• Why did my mom ruin my birthday?

    Today I turned 19 and the plan was for me to watch black panther with my friends, I met my friends at the mall since I took a lyft and they carpooled from school. After the movie I decided to get in the car with them to go back to school(they were going back to get into their own cars) and get my lyft their since... show more
    Today I turned 19 and the plan was for me to watch black panther with my friends, I met my friends at the mall since I took a lyft and they carpooled from school. After the movie I decided to get in the car with them to go back to school(they were going back to get into their own cars) and get my lyft their since it would be $6 cheaper, in the car we decided to go out to eat I of course asked my mom if it was ok and she said yes only to call me a minute later saying I was a problem start and sneaky because I apparently knew we were going to get food beforehand and decided not to ask her(wtf?) we ended up going to steak and shake and she told me that there couldn’t be any places open at this time(mind you this is a Thursday night down town where restaurants are open until midnight) she then proceeded to tell me I had to come home immediately. When I got home she said the whole situation was disrespectful and I asked why she was doing this and she said I deserved it for being sneaky. I literally asked for permission and she said it was fine. I’m transferring to a new school in the fall and will be out of the house, I understand I’m living in her house=her rules but she expects me to call and text her whenever I go somewhere at 19 so when I transfer what is she gonna expect? I’m taking 26 credit hours a semester and I’m in class 9-5 but I never get any slack smh
    11 answers · Family · 5 days ago
  • I’m going through a forced breakup?

    I’ve been with my boyfriend (both 16) for three years. On the 15th after he didn’t get me anything for Valentine’s Day, and then didn’t apologize or make up for it at all (even atter I addressed I was upset), I slapped him (somewhat hard) in front of his mom. A minute after that, I was yelled at to never come back... show more
    I’ve been with my boyfriend (both 16) for three years. On the 15th after he didn’t get me anything for Valentine’s Day, and then didn’t apologize or make up for it at all (even atter I addressed I was upset), I slapped him (somewhat hard) in front of his mom. A minute after that, I was yelled at to never come back to their house again, and that he’s going to break up with me. His family forced him to block me on everything, and then he unblocked me on snapchat and told me he wanted to be with me and still loved me, and I still love him, but his family doesn’t care. I’ve apologized numerous times for the slap but his family just sniffs at my apologies.
    9 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • I don’t really want my girlfriend on birth control?

    I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost two years and i love her so much. This past Valentine’s Day while spending time with her she mentioned birth control. I asked her was she seeing another guy and she said “no !!” And that’s when i told her she doesn’t have to worry about me getting her pregnant . I don’t want... show more
    I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost two years and i love her so much. This past Valentine’s Day while spending time with her she mentioned birth control. I asked her was she seeing another guy and she said “no !!” And that’s when i told her she doesn’t have to worry about me getting her pregnant . I don’t want my girlfriend to get on birth control.im willing to wear a condom but she wants to get on birth control. She is afraid she will get pregnant but i have been pulling out of her for over a year and I’m respondsible enough to know not to *** inside of her. I’ve told her numerous times that if she got pregnant that she is moving in with me and we’re going to be a family but all she says is that if she gets pregnant she is going to move away and not tell anyone. I don’t want her to get pregnant and leave me. TL:DR: i don’t want her to take birth control because of a few side effects I’ve heard about. I will wear a condom before i let her get on BC.
    13 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • My Boyfriend isn’t considerate and doesn’t do things around the house?

    Since my boyfriend moved in with me, he hasn’t done anything around the house. I am taking 18 units in college, have a job, and have homework and house obligations. But it takes me DAYS to make him do his part, and I do not want to be that person who is always nagging him. He is old enough to know what has to be... show more
    Since my boyfriend moved in with me, he hasn’t done anything around the house. I am taking 18 units in college, have a job, and have homework and house obligations. But it takes me DAYS to make him do his part, and I do not want to be that person who is always nagging him. He is old enough to know what has to be done and to do it. Instead, he plays video games all day and works 4 hours 5 days a week. That’s it. And, this past Valentine’s Day, I made this fabulous expensive dinner, got him all his favorite candy, and a bunch of other stuff. But he didn’t get me anything because he spent hundreds of dollars on magic cards....now I’m stressed about bills. I have a very small apartment and the only full day I have to get work done is on Saturday. But he has these little parties and takes up the whole space, so I can’t work. They are very loud and they are here until 2am. AND I just came home to piss all over the toilet and floor...which I had to clean. He is a 26 year old man who acts like a 12 year old and has no sense of priorities. Is it like this with all guys this age? Do they ever grow up?
    7 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • Do guys find innocent girls attractive?

    I am 19 and I am not the most educated when it comes to sex. My boyfriend and I talk about sexual things every so often and at times I have to ask him what certain things are because I don't know. I'm also still a virgin and just watched porn for the first time a month ago (and I found most of it to be too... show more
    I am 19 and I am not the most educated when it comes to sex. My boyfriend and I talk about sexual things every so often and at times I have to ask him what certain things are because I don't know. I'm also still a virgin and just watched porn for the first time a month ago (and I found most of it to be too much for me). Do you think being innocent like that is a turn off?
    46 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • Boyfriend gets tired after sex?!?

