• Don't you think celebrating birthdays is unnecessary and overrated?

    Like... it's for toddlers at the max. It's so goddamn stupid to celebrate your birthday when you're 16+. That's being immature and vain. Don't you agree?
    Like... it's for toddlers at the max. It's so goddamn stupid to celebrate your birthday when you're 16+. That's being immature and vain. Don't you agree?
    33 answers · 2 days ago
  • My girlfriend/fiance is starting to act very bitter, salty, resentful, mean, and very b'tchy towards me since she got diagnosed with cancer?

    her bad attitude is getting worse, depression, misery, and put downs, and negativity. she thinks if she gets really fat it will too. Shes pulled the suicide card already and yells at me a lot. Im not sure what to do.
    her bad attitude is getting worse, depression, misery, and put downs, and negativity. she thinks if she gets really fat it will too. Shes pulled the suicide card already and yells at me a lot. Im not sure what to do.
    11 answers · 20 hours ago
  • How to deal with narcissistic neurotic mother who used me for emotional incest?

    Sorry, this is going to be long.. Basically she used me as an emotional tag growing up. Even though I have a sister, she only came unload all her bs on me. About the emotional incest. She had a terrible marriage with my deadbeat of a father. After they divorced when I was 8, she refused to ever date again which... show more
    Sorry, this is going to be long.. Basically she used me as an emotional tag growing up. Even though I have a sister, she only came unload all her bs on me. About the emotional incest. She had a terrible marriage with my deadbeat of a father. After they divorced when I was 8, she refused to ever date again which is just plain weird to me. So, instead she treated me as a surrogate husband and basically unloaded things on me that were too emotionally advanced for me to handle at that age. I m in my 20 s now and I eventually figured this out for a few years now but I m already very emotionally damaged. Well, I didn t want to deal with her bs anymore so overtime I just shut her down when she tries to open up to me, and eventually she got the point. Now that she knows she can t use me anymore as her emotional rag, she pretty much just tossed me to the side. She treats me with extreme hostility now because she knows she can t get to me anymore. We were very close, and I was once proud to say I was a mama s boy, now I absolutely despise her for the damage she s done to me. I m incredibly moody, neurotic and pessimistic now all thanks to her. I just don t understand why she chose not to date again. Having a father figure is so crucial to children s development, and she screwed it all up for me. Well I feel that it s not too late for me and I can still change into the person I want to be. I guess what I m asking is, should I just leave her for good because she won t change?
    10 answers · 19 hours ago
  • How do I make my mother understand that not everyone is cut out for a job?

    Hi I'm 27 and my mother wants me to get a job so I can move out. The problem is, I don't think I'm quite cut out for a job. I'm still a virgin and I think that I should get laid before I get a job and move out so that way I have someone to buy a home with, but most girls don't like me for some... show more
    Hi I'm 27 and my mother wants me to get a job so I can move out. The problem is, I don't think I'm quite cut out for a job. I'm still a virgin and I think that I should get laid before I get a job and move out so that way I have someone to buy a home with, but most girls don't like me for some reason. I'm horny all the time and I don't wanna take away my time from pleasing myself because it's kind of a burden. I can't even go to the grocery store without having to wear baggy pants because I'm hard all the time. She also recently found my hentai collection and threw it all away and I was super pissed because I worked hard on drawing it. I also don't wanna take away from my gaming time because I have a passion for Fortnite. My mother also said I need to go on a diet and even signed me up for a gym membership. I only went to the gym once and it was super lame so I never went again. I don't have many friends so I do get kind of lonely but I MAINLY wanna get laid so I can feel accomplished in life, y'know? But the main thing my mom wants me to do is get a job. She called me pathetic and told me to get my lazy *** out the door. My dad left me when I was 5 so I can't contact him. I miss him sometimes. I was so young and innocent and he left me and it messed me up and for my mom to have the audacity to wanna push me out. I think my mom needs a dude around not in a sexual or weird sense because my mom is pretty ugly but just because my dad left.
    28 answers · 2 days ago
  • Can my parents search through my search history?

