• My 85 year old dad keeps giving money to a druggie prostitute?

    His money is supposed to be our inheritance money, but he withdraws money to this prostitute whom he says he is in love with. He has literally given her hundreds of thousands of pounds over the years. He won't spend money on his own family, and yet sends money to her. What do I do?
    His money is supposed to be our inheritance money, but he withdraws money to this prostitute whom he says he is in love with. He has literally given her hundreds of thousands of pounds over the years. He won't spend money on his own family, and yet sends money to her. What do I do?
    23 answers · 9 hours ago
  • How do i convince my mom to let me burn candles in my room?

    she won't let me right now, cause of course it can be dangerous. I understand that and i would be extremely careful with them if she were to let me. But what should i say to convince her?
    she won't let me right now, cause of course it can be dangerous. I understand that and i would be extremely careful with them if she were to let me. But what should i say to convince her?
    19 answers · 1 day ago
  • Was this unfair of my parents?

    They made me bike to school every day uphill for 2 miles. I had to get up at 6 am and I reeked of sweat.
    They made me bike to school every day uphill for 2 miles. I had to get up at 6 am and I reeked of sweat.
    21 answers · 2 days ago
  • Would you pay $700 dollars to your brother ?

    So my brother offered me to ride his motorcycle in his apartment complex’s parking lot .i hit the gas to hard and ran into a car and broke my leg and back.so I was given a ticket for reckless operation.and now my brother just texted me saying that the total damage to the people’s car came out to $1400 dollars and... show more
    So my brother offered me to ride his motorcycle in his apartment complex’s parking lot .i hit the gas to hard and ran into a car and broke my leg and back.so I was given a ticket for reckless operation.and now my brother just texted me saying that the total damage to the people’s car came out to $1400 dollars and he asked me to save $700 dollars when I get my student loan in August (I’m a college student).im so pissed so my question is should I pay him the $700? I don’t even know if he’s telling the truth about the damage I only hit the back end of the car and the back bumper came off and I’m a college student I don’t have that kind of money to just give and he’s the one who asked me if I wanted to ride should I pay it PLUS the $300 that I may have to spend on the ticket totaling about $1000 idk what I’m going to do about food and other exspenses I only get $2700 a semester
    17 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Can you get hypnotized from a photo?

    Best answer: no......but you can get trapped by fear in your own mind.......
    Best answer: no......but you can get trapped by fear in your own mind.......
    8 answers · 1 day ago
  • Do you think this 13yo boy is lucky to have 4 hot big sisters?

    Do you think this 13yo boy is lucky to have 4 hot big sisters?

    Best answer: yeah.
    Best answer: yeah.
    6 answers · 3 days ago
  • Is it bad that i grow weed for my dad who is almost always in pain?

    Best answer: No, that's very kind of you. You're a good son/daughter. I approve. <3 Also, many of those painkillers can be WAY more addictive, and have nasty side effects, anyway! So if it's enough for him to just eat some weed..? Then all the better! And it getting you high is just a nice bonus, I feel like...... show more
    Best answer: No, that's very kind of you. You're a good son/daughter. I approve. <3

    Also, many of those painkillers can be WAY more addictive, and have nasty side effects, anyway! So if it's enough for him to just eat some weed..? Then all the better! And it getting you high is just a nice bonus, I feel like... He deserves that! F*ck this puritanical moralist society, and its pathetically rigid, myopic view on recreational drugs. :S

    ..Be careful, though, if it's not legal where you live! The fewer people you tell, the better.
    16 answers · 1 day ago
  • What good would counseling really do me?