    We are both 18. I have never had an orgasm .. hard to do it on myself and hard for him to do it to me. With 1 round of sex he cums too fast... and then we just end and obviously I’m not satisfied. This one time I asked for 2 rounds and he was so tired that we had a couple of days without having sex because of how... show more
    We are both 18. I have never had an orgasm .. hard to do it on myself and hard for him to do it to me. With 1 round of sex he cums too fast... and then we just end and obviously I’m not satisfied. This one time I asked for 2 rounds and he was so tired that we had a couple of days without having sex because of how exhausted he was. Help?
    52 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • Would you go out with an unemployed woman?

    Best answer: It matters, depending on why. If she's in college full time with a scholarship and doesn't need to work, or else her coursework is extremely involved and her parents are helping or she's taking some loans right now or something, that's her own business and not a problem. If she's mooching off... show more
    Best answer: It matters, depending on why. If she's in college full time with a scholarship and doesn't need to work, or else her coursework is extremely involved and her parents are helping or she's taking some loans right now or something, that's her own business and not a problem.
    If she's mooching off her parents and not doing anything productive with her life, then that's probably not a good idea. She's probably lazy and has no life goals.
    If she had a job and just got laid off because there were too many people or something and she's searching for another, that's fine too.
    62 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 days ago
  • Do you think this could help a marriage?

    Best answer: you already know you should cut contact with this person because you are attractive to that person, sounds to me that you are looking for reinforcement but also sounds to me that you know clearly what to do as well, stay away and focus on working on your marriage if that is what you want to do, otherwise you know... show more
    Best answer: you already know you should cut contact with this person because you are attractive to that person, sounds to me that you are looking for reinforcement but also sounds to me that you know clearly what to do as well, stay away and focus on working on your marriage if that is what you want to do, otherwise you know better you are asking for trouble., Best of luck
    7 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 day ago
  • Should I babysit my niece and nephew for free?

    Best answer: She is correct in that it's nice for aunties to spend time with their nieces and nephews. However, you do that on an occasional basis when it's convenient for YOU...it's not a JOB with a required SCHEDULE. If it were my sister, I'd tell her that I'd be willing to fill in here and there if her... show more
    Best answer: She is correct in that it's nice for aunties to spend time with their nieces and nephews. However, you do that on an occasional basis when it's convenient for YOU...it's not a JOB with a required SCHEDULE.

    If it were my sister, I'd tell her that I'd be willing to fill in here and there if her regular carer was sick, but that your priorities are school and a paying job. You just don't have time for a five day a week volunteer position.

    Maybe your sister should make up with your mother. It's pretty cheeky of her to get into a pissing match with her unpaid employee and then expect you to pick up the slack.

    It's not like she is a single mother. These kids have two parents and they are responsible for them.
    21 answers · Family · 1 day ago
  • This ugly girl at my school likes me help?

    This ugly girl at my school told me that she likes me and asked me to go out with her, I told her that i would never go out with someone as ugly as her. She cried and ran away, but she still keeps looking at me?! how can i keep her away??
    This ugly girl at my school told me that she likes me and asked me to go out with her, I told her that i would never go out with someone as ugly as her. She cried and ran away, but she still keeps looking at me?! how can i keep her away??
    36 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 days ago
  • Is it okay to slap your 15 year old when necessary?

    I got into an argument that my daughter is too young to date someone in college. She talked back and became angry with me. I slapped her and CPS is involved because she went to the counselor the next day, told her that I disapproved of her trying to date someone. The conversation focused on why she “loves” a... show more
    I got into an argument that my daughter is too young to date someone in college. She talked back and became angry with me. I slapped her and CPS is involved because she went to the counselor the next day, told her that I disapproved of her trying to date someone. The conversation focused on why she “loves” a college boy, but the school called CPS to inform them about multiple concerns. They’re related to not only child abuse, but the fact that she’s a young girl involved with an older man.
    27 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • Do I act white?

    I am an 18 year old black girl, and I've heard several people say this to me. I don't know if it's the way I talk, act, or my interests. I didn't even grow up around white people, but I was sheltered and books were my friends, so I guess that's why I sound/act a bit different. I am also heavily... show more
    I am an 18 year old black girl, and I've heard several people say this to me. I don't know if it's the way I talk, act, or my interests. I didn't even grow up around white people, but I was sheltered and books were my friends, so I guess that's why I sound/act a bit different. I am also heavily into bdsm. It turns me on a lot and I haven't found any black people that's interested. Like one of my favorite movies is "Fifty Shades Of Grey". Although I know that it is a but exaggerated, it still turns me on. I love kinky stuff. All the black people I know says how "sick" the movie is, but it turns me on a lot. I want to be both Dom/submissive. It is just like so hot! Is this "acting white" or just like being me.
    8 answers · Singles & Dating · 23 hours ago
  • Ummm...why is he doing this?

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    10 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago