• Depressed about being an ugly woman?

    I know how to deal with these things.I'm not in highschool any more. But suddenly I'm feeling really depressed (suicidal) because of this. Don't tell looks don't matter - maybe for men, not for women. I've been facing shït because of my ugly face even when i was a toddler There's just... show more
    I know how to deal with these things.I'm not in highschool any more. But suddenly I'm feeling really depressed (suicidal) because of this. Don't tell looks don't matter - maybe for men, not for women. I've been facing shït because of my ugly face even when i was a toddler There's just nothing special about me. Whenever I'm in a room with other women, usually everyone's at least better looking than me. If ever a guy has to "choose" women he likes, from a group of women, I'll be the last [these things have happened to me many times]. When I was a kid, my own dad ruined my self confidence. He would always "visibly" lust after pretty women (Blondie, blue eyed, White skin). I don't look like that. I'm an Asian girl - but I'm not even pretty for being Asian. Nothing about my body is good. I had an emergency appendicitis surgery that left marks on my stomach too I know how to live with it. I've been dealing with this for more than 20 years. But it has started troubling me all of a sudden. I feel like Killing myself. I wish i could attract all men towards me. My looks are ruining my life. I'm studying at a good Uni and aiming to work for STEM. I have many "friends", my own apartment, my own car (purchased by my own money) But I wish I could end up dead so nobody had to see my ugly face ever again. Whenever someone meets me they talk about my career, nobody talks to me like they do to beautiful women. Why can't they treat me like a "sexy woman" for even 1 day? What's my mistake?
    57 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 days ago
  • Can my parents stop me?

    My boyfriend booked a ticket for Paris. The flight is in the winter and I want to go with him I can afford it with my job. But he’s 18 and I’m 17 by then he’ll be 19 but I won’t be 18 until March and the flight is in December. He’s a sweet guy but do you think my mom and dad will be pissed off if I bought the... show more
    My boyfriend booked a ticket for Paris. The flight is in the winter and I want to go with him I can afford it with my job. But he’s 18 and I’m 17 by then he’ll be 19 but I won’t be 18 until March and the flight is in December. He’s a sweet guy but do you think my mom and dad will be pissed off if I bought the ticket and flew with him to Europe I know it sounds dumb but we’re young and you only live once. I think it would be beautiful. My family’s Filipino so they’re ...“strict” but they’re sweet. He’s Hispanic but they don’t mind him. My mom likes him my dad is 50/50 but he’s not a bad guy. He doesn’t drink, I have. So he’s more innocent than me
    63 answers · Family · 3 days ago
  • Dating an army man that has 3 kids with 3 different baby mothers?

    alright I am single with no kids ready for love and marriage but concerned about this guy I am dating finances.... he is in the army and has been married once and has 3 kids. If I were to go on and marry how would this affect me and (I guess I should say a future baby?)... I do have a career job but I would like... show more
    alright I am single with no kids ready for love and marriage but concerned about this guy I am dating finances.... he is in the army and has been married once and has 3 kids. If I were to go on and marry how would this affect me and (I guess I should say a future baby?)... I do have a career job but I would like to know what I am getting myself into..
    33 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • I hate my family. What should I do?

    Best answer: You’re doing the right thing. Save up and move out. Find a friend at school or somewhere who also wants to move out.
    Best answer: You’re doing the right thing. Save up and move out. Find a friend at school or somewhere who also wants to move out.
    10 answers · Family · 14 hours ago
  • I got my own place, i am educated, i cook and i will 8 packs abs soon.....why can't i hav a gurlfrend in toronto?

    I am Hindu Himalayan, also a Model in India........why gurls hate me in canada? Ommm
    I am Hindu Himalayan, also a Model in India........why gurls hate me in canada? Ommm
    13 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • Just needing some outside advise...?