    My dad says I need counseling because I HATE being a janitor. I hate my job, I hate it, I hate it. I only took a part-time job to get some extra money to pay bills while I went to Barber school but now I finished. The problem was, the custodial company made some serious changes and they no longer have part-time... show more
    My dad says I need counseling because I HATE being a janitor. I hate my job, I hate it, I hate it. I only took a part-time job to get some extra money to pay bills while I went to Barber school but now I finished. The problem was, the custodial company made some serious changes and they no longer have part-time positions so my choice was either go to full-time with 3 months of Barber school left or be terminated. My plan was to quit as soon as I completed Barber school, but you don't get hired as a barber, if you are luck you might be able to rent a chair in an existing barber shop but you have 1 chair available and 20 students graduating. Most of the time you will either open your own shop or give up. My dad has owned his own barbershop for the last 20 years, but he won't let me move in because he said it won't support 2 barbers. My parents pushed me to apply for another job because it's closer to them but I really was never planning on starting. Problem: Days are counting down fast and if I don't figure out a way out of this like today, I'm stuck. I told my dad I just wasn't going to do the job and nobody is going to make me. He told me I applied for the job, I accepted it, now I need to be a man and do it. I'm tired of these people running my life and getting their way every freakin time so I will just refuse to do the job, you can force me to go there but you can't force me to do it.
    12 answers · 3 hours ago
  • Why do parents treat you different once you turn 18?

    Every since I turned 18 and my parents found out I wasn’t a virgin anymore, my parents have been treating me in a very petty way. In my opinion. For example, they used to always give me rides to school in the morning but then i started having to pay gas money. But last week I only gave my step dad $20 for gas... show more
    Every since I turned 18 and my parents found out I wasn’t a virgin anymore, my parents have been treating me in a very petty way. In my opinion. For example, they used to always give me rides to school in the morning but then i started having to pay gas money. But last week I only gave my step dad $20 for gas because I had to spend money on prom and a mother’s day gift so he officially stopped giving me rides. Btw I plan on doing driving school after I graduate next week. But my question is why does age have to change everything? I’m a great student in school, I make good grades, I’m not pregnant. It was none of there business that I was sexually active, it’s private. I’m on birth control and I’m protective. What’s the problem? Should I talk to them about it or just save up and move out?
    10 answers · 6 hours ago
  • What’s a good punishment?

    Best answer: I’d like to believe this never happened but I believe it with how crazy young ones are now days. I say just give him a stern talking to, and make sure he goes with you when you take him to get the car fixed. DO NOT spank him.. that’s abuse. I’ve seen people get arrested for spanking their children. Once out in... show more
    Best answer: I’d like to believe this never happened but I believe it with how crazy young ones are now days. I say just give him a stern talking to, and make sure he goes with you when you take him to get the car fixed. DO NOT spank him.. that’s abuse. I’ve seen people get arrested for spanking their children. Once out in California. The cop didn’t play around. As soon as he saw red marks on the child’s behind he told the dad to put his hands behind his back!
    24 answers · 4 days ago
  • Dad is an alcoholic and Mom says it is my fault cause I was dismissed from UNC for poor academics. How do I get over this guilt I have?

    Best answer: Unless you opened up a bottle every day and poured it down his throat, it has nothing to do with you. That's just a very poor excuse. It's NOT your fault. Each and every person has to take responsibility for their own drug use (and yes that includes alcohol). It's OK to ask for help when you need it... show more
    Best answer: Unless you opened up a bottle every day and poured it down his throat, it has nothing to do with you. That's just a very poor excuse. It's NOT your fault. Each and every person has to take responsibility for their own drug use (and yes that includes alcohol). It's OK to ask for help when you need it but it is very much NOT OK to blame someone else. That is the exact opposite of taking responsibility for one's actions.
    21 answers · 3 days ago
  • Evicting My Controlling Father out of My house my Mother left to me?

    Currently, it feels like I’m living in hell at my home with my father. He has become petty & downright evil. To make things clear, my mother left me this home when she died 9 yrs ago, so my house is mines but in her will and testament the home doesnt go into my name until 25. I am a 22 year old female who is... show more
    Currently, it feels like I’m living in hell at my home with my father. He has become petty & downright evil. To make things clear, my mother left me this home when she died 9 yrs ago, so my house is mines but in her will and testament the home doesnt go into my name until 25. I am a 22 year old female who is feeling controlled by my father in my own home. Who knows what is wrong with my dad, but I’m guessing he was in a relationship where he was living with his gf and apparently they broke up. When he came back he has done everything in his power to have control and scare me. So far he has put a restraining order on my boyfriend to stop him from staying to my home with me (he pushed my bf to the edge honestly, not violence though), he has turned off my service on my phone and refuses to release me from the contract that I have been asking of him for years, he has taken my pets and brought them to the shelter, he records me and my friends smoking weed (legal in California), he has put up a huge wood slab up so I can only pass through one part of the house. He makes it so hard to live at my own home. I want to move out so bad, but it’s pointless to leave my home that was left to me. I was told to evict him but idk what to do. He is trying to have some sort of control and I’m literally scared at home cause whatever I do will trigger him to do something to hurt me. It’s like I’m his punching bag for all his problems. He has always been controlling but now I’m grown. Any advice?
    12 answers · 1 day ago
  • Do I mark my race as black or Hispanic? Or both?

