• How do I help my wife?

    I married a woman who I later found out was a gold digger. The story his pretty messed up she was forced into prostitution at a young age and her pimp made her get me to fall in love with her. this was a con they apparently ran multiple times. However this time her pimp decided to try and kill me so she could... show more
    I married a woman who I later found out was a gold digger. The story his pretty messed up she was forced into prostitution at a young age and her pimp made her get me to fall in love with her. this was a con they apparently ran multiple times. However this time her pimp decided to try and kill me so she could collect the life insurance. He failed because she called an anonymous tip and her pimp who had warrants out for his arrest in other states got arrested before he could do anything. She's eight months pregnant and it's my kid. I know she saved me but I still can't trust her but she's got no where else to go. I think she's got issues I wasn't aware of she seems to be afraid of leaving the house if that makes since and I don't know how to help her because she seems to act out of fear like she's afraid of getting hurt so she does stuff to make me happy but I've never threatened her so I'm not sure why she seems always be afraid.
    6 answers · Psychology · 3 days ago
  • What's your opinion on affirmative action?

    To me, if you hire someone because their not white or a man; just to fit a qouta is racist... to both parties. Ignore the fact if they meet the requirements for the job or not. Hiring them just to make your business look good by filing a qouta is racist/sexist to both whites/men and non whites/woman. Judging... show more
    To me, if you hire someone because their not white or a man; just to fit a qouta is racist... to both parties. Ignore the fact if they meet the requirements for the job or not. Hiring them just to make your business look good by filing a qouta is racist/sexist to both whites/men and non whites/woman. Judging people based on their race /gender is awful.
    35 answers · Gender & Women's Studies · 1 day ago
  • Should we put the "good guy with a gun" theory to the test. Thoughts?

    During the next Trump rally, why doesn't he leave the Secret Service outside and invite everyone to bring in their guns. Going by the idea that it takes a good guy with a gun to stop a bad guy with a gun, he should be safe as could be.
    During the next Trump rally, why doesn't he leave the Secret Service outside and invite everyone to bring in their guns. Going by the idea that it takes a good guy with a gun to stop a bad guy with a gun, he should be safe as could be.
    22 answers · Sociology · 7 hours ago
  • Is it normal when you've been a caring person to eventually stop?

    I don't know what happened to me. I use to be a caring person but now if the other person does not act in a similar way I feel very annoyed and like I'd prefer to take back the energy I feel was wasted on them. I did not use to be like this and wouldn't have even thought about what I got in return. I... show more
    I don't know what happened to me. I use to be a caring person but now if the other person does not act in a similar way I feel very annoyed and like I'd prefer to take back the energy I feel was wasted on them. I did not use to be like this and wouldn't have even thought about what I got in return. I think it started when I was very kind to some people and then they threatened my life and did other things that showed awful behaviour, another person manipulated money out of me and then situations kept happening were I would care about someone but they'd be evil or take advantage. Now I don't feel obliged to do anything for anyone because I feel I'll either get nothing back and feel extremely drained and tired from helping them or that they'll manipulate me or expect it 24/7 or something else. Is this a normal progressive thing with age, or something bad that I can correct? I no longer feel good helping people and getting people to pay me to do any work and not do it for free feels like getting blood out of a stone.
    20 answers · Psychology · 3 days ago
  • Isn’t feminist free bleeding a public health risk?

    Where I work, if any blood is spilled, the area needs to be closed until someone properly trained comes in to clean the area, such is the concern over blood born pathogens. Yet we see feminists free bleeding, purposely spilling menstral blood in public. Isn’t that a public health risk?
    Where I work, if any blood is spilled, the area needs to be closed until someone properly trained comes in to clean the area, such is the concern over blood born pathogens. Yet we see feminists free bleeding, purposely spilling menstral blood in public. Isn’t that a public health risk?
    6 answers · Gender & Women's Studies · 2 hours ago
  • Besides taking the side of women in the wrong over men in the right, what else does feminism stand for?

    Best answer: male slavery and female supreacism
    Best answer: male slavery and female supreacism
    5 answers · Gender & Women's Studies · 5 hours ago
  • This is why I can't deal with people anymore?

    I'm in my 30s, and my experience has boiled down to this: because I have a certain "look", people often have preconceptions of me that lead to antagonistic behavior. Basically, they scapegoat me. If I don't like something, they think I'm being "difficult". They don't respect my... show more
    I'm in my 30s, and my experience has boiled down to this: because I have a certain "look", people often have preconceptions of me that lead to antagonistic behavior. Basically, they scapegoat me. If I don't like something, they think I'm being "difficult". They don't respect my (RIGHT) to boundaries, preferences, and needs. We ALL have them, but it seems like I pay the highest price for it. I know it sounds weird, but I do believe we all have "auras", and this is mine. People either want me to be compliant (which compromises me!!!), or nothing at all. Thoughts?
    5 answers · Psychology · 5 hours ago
  • How to be happy without being in a relationship?

    I find it hard to be happy and I feel empty if I don’t have a man in my life how can I be happy again and get out of this depressed state
    I find it hard to be happy and I feel empty if I don’t have a man in my life how can I be happy again and get out of this depressed state
    9 answers · Psychology · 23 hours ago
  • Why are atheists so intelligent?

    50 answers · Sociology · 4 days ago
  • What do you think of the name Nova?

    Your opinion? It's a guilty pleasure name of mine but I adore it. Is it trashy though? I'm a traditional, old fashioned name lover but I just can't help but love this name. Middle name ideas too? Would this name work for a little girl?
    Your opinion? It's a guilty pleasure name of mine but I adore it. Is it trashy though? I'm a traditional, old fashioned name lover but I just can't help but love this name. Middle name ideas too? Would this name work for a little girl?
    27 answers · Gender & Women's Studies · 2 days ago
  • How to stop compulsively behaving emotionless?

    I'm not emotionless, I just think I've got hurt so many times it's an automatic response to avoid any sort of emotional connection with anyone. I don't even look at girls the same way anymore. Even if the girl is pretty, smart and brings up an interesting topic I just reply straight-up in a very... show more
    I'm not emotionless, I just think I've got hurt so many times it's an automatic response to avoid any sort of emotional connection with anyone. I don't even look at girls the same way anymore. Even if the girl is pretty, smart and brings up an interesting topic I just reply straight-up in a very cold manner which usually kills the conversation instantly... I'd like to change that, but don't know how... It's been going on for about a year.
    6 answers · Psychology · 1 day ago