    I'm 22, married and have a 2 year old... My dream my whole life was to travel a few places I've always wanted to see and go to college and be an artist or join law enforcement, enjoy life a bit while I was at it. But then I met my husband and everything happened so quickly... We got pregnant, he doesn't... show more
    I'm 22, married and have a 2 year old... My dream my whole life was to travel a few places I've always wanted to see and go to college and be an artist or join law enforcement, enjoy life a bit while I was at it. But then I met my husband and everything happened so quickly... We got pregnant, he doesn't want me to work (because he doesn't want me to deal with that kind of stress per his words) every time I applied or even mention applying for college he told me to wait, he doesn't want me to do law enforcement because he doesn't believe I could handle it due to my personality ( I believe there is good in people if you give them the chance, he believes EVERYONE is...well...on drugs or stupid) but I just feel like I want to do more with my life than be a stay at home mom and do the same thing every day till I die... Is that selfish? Is it too late? And yes I know that having a child and getting married young was my decision and you reap what you sow... (Also things happened in that order) I just want to know others thoughts on what I'm feeling, and just to clarify I will never consider leaving my child and husband on their own just to make myself happy.
    28 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 days ago
  • I’m a female 22 year old Virgin, (a horny Virgin)?

    Best answer: Men love virgins and you are no exception... Do u run from relationships.. Even one night stands? You loosing your virginity, might not be as "perfect" as you imagine, but if u don't do it because of that, you are never going to do it... So, just find someone you like and trust.. And do it! You'll... show more
    Best answer: Men love virgins and you are no exception... Do u run from relationships.. Even one night stands? You loosing your virginity, might not be as "perfect" as you imagine, but if u don't do it because of that, you are never going to do it... So, just find someone you like and trust.. And do it! You'll have plenty of other times which you will find probably better than the first one.. Tho, this is not a rule... Just be happy! And I think your friends shouldn't judge you, if they are really your friends.. You should know that... And you are as woman as they are. Period. You just need to believe yourself more... Just one more thing.. From life experience, the more you do it, the more you want to do it:)
    24 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • How do you get on with life when you never got to be young?

    I am a thirty-seven year old man, and there is a lot in life I never got to do; namely, the entire experience of being young. I was raised by very abusive and parasitic people and spent the first two and a half decades working so my worthless "family" could have money. And when I wasn't working or... show more
    I am a thirty-seven year old man, and there is a lot in life I never got to do; namely, the entire experience of being young. I was raised by very abusive and parasitic people and spent the first two and a half decades working so my worthless "family" could have money. And when I wasn't working or taking care of my father (a drunk) and my sister's kids (who had three of them, by three men and has been on welfare her whole life) While other kids were being teenagers, I was working and babysitting kids I had no part in making. When everyone else went to college, I worked and provided for my father (who suffered a back injury) and my sister. And my mother left us after she beat me when I was younger. Now I'm on my feet and live far, FAR away from them. I am no longer enabling them and have my own "life." I have my ebook business going and I manage a catering company...but I'm 37, and never got to be young, have fun, or even date. I feel like I lost so many opportunities. If I date now it will be with someone my age and more experienced, and I'll never feel "young love." If I travel now it will be as a middle-aged man, and I'll never be young and adventurous. I'll never have any "wild years" and will have to go straight to being old and settled. How does one go through life having missed out on a huge chunk of it that they'll never get back?
    11 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • How can I get around this?

    So, I am a single mother of a 10 month old and I live with my father. I am responsible for the cable bill, half of the lightbill, my phone bill, car note, car insurance, of course my child, and other personal expenses. I applied for food stamps and i am denied because my father makes too much but i feel that is not... show more
    So, I am a single mother of a 10 month old and I live with my father. I am responsible for the cable bill, half of the lightbill, my phone bill, car note, car insurance, of course my child, and other personal expenses. I applied for food stamps and i am denied because my father makes too much but i feel that is not fair because its not like my dad does for me and my son. He just provides the roof. Its as if he is a roomate and i cant get approved making $9 an hour because HE makes too much. I understand its based on the household income but isnt there a way around this? Can i write a letter or something stating he doesnt take care of me and my son?
    23 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • How do I talk my mom into letting me go on a vacation with my boyfriend and his parents for two weeks I'm 15 and he's 16 and I really want?

