• Boyfriend sent me rules for our relationship?

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and recently we're in a rough patch. We don't want to break up, so I made the suggest of talking about this face to face and figuring out some things. So we meet up and right away he starts telling me like he feels the relationship is all on his shoulders and I... show more
    My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and recently we're in a rough patch. We don't want to break up, so I made the suggest of talking about this face to face and figuring out some things. So we meet up and right away he starts telling me like he feels the relationship is all on his shoulders and I barely contribute anything. I apparently don't compliment him enough, text him quick enough, pay for things and just make in not feel loved in general. I didn't really know he felt this way and it did hurt so I apologize. He told me he wants me to make it up towards him. A week goes by I get more active texting him and when we went out to dinner I paid. I've been trying to change But now he text me again saying I wasn't making him feel better and this isn't a relationship and sent me a list to follow from to get back on track. - I must send a good morning message that is at least 2 paragraph long, that consist of 2 compliments and a heart emoji - If I can't reply within an hour of his text message I have to call as soon as possible to explain why - I am not allowed to see my male friend anymore or even mention him until this gets worked out - We have to talk on the phone 4 days out of the week - I have to tell him I love 3 times a day I'm fuming. I told him this is insane and he said he doesn't know how we're going to work. Am I wrong here
    80 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • Why does my girlfriend seem so uninterested during sex?

    We used to be friends with benefits before we ever dated and our sex was amazing I’m rly rough and aggressive during sex and she loved it , she is into being submissive and we would have amazing sex and I am really good at going down on girls and I make her *** all the time from going down on her! The first 3/4... show more
    We used to be friends with benefits before we ever dated and our sex was amazing I’m rly rough and aggressive during sex and she loved it , she is into being submissive and we would have amazing sex and I am really good at going down on girls and I make her *** all the time from going down on her! The first 3/4 months of our relationship we still had a lot of sex. She said some things the past few months though about how “ our relationship isn’t all about sex” and I was just kinda confused since our relationship consists of a lot more then that we do all kinds of fun things and I do a lot for her I just paid to get her new tires and her car detailed and I’m only 19 , also I am paying her car insurance for her. I only make like 600/640 per paycheck because I’m in college I just don’t get the point of cutting down on sex. But long story short the past 3 months we have had sex twice... when we were friends with benefits we had sex like 100 plus times in the 2 and a half months it was going on.. I don’t expect that much my entire life but for 3 months to only have sex twice is concerning. I will be rough and she’ll push me off , or she’ll tease me all day and say she’s gonna **** me or give me head then at night she’ll jusf say she’s tired or well smoke weed and she will say she’s too high. I just don’t get it
    47 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Which men are the best husbands for women? White men, Black men, Asian men or Hindu men?

    Which race respects women the most?
    Which race respects women the most?
    55 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 days ago
  • How do I know that the girl I'm with is really a girl?

    With all the trannies that are out there now, how do I know the girl I'm talking to and am interested in is really a girl? I don't want to go to her place only to find out she's really a dude.
    With all the trannies that are out there now, how do I know the girl I'm talking to and am interested in is really a girl? I don't want to go to her place only to find out she's really a dude.
    23 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • Is it ok to let a 12 year old go to her boyfriends house?

    Best answer: If his parents are there and you know they'll keep an eye on them, sure. But if they're the type to let them hang out alone in his room, I would say no. Or you could talk to the parents first just to find out and get reassurance since you'll need to talk to them at one point anyway, if you haven't... show more
    Best answer: If his parents are there and you know they'll keep an eye on them, sure. But if they're the type to let them hang out alone in his room, I would say no. Or you could talk to the parents first just to find out and get reassurance since you'll need to talk to them at one point anyway, if you haven't already.
    60 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • Why does he complain about my cooking?

    Yesterday was my day to cook so I found a recipe that called for chicken breasts in a crock pot. I poured a can of cream of chicken coup over it and cooked it for like 5 hours. Opened a can of creamed corn and made some white rice. My husband sat down to eat and he took a few bits then had this strange look on... show more
    Yesterday was my day to cook so I found a recipe that called for chicken breasts in a crock pot. I poured a can of cream of chicken coup over it and cooked it for like 5 hours. Opened a can of creamed corn and made some white rice. My husband sat down to eat and he took a few bits then had this strange look on his face. I asked him what was wrong and he said the mean was bland and lacked any flavor. I told him toe soup had sodium in it so why would it be bland. He constantly tells me that I look for the easiest, simplest meals to cook because I really don't like standing in a kitchen stirring a pot or mixing seasonings. Do you think what I cooked was a bland meal? Or should he have just been the good little husband and ate it without comment? I'm 49 and think I'm a descent cook.
    26 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 day ago
  • I’m 20 and I want to have a relationship?

