• Do guys find innocent girls attractive?

    I am 19 and I am not the most educated when it comes to sex. My boyfriend and I talk about sexual things every so often and at times I have to ask him what certain things are because I don't know. I'm also still a virgin and just watched porn for the first time a month ago (and I found most of it to be too... show more
    I am 19 and I am not the most educated when it comes to sex. My boyfriend and I talk about sexual things every so often and at times I have to ask him what certain things are because I don't know. I'm also still a virgin and just watched porn for the first time a month ago (and I found most of it to be too much for me). Do you think being innocent like that is a turn off?
    53 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • I'm in my late 20s, why is it so hard to make friends?

    I live in New England and people are standoffish as ****, I go to public places and they're all into their phones and ipad and ****. I feel so alienated. My best friends are middle aged men I meet thru work and they're typically married and a bit leary of alienating their partners by spending too much... show more
    I live in New England and people are standoffish as ****, I go to public places and they're all into their phones and ipad and ****. I feel so alienated. My best friends are middle aged men I meet thru work and they're typically married and a bit leary of alienating their partners by spending too much time with a single, younger woman. I should get a husband or something but guys my age are so ******* blank and have their priorites elsewhere. I am suffering from lowkey depression and need to spend less time alone but I see no way to better fulfil my social needs.
    6 answers · Friends · 3 hours ago
  • Boyfriend gets tired after sex?!?

    We are both 18. I have never had an orgasm .. hard to do it on myself and hard for him to do it to me. With 1 round of sex he cums too fast... and then we just end and obviously I’m not satisfied. This one time I asked for 2 rounds and he was so tired that we had a couple of days without having sex because of how... show more
    We are both 18. I have never had an orgasm .. hard to do it on myself and hard for him to do it to me. With 1 round of sex he cums too fast... and then we just end and obviously I’m not satisfied. This one time I asked for 2 rounds and he was so tired that we had a couple of days without having sex because of how exhausted he was. Help?
    54 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • Would you go out with an unemployed woman?

    Best answer: It matters, depending on why. If she's in college full time with a scholarship and doesn't need to work, or else her coursework is extremely involved and her parents are helping or she's taking some loans right now or something, that's her own business and not a problem. If she's mooching off... show more
    Best answer: It matters, depending on why. If she's in college full time with a scholarship and doesn't need to work, or else her coursework is extremely involved and her parents are helping or she's taking some loans right now or something, that's her own business and not a problem.
    If she's mooching off her parents and not doing anything productive with her life, then that's probably not a good idea. She's probably lazy and has no life goals.
    If she had a job and just got laid off because there were too many people or something and she's searching for another, that's fine too.
    62 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 days ago
  • Ummm...why is he doing this?

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    10 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Do you think this could help a marriage?

    Best answer: you already know you should cut contact with this person because you are attractive to that person, sounds to me that you are looking for reinforcement but also sounds to me that you know clearly what to do as well, stay away and focus on working on your marriage if that is what you want to do, otherwise you know... show more
    Best answer: you already know you should cut contact with this person because you are attractive to that person, sounds to me that you are looking for reinforcement but also sounds to me that you know clearly what to do as well, stay away and focus on working on your marriage if that is what you want to do, otherwise you know better you are asking for trouble., Best of luck
    7 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 day ago
  • Should I babysit my niece and nephew for free?

    Best answer: She is correct in that it's nice for aunties to spend time with their nieces and nephews. However, you do that on an occasional basis when it's convenient for YOU...it's not a JOB with a required SCHEDULE. If it were my sister, I'd tell her that I'd be willing to fill in here and there if her... show more
    Best answer: She is correct in that it's nice for aunties to spend time with their nieces and nephews. However, you do that on an occasional basis when it's convenient for YOU...it's not a JOB with a required SCHEDULE.

    If it were my sister, I'd tell her that I'd be willing to fill in here and there if her regular carer was sick, but that your priorities are school and a paying job. You just don't have time for a five day a week volunteer position.

    Maybe your sister should make up with your mother. It's pretty cheeky of her to get into a pissing match with her unpaid employee and then expect you to pick up the slack.

    It's not like she is a single mother. These kids have two parents and they are responsible for them.
    25 answers · Family · 1 day ago
  • How should I handle this (and should I involve my son-in-law)?

