• Since my Dad is an alcoholic will we all become alcoholic?

    Best answer: No*......since u are aware ur dad is an alcoholic....u should be able to choose NOT TO TRY that first drink when all your friends are drinking away, underage...thinking they're cool*.................just say NO! and don't start drinking at all*
    Best answer: No*......since u are aware ur dad is an alcoholic....u should be able to choose NOT TO TRY that first drink when all your friends are drinking away, underage...thinking they're cool*.................just say NO! and don't start drinking at all*
    18 answers · 1 day ago
  • Would you rather be rich and ugly or poor and good looking?

    Best answer: Rich and ugly probably. I'd be able to afford plastic surgery, expensive makeup, beautiful clothes, and a hair stylist. That could help with the ugly appearance.

    But being poor and ugly is tempting too, if I can't have the above things.
    Best answer: Rich and ugly probably. I'd be able to afford plastic surgery, expensive makeup, beautiful clothes, and a hair stylist. That could help with the ugly appearance.

    But being poor and ugly is tempting too, if I can't have the above things.
    15 answers · 13 hours ago
  • Why do unsuccessful people hate successful people?

    Best answer: Most people are like that. Successful people who think for themselves, work hard, have discipline, have goals, and achieve them, are in the minority. You are wasting time giving your attention to their unsuccesful mental habits. After you have done all you have set yourself, just try to cultivate an attitude of... show more
    Best answer: Most people are like that. Successful people who think for themselves, work hard, have discipline, have goals, and achieve them, are in the minority.

    You are wasting time giving your attention to their unsuccesful mental habits.

    After you have done all you have set yourself, just try to cultivate an attitude of peace of mind and love for your fellow human beings.
    21 answers · 3 days ago
  • Is suicide ever justified?

    Best answer: Sure - but then so is cutting a man's heart out, in the right circumstances - like a heart transplant. It's just vanishingly rare that it is the right thing to do, and such decisions and action don't belong in the hands of a private, untrained, obviously distressed individual. A more enlightened... show more
    Best answer: Sure - but then so is cutting a man's heart out, in the right circumstances - like a heart transplant. It's just vanishingly rare that it is the right thing to do, and such decisions and action don't belong in the hands of a private, untrained, obviously distressed individual. A more enlightened society might have a provision for a type of legal hearing procedure where doctors, family, and the individual weigh in and apply for a special one-time, one-person license to do such a thing under medical supervision.
    15 answers · 2 days ago
  • I’m so depressed?

    My life is ****, I have no job, college stress is eating me alive, the few friends that I have treat me like **** and hang out without me, I’m not close with my family, I talk to myself all day because no one cares enough to listen to my problems, when I’m not at school, I’m at home doing nothing, wasting my life... show more
    My life is ****, I have no job, college stress is eating me alive, the few friends that I have treat me like **** and hang out without me, I’m not close with my family, I talk to myself all day because no one cares enough to listen to my problems, when I’m not at school, I’m at home doing nothing, wasting my life on my phone. And I’ve never even had a boyfriend because I’m ugly. I feel so lonely and miserable and wish I can find happiness. What advice would you give me?
    9 answers · 13 hours ago
  • Is it normal that the thought of torturing guys turns me on?

    Best answer: You seem to be living pretty normally despite it, having been with people and all. I'm not dom or into dynamics of the sort, but I understand maybe some ways you feel about it. I guess it won't hurt you too bad if you don't get too hateful and block any manifestations of it too intensely or make it... show more
    Best answer: You seem to be living pretty normally despite it, having been with people and all. I'm not dom or into dynamics of the sort, but I understand maybe some ways you feel about it. I guess it won't hurt you too bad if you don't get too hateful and block any manifestations of it too intensely or make it define/curse all your worth and life.
    Since you're so open about it/can communicate it, maybe think of talking to professionals in case you start feeling sad or confused from it. Not sure if that's different since you seem more confident and since the thing might vent frustration by being dom (maybe it's even more confusing then, idk. sorry in any case).

    If your sexuality goes towards certain dynamics, it will direct attractions with it and make fantasies/kinks or whatever in their image. I don't know how to analyze sources of arousing dynamics and their development much at all. I say it's understandable in the sense that it could be understood deeper probably for you and that it's similar to alot of things.

    Anything at all is understandable, if that's validating; it's not common/normal of course. Don't act on it of course (I know you know that; just in case this is misunderstood.). I don't know if you should allow masturbation or not either; do what you find preferable, maybe ask for help managing.
    16 answers · 3 days ago
  • Is IQ a big deal?