    I never had a boyfriend,I had dates but nothing works out (dates with guys I met online)😭 ,Am I the problem? Is because Im fat? I’m 5’1 ,162l
    I never had a boyfriend,I had dates but nothing works out (dates with guys I met online)😭 ,Am I the problem? Is because Im fat? I’m 5’1 ,162l
    59 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • Should I have an affair? Go through his phone?

    Recently married to a man 3 years younger than I am. He is not giving me enough affection already. I have talked about it until I am blue in the face. Should I have an affair? Talk again? Go through his phone? Or cry?
    Recently married to a man 3 years younger than I am. He is not giving me enough affection already. I have talked about it until I am blue in the face. Should I have an affair? Talk again? Go through his phone? Or cry?
    45 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • How to find a friend?

    How do I make friends. I have anxiety and I’m 18. I can’t just ask someone to be my friend.... so how do I make a friend.
    How do I make friends. I have anxiety and I’m 18. I can’t just ask someone to be my friend.... so how do I make a friend.
    7 answers · Friends · 9 hours ago
  • I love this guy but he said sex first?

    he said he need to see if we are sexually compatible first before we start dating. i really love him and i let him do it without condom since he wants to feel it from actual genital contact. now he is dating with me and another gal, he said he would dump me if that gal is more sexually compatible with him. i am... show more
    he said he need to see if we are sexually compatible first before we start dating. i really love him and i let him do it without condom since he wants to feel it from actual genital contact. now he is dating with me and another gal, he said he would dump me if that gal is more sexually compatible with him. i am worried and how i can keep him? tips and suggestion?
    19 answers · Singles & Dating · 15 hours ago
  • I failed as a parent , How do i fix it ... 10pts?

    I feel so terrible .. I give my daughter whatever she wants cause I had 5 siblings and never wanted her to feel the struggle . So I gave her everything she want's .She is now 16 and her birthday was last week and me and her father brought her a car , A new phone & a big party . She wasn't thankful AT... show more
    I feel so terrible .. I give my daughter whatever she wants cause I had 5 siblings and never wanted her to feel the struggle . So I gave her everything she want's .She is now 16 and her birthday was last week and me and her father brought her a car , A new phone & a big party . She wasn't thankful AT ALL !!!! she didn't even say thank you ! she's also very rude and disrespectful toward her younger brother that is 8 years of age ! I'm also pregnant and she stresses me out ! she can see that I'm taking bags out the car and she would just watch and not help. She's so lazy , She constantly yells at me and steals her phone every time I take it .. I just don't know what to do anymore .. HELP
    37 answers · Family · 4 days ago
  • Easy ways to attract rich White guys?

    Don't say "look pretty", that's already obvious
    Don't say "look pretty", that's already obvious
    21 answers · Family · 1 day ago
  • How can you move out without money?

    I'm 22, when I left school I didn't qualify for any grants as I have 2 working parents, they refused to pay for my college so I considered a loan, it was approved but they needed collateral, my parents refused to put anything up as a guarantee, so I worked. During that time I paid for driving lessons, a... show more
    I'm 22, when I left school I didn't qualify for any grants as I have 2 working parents, they refused to pay for my college so I considered a loan, it was approved but they needed collateral, my parents refused to put anything up as a guarantee, so I worked. During that time I paid for driving lessons, a provisional licence, my actual licence, my insurance on my dad's car so I could get to and from work and then they started charging me rent, it's Lower than normal rent so I stayed. I was working 6 days a week and saved enough for uni which was roughly £11,000 the problem is when I started uni I kept weekend work and I just had enough to pay rent and get a bus to and from uni and taxi's to and from work. So I'd have £30 left over each week and I saved around £500, then something happened in work, I fainted and they had to call an ambulance, luckily I had health insurance but they wouldn't let me go to work for 2 weeks as I needed rest, so now my bank account reads £20 and I'm back to work tomorrow. My dad came in and asked how I was feeling and I said fine now, I've missed a bit in college though, he then said "you know if you mess up you're out, rent or not" and walked off, the stress got to me and I started crying for some reason and just stayed in my room, my mom came up and said she thinks the problem is I have too much time on my hands the last 2 weeks, I could feel myself getting really angry and we're clearly on different pages, I know I need to move out but how?
    27 answers · Family · 3 days ago
  • Why am I so stupid?