    What do I mark my race as?My mom is Black & my dad is Puerto Rican but I don’t have my dad’s last name or a good relationship with him. Literally only my mother’s name is on my birth certificate so I’ve always indetified as black even though I’m half Hispanic. As am now older, do I start to mark Hispanic &... show more
    What do I mark my race as?My mom is Black & my dad is Puerto Rican but I don’t have my dad’s last name or a good relationship with him. Literally only my mother’s name is on my birth certificate so I’ve always indetified as black even though I’m half Hispanic. As am now older, do I start to mark Hispanic & black on things even though my mom is technically my only legal parent or do I have to have my dad as legally my parent to do so?
    9 answers · 14 hours ago
  • Who can I call or get help from?

    I'm a female, 16 years old. My mom verbally abuses me everyday. From the moment I wake up to the moment I go to bed. She calls me a whore and other similar words. She constantly tells me that she's tired of having me in her life and wishes I was gone. She tells me that all I'll grow up to be is a... show more
    I'm a female, 16 years old. My mom verbally abuses me everyday. From the moment I wake up to the moment I go to bed. She calls me a whore and other similar words. She constantly tells me that she's tired of having me in her life and wishes I was gone. She tells me that all I'll grow up to be is a prostitute. I don't do anything to her. This all started when I started dating my boyfriend. She is racist towards Hispanics. I can't take all the things she says to me anymore but I don't know what to do. It may not sound so bad but you'd have to experience it for yourself... I've asked this question before and the response was to talk to a counselor but school's out already. I'm feeling worthless and I don't see a way out of this...
    9 answers · 19 hours ago
  • Can you sue your parents for taking a valuable item you've bought with your money only?

    I've bought a Nintendo Switch completely from my own money several months ago, and my parents took it away from me due to me having bad grades, apparently. I've explained to them that it's under my ownership due to me having bought it from my money only, but my parents said "Our house, our... show more
    I've bought a Nintendo Switch completely from my own money several months ago, and my parents took it away from me due to me having bad grades, apparently. I've explained to them that it's under my ownership due to me having bought it from my money only, but my parents said "Our house, our rules." It took a year worth of saving to get it; can I sue them?
    28 answers · 4 days ago
  • What's one thing your grandma can't do?

    17 answers · 4 days ago
  • Why does my mom put pressure on me to be thin?

    She says that nobody likes fat women and she is a housewife. She is almost 50 and tries to make herself super young. She send selfies to dad trying to look sexy and tells me if i dont take care of myself my husband will look at other women. When i gained weight she started screaming atme to lose weight. Honestly i... show more
    She says that nobody likes fat women and she is a housewife. She is almost 50 and tries to make herself super young. She send selfies to dad trying to look sexy and tells me if i dont take care of myself my husband will look at other women. When i gained weight she started screaming atme to lose weight. Honestly i dont care as much, i want to look good but this is life ill age no matter what.
    9 answers · 23 hours ago
  • Why did my dad get so mad when i say we're poor? we are!?

    he lost his business and now he has to work for someone else, making crappy money. he screamed at me that i've never gone hungry or naked or cold. hes missed the point completely. we dont have nice things anymore. all the money goes on the house, bills and food so my allowance is pathetic and i got one gift (a... show more
    he lost his business and now he has to work for someone else, making crappy money. he screamed at me that i've never gone hungry or naked or cold. hes missed the point completely. we dont have nice things anymore. all the money goes on the house, bills and food so my allowance is pathetic and i got one gift (a video game) for my birthday
    9 answers · 24 hours ago