thinking now, I would be fired on the spot”. I told him “If something comes up, let me know”. We both had a good laugh. In the employee break room I told some of my female co workers about this and they told me that was sexual harassment. What do you think? Was that sexual harassment? If it was, who was harassing who? He did not say anything about sex.
    15 answers · 3 days ago
  • Do you have any suggestion?

    I can't refuse an invitation from somebody(friends or friends I'm not close with,). ex:let's eat out for lunch or diner, go to shopping, driving,grab a beer and so on. I really don't wanna go because tired that I am being with people.
    I can't refuse an invitation from somebody(friends or friends I'm not close with,). ex:let's eat out for lunch or diner, go to shopping, driving,grab a beer and so on. I really don't wanna go because tired that I am being with people.
    7 answers · 16 hours ago
  • I lost 2 good friends over a meme I posted. Please help!?

    So, on Mother's Day, I jokingly reposted a meme that argued about how having a pet doesn't make you a parent. I said something about how I was a "mom" to my 3 cats and that upset a couple of my friends who were moms. One of which I'd been friends with since 5th grade! We're 28 now.... show more
    So, on Mother's Day, I jokingly reposted a meme that argued about how having a pet doesn't make you a parent. I said something about how I was a "mom" to my 3 cats and that upset a couple of my friends who were moms. One of which I'd been friends with since 5th grade! We're 28 now. I've been there for her kids' birthday parties and when they were in the hospital. I've been there for every bad breakup and every big milestone in my friends' lives. I'm always such a good friend. I just can't believe that ONE meme taken out of context would end a friendship when everything else was going so well! I've apologized. I've self reflected and understood how what I said was wrong. I even broke down one of my comments that really upset them. Basically, they thought I was saying that the life of a child is equivalent to a pet. What I actually said was that someone who's a parent and their life has no more value than someone who isn't a parent. I have people who depend on me, too. I work in social services. I have other friends and family. Just because I don't have kids doesn't make it any less of a tragedy if something were to happen to me. How do I get my friends back? I know I was wrong, but they're not even listening to me or my point and it's like every good thing I did went out the window due to one joke taken out of context.
    7 answers · 16 hours ago
  • I'm in love with a 42 year old and I'm 21 nearly 22 and I'm so happy?

    I finally found someone who's perfect for me he may be doing another 7 months in jail but he's my hero we connect on a level that's beyond friendship he gets me and I get him the only thing I'm worried about is telling my family he's 44 will they disown me over it I don't care if they do... show more
    I finally found someone who's perfect for me he may be doing another 7 months in jail but he's my hero we connect on a level that's beyond friendship he gets me and I get him the only thing I'm worried about is telling my family he's 44 will they disown me over it I don't care if they do because he's my fiancee or should I lie about his age to them??
    7 answers · 22 hours ago
  • Is my friend overreacting?

    So last Saturday while on my way to my friend's wedding, i got into a bad car accident that required hospitalization. Since I was being treated all day I couldn't call her personally to tell her what happened I had my mom do it. She got mad because according to her she wasted an entire meal's worth on... show more
    So last Saturday while on my way to my friend's wedding, i got into a bad car accident that required hospitalization. Since I was being treated all day I couldn't call her personally to tell her what happened I had my mom do it. She got mad because according to her she wasted an entire meal's worth on me. She is also demanding i pay her for the meal. Is she right in doing this or is it a slight overreaction
    24 answers · 5 days ago
  • Was I wrong to read my friend’s messages?

    Yes I know what you are gonna say- “you invaded her privacy” But please hear me out. my BEST friend came and she logged into her snapchat on my phone so i let her. She forgot to log out when she left and I was curious. I peeked at a conversation on snapchat between her and my cousin (my cousin is also one of my... show more
    Yes I know what you are gonna say- “you invaded her privacy” But please hear me out. my BEST friend came and she logged into her snapchat on my phone so i let her. She forgot to log out when she left and I was curious. I peeked at a conversation on snapchat between her and my cousin (my cousin is also one of my other best friends) and they were COMPLETELY ******** about me! Basically this was just before our school camping trip. Lets call best friend C and cousin D C: heyyyy we should prank deeya on the camping trip. She just ft me and told me not to prank her so we have to something original. D: okay. It sucks shes sharinf our tent C: ikrrrrrr D: what if me and u move our sleeping bags together and tell her to move somewehere else and we can pretend we have a huge secret C: yess and ill bring my sharpie and we can draw something on deeyas (me) face. And there r no toilets so she cant wash it off D: yes lets do that. honestly though that ***** doesn’t even fit in shes just a ******* weirdo C: innittt. Like shes way to big for her boots. Shes always like following mw around idk what to do. D: idk we will talk about it tomorrow bye So i logged out immediately and I dont know what to do. I am SO upset because I’ve known D my whole life and I introduced both of them and now they are turning on me. And C is suchc a hypocrite like last week she was saying that she hated people who talked behind people’s backs. How can i confront her without letting her know I read her messages?
    7 answers · 1 day ago