    My friend claims her IQ 154. And she mentions it all the time. She talks about how she can thinks like a super computer and how her IQ is 10 points away from einstein's. But tbh she doesn't act like it. She's childish and which I try to correct her on a mistakes she saids "Um, what's YOUR IQ,... show more
    My friend claims her IQ 154. And she mentions it all the time. She talks about how she can thinks like a super computer and how her IQ is 10 points away from einstein's. But tbh she doesn't act like it. She's childish and which I try to correct her on a mistakes she saids "Um, what's YOUR IQ, That's what I thought." She also has the nerve to try to guess my IQ. She is constantly claiming that she's smarter than me and calls me dumb. And also is calling everyone dumb. And when other people call her dumb she gets offended. And she saids how she feels bad for people who have "low IQ" She claims that they can't accomplished anything in life, and they might as well give up on life all together. I just want to know if IQ is a big deal as she's making it. I've never taken an IQ test before so I don't know what mine is. My friend claims it would be 95.
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • Anyone know how to stop caring about someone you hate?

    for context, i genuinely hate my sister. she's annoying, entitled, selfish, apathetic etc. you get it, i could go on and on. but yesterday i accidentally did something that kinda hurt her feelings, and i've felt bad about it since even though i shouldn't and don't want to. does anybody on here know... show more
    for context, i genuinely hate my sister. she's annoying, entitled, selfish, apathetic etc. you get it, i could go on and on. but yesterday i accidentally did something that kinda hurt her feelings, and i've felt bad about it since even though i shouldn't and don't want to. does anybody on here know how to deal with this?
    13 answers · 3 days ago
  • Why bother trying when im over 43, female, single, all alone and friendless?

    It breaks my heart when i see those with friends
    It breaks my heart when i see those with friends
    36 answers · 7 days ago
  • What makes someone become a neo-Nazi?

    Best answer: It's like any hate group. They tend to spend a lot of time around people who hate and encourage them to hate in the process. They expose themselves to one side of the information and they fixate on it. Feminists are no different and neither are black power groups. Hate is hate. The thing all these groups... show more
    Best answer: It's like any hate group. They tend to spend a lot of time around people who hate and encourage them to hate in the process. They expose themselves to one side of the information and they fixate on it. Feminists are no different and neither are black power groups. Hate is hate. The thing all these groups have in common is that they seek out a scapegoat for all of their problems in life.
    8 answers · 1 day ago
  • I want to tell her that I’m depressed..?

    Best answer: See your doctor and explain how you're feeling and how long you've been feeling this way. And then explain why you hide it from her. I'm sure she'll be more likely to accept what your doctor says. You need help and it's okay to ask for it. Despite what she thinks, it's not just a phase... show more
    Best answer: See your doctor and explain how you're feeling and how long you've been feeling this way. And then explain why you hide it from her. I'm sure she'll be more likely to accept what your doctor says.

    You need help and it's okay to ask for it. Despite what she thinks, it's not just a phase - it's a genuine concern and you need professional help for it.
    6 answers · 18 hours ago
  • What's Wrong with Me?

    Sometimes, I feel emotionless, I don’t feel sadness or happiness, excited or surprised. I usually feel nothing, and this is the state that I am in the majority of the time. Once in a while I do feel emotions. When I get sad, I get more than sad, I get suicidal. There is one emotion that I have found I’m incapable... show more
    Sometimes, I feel emotionless, I don’t feel sadness or happiness, excited or surprised. I usually feel nothing, and this is the state that I am in the majority of the time. Once in a while I do feel emotions. When I get sad, I get more than sad, I get suicidal. There is one emotion that I have found I’m incapable of feeling, that emotion is happiness. I can display the traits of a happy person, however, on the inside I don't feel that way. Because I always feel fatigued. It feels like there’s a monster inside my own mind and body that’s holding me back, and it’s exhausting, it rips the energy right out of me. I’ve tried various things. I’ve tried thinking positive, but I can't get rid of the thought of death. I’ve tried getting more sleep and getting less sleep, but no matter how much I do or do not sleep I just can’t seem to not feel like I’m already dead. The best way I can describe it, is that I feel trapped in my own mind. I feel like I’m living life through a fog. Everything around me seems to move in slow motion. My feelings are so contradictory that I am having such a hard time describing it. Normally, I am a good writer but I know that this isn’t very good because I can feel my brain trying to grasp the right words but no matter how hard I try, I can’t seem to describe it. I don’t know if this has anything to do with it, but some people believe I have OCD along with other things. I just want to know what’s wrong with me. I just really need as much advice as possible.
    8 answers · 1 day ago
  • I am thinking about suicide because I can't find a girlfriend and cannot move forward in life, so does anyone have any helpful advice?