    I m16. It makes me uncomfortable when they do. Should parents be doing this? I m not being dangerous...
    I m16. It makes me uncomfortable when they do. Should parents be doing this? I m not being dangerous...
    17 answers · 1 day ago
  • My parents don t want to cope with me anymore?

    I m 19 years old, and for as long as I can remember, I ve had all sorts of anxieties and depression from a young age. Long story short, the other week, after my mum got married to her new husband, she had a go at me for crying when I dropped my phone on my toe. I thought crying when you ve hurt yourself is a... show more
    I m 19 years old, and for as long as I can remember, I ve had all sorts of anxieties and depression from a young age. Long story short, the other week, after my mum got married to her new husband, she had a go at me for crying when I dropped my phone on my toe. I thought crying when you ve hurt yourself is a completely normal reaction, but then it continued with her telling me I need to get help and that she s fed up with it. I really don t get how it s gone from hurting my toe, to I need therapy... Whenever I try to talk to her about my personal problems, it always ends up in shouting and arguing. She will now cut me off straight away when I try to open up. She s the only person who has been with me my whole life, and now she doesn t want anything to do with me. This has really affected me badly. And even though I feel I m better, these situations drag me back down again. I don t know what to do anymore. I can t move out, I ve got no one to stay with, I can t even talk to my own parent anymore... I couldn t get any advice online so I ve come here. I m sorry if none of this makes sense, and that it s really long, I m just all over the place about this and need someone to give me advice or their opinions.
    38 answers · 5 days ago
  • What should I do to punish my brother for feeding my vegan kids cheeseburgers?

    Best answer: Don't let Ted babysit anymore. Most vegans and vegetarians will at some point make a mistake and eat something they shouldn't. It's hardly the end of the world (except for the fact that your brother seems to take such glee in it).
    Best answer: Don't let Ted babysit anymore. Most vegans and vegetarians will at some point make a mistake and eat something they shouldn't. It's hardly the end of the world (except for the fact that your brother seems to take such glee in it).
    15 answers · 1 day ago
  • I'm 13 and my Mom is 30 - is it alright to sleep with her if she is divorced from my dad?

    Best answer: Yes it’s fine it’s weird if you make it weird it’s just uncommon most people just grow out of that kind of thing by then
    Best answer: Yes it’s fine it’s weird if you make it weird it’s just uncommon most people just grow out of that kind of thing by then
    11 answers · 7 hours ago
  • What to get 9 year old brother?

    Best answer: It can be difficult to get a lovely gift for someone if you're a bit out of touch with them. You could go for a gift voucher like Amazon, where he would have loads of choice how to spend it- this would work well if he enjoys shopping. Or if he loves music, maybe pay for 6 months on a music streaming app. I... show more
    Best answer: It can be difficult to get a lovely gift for someone if you're a bit out of touch with them. You could go for a gift voucher like Amazon, where he would have loads of choice how to spend it- this would work well if he enjoys shopping. Or if he loves music, maybe pay for 6 months on a music streaming app. I guess it wouldn't be too hard to find out what he's into, just ask his parents/carers. Not sure why you wouldn't get him a a video game- do you think these are bad for him? Maybe you would like to choose something more meaningful that you feel would let him know you're his sibling?
    17 answers · 2 days ago
  • My mum wants me to cancel my holiday to New York due to her shoulder replacement operation. Should I?

    My mum's shoulder replacement operation is on 14th September. I've saved up for years to go to New York City and I finally got enough money for a 3 week holiday. However, the day I leave also falls on the day of my mum's shoulder replacement op. Because of this, she wants me to cancel my... show more
    My mum's shoulder replacement operation is on 14th September. I've saved up for years to go to New York City and I finally got enough money for a 3 week holiday. However, the day I leave also falls on the day of my mum's shoulder replacement op. Because of this, she wants me to cancel my once-in-a-lifetime trip to New York to look after her while her shoulder heals. This is a once-in-a-lifetime trip for me. If I don't go, I probably won't ever be able to go in the future. I've asked her if she wants other people to look after her when she's gone. However, she doesn't want anyone to look after her besides myself. While her shoulder heals, she can't pick up anything that is heavier than a glass of water. What should I do? Should I cancel the trip to look after her? Or should I go? If I go, she'll never forgive me.
    22 answers · 3 days ago
  • Was my mother wrong to vote for Donald Trump or should I forgive her?