    Best answer: I’m a 15-year-old girl, and honestly if I was your mother, I would let you go. But we don’t know if your mom will agree or not, so I’ll give you some advice. Just ask her for permission. List the reasons why you want to go. If she says yes, good for you😊! But if she says no, than ask her why, and possibly... show more
    Best answer: I’m a 15-year-old girl, and honestly if I was your mother, I would let you go. But we don’t know if your mom will agree or not, so I’ll give you some advice.
    Just ask her for permission. List the reasons why you want to go. If she says yes, good for you😊! But if she says no, than ask her why, and possibly compromise with her.
    Also, I highly recommend having your parents talk with your boyfriend’s parents. Maybe that might help somehow.
    I hope your mother allows you to go on that vacation. Good luck😉
    24 answers · Family · 3 days ago
  • My husband doesn’t want to go to my uncle’s (dad’s brother in laws) funeral.?

    I have a big family and he doesn’t. I don’t expect him to go to every family events but durinv bad times i would appreciate if he could be there and be little supporative but nope. He is argung with me how he doesnt like funerals and doesnt want to go. I am like can you please show little respect? How would my dad... show more
    I have a big family and he doesn’t. I don’t expect him to go to every family events but durinv bad times i would appreciate if he could be there and be little supporative but nope. He is argung with me how he doesnt like funerals and doesnt want to go. I am like can you please show little respect? How would my dad feel that his son in law didnt come. He doesn’t understand that. I am seriously thinking of my marriage.
    13 answers · Family · 10 hours ago
  • My wife wants to quit her job and take a year vacation without me?

    My wife has decided she has enough working and has been secretly saving hundreds of thousands of dollars to take a year vacation starting in July. I've always wondered why her income was coming up shorter than usual and she has saved up lots of money to take a year vacation. She said she needs this for her... show more
    My wife has decided she has enough working and has been secretly saving hundreds of thousands of dollars to take a year vacation starting in July. I've always wondered why her income was coming up shorter than usual and she has saved up lots of money to take a year vacation. She said she needs this for her and has been saving this type of money for years and this upsets me. I didn't look into this because I trust and love my wife She said she needs to do this alone and when she gets back it would be a "new her" What should I do about this?
    24 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 days ago
  • Why do married/attached men lie that they are leaving their partners ?

    I'm the victim who fell for this lie.Met a man at my old job and we hit it off.We exchanged numbers...with a week of chatting he tells me he still leaves with his kids mom and is working towards single. Basically they split up but are trying to figure out what's best for their son.I didn't think they... show more
    I'm the victim who fell for this lie.Met a man at my old job and we hit it off.We exchanged numbers...with a week of chatting he tells me he still leaves with his kids mom and is working towards single. Basically they split up but are trying to figure out what's best for their son.I didn't think they would be any reason why he would lie so we started seeing each other. It became apparent that he just wanted sex and it was all lies .He never took me out and still lives with is kids mom to this day.I feel so stupid .Anyone been in my situation?
    14 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 15 hours ago
  • Is it tacky to announce at the wedding we’re pregnant?

    It’s our wedding. We’ve recently found out we’re pregnant. I’m currently 7 weeks pregnant, and we’re getting married in 5 weeks time, so I’d be 12 weeks. My fiance thinks we should announce it at the wedding as his family will be there so we can tell them in person as we don’t want to announce it on social media.
    It’s our wedding. We’ve recently found out we’re pregnant. I’m currently 7 weeks pregnant, and we’re getting married in 5 weeks time, so I’d be 12 weeks. My fiance thinks we should announce it at the wedding as his family will be there so we can tell them in person as we don’t want to announce it on social media.
    18 answers · Engagements & Weddings · 2 days ago