    Best answer: Some women drive some men to depression and suicidal thoughts. Your young free and single, and one thought on your mind,(Women) It sounds like you are alienating yourself from others by convincing yourself that you are different. but everyone is different, Giving up work and college just gives you too much time... show more
    Best answer: Some women drive some men to depression and suicidal thoughts.
    Your young free and single, and one thought on your mind,(Women)
    It sounds like you are alienating yourself from others by convincing yourself that you are different. but everyone is different,
    Giving up work and college just gives you too much time away from society to over think things and become more withdrawn and feeling different and alone.
    A women wants a man to be there for her, to be strong and reassuring that everything will be ok, not someone that will make her frightened to say the wrong thing in case you kill yourself.
    If you cant cope on your own, what makes you think having a girlfriend will be easier, some women can be very difficult and hard work.
    Why not put your life to good use and do voluntary work or charity work helping the less fortunate, then you will see people that have good reason to feel different, if you are seen to be a kind caring person, then others will see that and want to know you.
    Suicide is a selfish act that shows thought for nobody but your self.
    Write down how you are feeling and show it to someone that can get you real help and advise.
    19 answers · 6 days ago
  • Someone walked past me and called me the ugliest girl he's ever seen. How do I deal with this, I feel miserable?

    Best answer: Evidently he/she hasn't seen many females... Poor person, they have no social life...
    Best answer: Evidently he/she hasn't seen many females... Poor person, they have no social life...
    17 answers · 6 days ago
  • Do you still have a dream or have you just given up completely?

    Best answer: I’ve honestly never had dreams

    I just go with whatever and wing everything
    Best answer: I’ve honestly never had dreams

    I just go with whatever and wing everything
    113 answers · 1 week ago
  • What would you think if this happened to you? I have a friend who does not have a car. I've often picked her up from work or given her?

    given her rides to work, which takes about 45 minutes each way or more. When she was in pain and needed a ride home I dropped everything and picked her up. I've installed stuff in her apartment. If we go anywhere like Costco, I drive. For the past few months, we've both been saying we don't have a... show more
    given her rides to work, which takes about 45 minutes each way or more. When she was in pain and needed a ride home I dropped everything and picked her up. I've installed stuff in her apartment. If we go anywhere like Costco, I drive. For the past few months, we've both been saying we don't have a clothes iron and have a couple of blouses that can't be worn. The last time we went to Costco, she bought a clothes iron. I bought an ironing board and my own clothes iron a week later (second hand), and since we live in the same building, I offered to let her use the ironing board. She didn't answer. Then I started to wonder why she hadn't offered for me to borrow the iron, since we had talked about it several times. Or ever offer to buy me a coffee after giving her so many rides (I find no one does though, even though I give lots of people rides). What is up with that? If someone gave me a ride, even once, and then we went for coffee, I would insist on buying their coffee. If I bought a clothes iron and knew my friend in the same building didn't have one, I'd offer to let her use it. Is this a friend? Is this not a friend?
    10 answers · 3 days ago
  • Girls, ladies does this sort of thing ever happen to you?

    Today some man kept looknig at me as I was walking on my own, minding my own business. Then he shouted 'Oi!' at me and i ignored it so he shouted it again like a couple times. Then he asked if I'm half black and where I got my shoes from but you could see from the way he was staring at me that he had... show more
    Today some man kept looknig at me as I was walking on my own, minding my own business. Then he shouted 'Oi!' at me and i ignored it so he shouted it again like a couple times. Then he asked if I'm half black and where I got my shoes from but you could see from the way he was staring at me that he had ulterior motives since my shoes were very ordinary. I ignored him and walked away and he get offended but thankfully left me alone after that. It was very unpleasant, I felt like a dog someone can just shout at and train. No like an equal human being. Why do some men lack manners to this extent? Why do they think they can treat a female like she's less than just because I happen to be a person who's not male? And the guy wasn't even my type either. I found him very unattractive. I think most people would. Why doesn't he at least feel like he needs a good personality to actually find a woman?
    6 answers · 19 hours ago
  • I don't know why I have trust issues with men except am transgender and grew up male. Any advice?

    Best answer: You grew up male but are now female so you know how the male mind works. This is a scary and unpleasant knowledge for you. You may find some help with professional help to get to an acceptable place for you.
    Best answer: You grew up male but are now female so you know how the male mind works. This is a scary and unpleasant knowledge for you. You may find some help with professional help to get to an acceptable place for you.
    6 answers · 2 days ago