    She says she regrets it now (True Story) but voted for him in 2016 even though she said he was not her 1st choice of Republicans.
    She says she regrets it now (True Story) but voted for him in 2016 even though she said he was not her 1st choice of Republicans.
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • Does it make me a bad person to feel hurt in this particular situation?

    One of my siblings is getting married. I am happy for her as I always wish the best for my family and friends. Only yesterday, her husband-to-be said something that sounded a bit weird to me yet to my parents it didn't? I felt hurt at that moment and every time I think about it. He said that he is going to... show more
    One of my siblings is getting married. I am happy for her as I always wish the best for my family and friends. Only yesterday, her husband-to-be said something that sounded a bit weird to me yet to my parents it didn't? I felt hurt at that moment and every time I think about it. He said that he is going to make her be and live happier than all his and her sisters in law and in both families. Don't get me wrong, I have always wished happiness for her ever since I was a child. I never thought of things this way. I mean I wanted everyone else to be happy, but I never thought or planned to be 'better,' to speak more literally, than all other siblings or cousins. Putting it that way made me feel as if she received less attention or something and he wanted to compensate that. Or worse, it made me think that he considers us to be some kind of competitors and he wants my sibling to be 'better' than us. I don't know, it made me imagine that we would be living our lives and he would be watching from a distance and trying to do things better than us just to be better than us. It sounds ridiculous. He did not say he wanted to make her live a good life as good as she was living and more. He said that he wanted to make her live a life specifically better than his brothers' wives and her sisters. I feel hurt because I felt like I was estranged? I wouldn't even plan to be 'better' than all of my siblings or friends. Maybe better than an enemy? That would be more logical. HELP
    8 answers · 12 hours ago
  • What to do when your brother is making you feel low and telling you what to do?

    My brother is 29 and I am 23 resently he talks about my life and what I should do my brother hasn't got a job he is always round my place reading books that's all he does he dosen't wanna find a job. He says things to me that is mean we always argue at one another my brother thinks he knows it all but... show more
    My brother is 29 and I am 23 resently he talks about my life and what I should do my brother hasn't got a job he is always round my place reading books that's all he does he dosen't wanna find a job. He says things to me that is mean we always argue at one another my brother thinks he knows it all but he dosen't when I am around him he makes me feel sad and down what should I do about this?
    9 answers · 4 hours ago
  • I hate my family so much, could I get adopted even though I am 15 now because I can't f*cking do this for 3 more years?

    I am a 15 year old boy and my family live in this trashy council apartment. My dad who is in and out of prison is in a satanic cult and forces us to do weird prayers with him. My mum chain smokes and drinks booze every day. I have 5 siblings 2 sisters and 3 brothers. My oldest brother is a useless layabout who... show more
    I am a 15 year old boy and my family live in this trashy council apartment. My dad who is in and out of prison is in a satanic cult and forces us to do weird prayers with him. My mum chain smokes and drinks booze every day. I have 5 siblings 2 sisters and 3 brothers. My oldest brother is a useless layabout who makes sick dead baby jokes all the time. Then my brother and sister who are twins have an incest relationship that has gone on for years. My little brother is a psycho who spends his days torturing insects and then records their deaths in this book he's got. And my other sister falsely accused a guy of raping her she was always a compulsive liar and said from the beginning that she was lying and I got loads of sh*t for that but now that there is concrete evidence that proves she's lying no one has apologised to me. I can leave for uni when I am 18 but have no means of supporting myself until then and I can't stand to do this anymore the drama never bloody ends.
    7 answers · 5 hours ago