    Best answer: We don't know why, because we don't know you.
    Best answer: We don't know why, because we don't know you.
    18 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • At 22 is it to late for a male to become good with woman and gain sexual experience?

    Best answer: your a late bloomer nothings going to change
    Best answer: your a late bloomer nothings going to change
    55 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 days ago
  • I'm torn between two lovers. One is really cute, and around my age, but has no prospects of ever becoming successful, and the other is?

    less cute, slightly older, but owns a bar, has a hgh IQ, and could move to a beach town and retire right now if he wanted to, or open a bar there. Which should I choose as my soul mate? the cuter, younger, dumber and poorer one, or the older, smarter, and more succeful one, and why?
    less cute, slightly older, but owns a bar, has a hgh IQ, and could move to a beach town and retire right now if he wanted to, or open a bar there. Which should I choose as my soul mate? the cuter, younger, dumber and poorer one, or the older, smarter, and more succeful one, and why?
    22 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • My boyfriend and I are working through my being unfaithful do you think he will ever completely forgive me?

    We have been together for close to a year and about 2 months ago I made a terrible decision. We were a really good couple he was really sweet , funny and very handsome. Way too good for me. I’m an overweight 19 year old with a bad attitude. He’s also 19 but he’s kind of got his **** together minus I think he may... show more
    We have been together for close to a year and about 2 months ago I made a terrible decision. We were a really good couple he was really sweet , funny and very handsome. Way too good for me. I’m an overweight 19 year old with a bad attitude. He’s also 19 but he’s kind of got his **** together minus I think he may have a slight drinking problem. But at the time we were arguing a lot and we weren’t hanging out every day like we used to. Also we liked to smoke weed together. I went to get weed from our dealer and he offered to smoke me out with his friend and I was really really high and felt unsafe and they came onto me and I agreed to have sex with them but the thing that breaks my hear is that day he went to my house with flowers and wanted to work through stuff more :(.... but I didn’t know the guys filmed it and sent it to him because they had some kind of problem. We are still together and my heart breaks every day and I have been trying everything I just can tell I hurt him. We haven’t had sex since then. I even try to give him head and I used to never do that. He bough me a really nice Christmas present today. Which made me happy that it showed he still cared. But he has been spending all his time at the gym because he feels insecure now.. i feel awful and I love him so much.. I just wished he knew I love him
    21 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • Does bullying wimpy kids toughen them up for the real world and why should I stop?

    Best answer: People like you are the reason that I never have and never will attend a class reunion.
    Best answer: People like you are the reason that I never have and never will attend a class reunion.
    14 answers · Friends · 20 hours ago
  • Should I serve non vegan food at my wedding reception because family are refusing to attend the wedding if I serve vegan food?

    I’ve been vegan half my life and my fiancé has been vegan for almost all of his life as a lot of his family are vegan or vegetarian. We decided early on that we would only have vegan food at our wedding. However now members of my family are turning around and saying that they won’t attend if I serve vegan food,... show more
    I’ve been vegan half my life and my fiancé has been vegan for almost all of his life as a lot of his family are vegan or vegetarian. We decided early on that we would only have vegan food at our wedding. However now members of my family are turning around and saying that they won’t attend if I serve vegan food, even my own mother has turned around and said she won’t attend as they’ll be nothing she can eat. I’ve been to family weddings, celebrations and birthdays where there has been literally nothing for me to eat and I’ve sat there with a smile on my face. After the first 2 where I realised there was no food I could eat, I brought my own and was often shunned to eating it in my car. I had to pay for and cook my own food when I went vegan as my parents refused to “fund my damaging lifestyle” but were ok to give my brother money every weekend to get incredibly drunk. I don’t want to fall out over something as silly as what food I serve but at the same time it’s important to me to have vegan food.
    33 answers · Engagements & Weddings · 3 days ago