    Our grandson (7 y/o) spent last week with us while his father was away for work reasons and his nanny was having a week off (our daughter has sadly passed away four years ago). Usually my grandson called me Granny, but over the week he insisted on using my first name. Last night when I called, he also did the same.... show more
    Our grandson (7 y/o) spent last week with us while his father was away for work reasons and his nanny was having a week off (our daughter has sadly passed away four years ago). Usually my grandson called me Granny, but over the week he insisted on using my first name. Last night when I called, he also did the same. However, he called my husband Gramp, as usual. I told grandson that he should call me Granny. I asked where he picked that up and grandson answered that his daddy (my son-in-law) also calls me that way. My son-in-law calls my husband "Dad" because my husband told him to do so long ago. I didn't, because of some misunderstandings in the past, and as years gone by it has become awkward to change. I don't know if my son-in-law has told his son to be disrespectful toward me. How should I bring this up with my son-in-law? I don't want to have another fight with him. My husband said just let it go, but I don't want this to become a habit, or that our grandson grow up thinking I'm a witch or something.
    7 answers · Family · 17 hours ago
  • How do I tell a baby it’s dad died from a toy it left on the stairs and their dad tripped over it?

    Best answer: You murdered daddy
    Best answer: You murdered daddy
    15 answers · Family · 14 hours ago
  • Do I act white?

    I am an 18 year old black girl, and I've heard several people say this to me. I don't know if it's the way I talk, act, or my interests. I didn't even grow up around white people, but I was sheltered and books were my friends, so I guess that's why I sound/act a bit different. I am also heavily... show more
    I am an 18 year old black girl, and I've heard several people say this to me. I don't know if it's the way I talk, act, or my interests. I didn't even grow up around white people, but I was sheltered and books were my friends, so I guess that's why I sound/act a bit different. I am also heavily into bdsm. It turns me on a lot and I haven't found any black people that's interested. Like one of my favorite movies is "Fifty Shades Of Grey". Although I know that it is a but exaggerated, it still turns me on. I love kinky stuff. All the black people I know says how "sick" the movie is, but it turns me on a lot. I want to be both Dom/submissive. It is just like so hot! Is this "acting white" or just like being me.
    10 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • Is it okay to slap your 15 year old when necessary?

    I got into an argument that my daughter is too young to date someone in college. She talked back and became angry with me. I slapped her and CPS is involved because she went to the counselor the next day, told her that I disapproved of her trying to date someone. The conversation focused on why she “loves” a... show more
    I got into an argument that my daughter is too young to date someone in college. She talked back and became angry with me. I slapped her and CPS is involved because she went to the counselor the next day, told her that I disapproved of her trying to date someone. The conversation focused on why she “loves” a college boy, but the school called CPS to inform them about multiple concerns. They’re related to not only child abuse, but the fact that she’s a young girl involved with an older man.
    29 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • This ugly girl at my school likes me help?

    This ugly girl at my school told me that she likes me and asked me to go out with her, I told her that i would never go out with someone as ugly as her. She cried and ran away, but she still keeps looking at me?! how can i keep her away??
    This ugly girl at my school told me that she likes me and asked me to go out with her, I told her that i would never go out with someone as ugly as her. She cried and ran away, but she still keeps looking at me?! how can i keep her away??
    36 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 days ago
  • My Friend fingered me. How do I get over this?

    Long story short, I invited my friend over for sleepover and then we kinda got into sexual topic and started talking about it all night. And she suggested we watch porn and stuff. Now at that moment, I didn't know what I was thinking so I went along with experimenting and stuff and I kinda let her finger me... show more
    Long story short, I invited my friend over for sleepover and then we kinda got into sexual topic and started talking about it all night. And she suggested we watch porn and stuff. Now at that moment, I didn't know what I was thinking so I went along with experimenting and stuff and I kinda let her finger me while watching because of stupidity. Now I didn't even get aroused or anything because I felt really violated and stuff. At the end things got awkward and I don't even talk to her or text her anymore because of this. I can't get mad at her as I willingly let her do it. How can I get over this and stop feeling guilty.
    5 answers · Friends · 23 hours ago
  • Women! Will you help me to understand the propaganda against nice guys? What do you believe about them? What makes them scary?

    The jerks win by elaborate deception. Propaganda. Convincing you ladies that night is day and that cold feels warm. Principally that nice guys are bad and that jerks are your salvation. We know you secretly like us but are afraid to pull the trigger and risk feeling cast out. What is the basis for this fear?... show more
    The jerks win by elaborate deception. Propaganda. Convincing you ladies that night is day and that cold feels warm. Principally that nice guys are bad and that jerks are your salvation. We know you secretly like us but are afraid to pull the trigger and risk feeling cast out. What is the basis for this fear? What do you believe?
    7 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago