• I wish I never had children?

    After my son left home, got married and had kids. He became very distant from me. He made no effort to come to my home, not even with his children. I would only see or talk to him if I initiated it. I had to call, invite him places. This went on for years. When I did manage to reach him, he was pleasent and... show more
    After my son left home, got married and had kids. He became very distant from me. He made no effort to come to my home, not even with his children. I would only see or talk to him if I initiated it. I had to call, invite him places. This went on for years. When I did manage to reach him, he was pleasent and respectful but I would always know that as soon as that call ended or he left my home. I would receive the silence. After years of it, I decided that i had enough of his unavailable behaviour so decided to treat him the way he treated me. wait for him to call and initiate a visit. The problem was that he never called or initiated anything with me. Which hurt more than anything. I didn't see him or the grandchildren for a whole year. It was at that moment I knew my worth and decided to permanently cut ties with him. After the year of silence, he began sending Christmas cards and gifts to my home every holiday season. And he and his wife began inviting me to birthdays etc. I stood my ground and did not send cards back & declined their invites. After 5 years of me declining. The gifts, cards and invites have stop coming. It was my birthday 2 days ago and I got nothing. Now I'm left again with that same feeling of heartbreak. It's unbareable and now I wish I never had children. All the sacrifices I made for nothing. Has anyone gone through this
    51 answers · 1 day ago
  • I saw my brother nakes?

    Best answer: Quite normal. You are designed to find a male body attractive, you were not turned on by your brother, just by a masculine body. Don't feel bad, allot of people have had difficulties like this when a sibling is of a similar age. Just don't ever mention it to him, pretend it never happened. Kbock before... show more
    Best answer: Quite normal. You are designed to find a male body attractive, you were not turned on by your brother, just by a masculine body. Don't feel bad, allot of people have had difficulties like this when a sibling is of a similar age.

    Just don't ever mention it to him, pretend it never happened. Kbock before you enter his bedroom
    54 answers · 3 days ago
  • Have you ever caught your parents going at it?

    Best answer: I've heard them before....
    Many times infact....
    But they usually barricade the door so no one can get in....
    Best answer: I've heard them before....
    Many times infact....
    But they usually barricade the door so no one can get in....
    29 answers · 3 days ago
  • Mom being a dick?

    The title is a bit harsh but recently she is being such a douche. I'm 14 and the only son in the house, When I get back from school I normally go upstairs on my xbox to play with friends. But when I got back today she said "I've been talking to some friends about your xbox and they said they're... show more
    The title is a bit harsh but recently she is being such a douche. I'm 14 and the only son in the house, When I get back from school I normally go upstairs on my xbox to play with friends. But when I got back today she said "I've been talking to some friends about your xbox and they said they're kids only get 1 hour on it" And I said that's not really fair I'm in school for like 7 hours and when I get back I want to play with my friends for a few hours like 3-5 and she went on to say "Well I'm cutting your time to an hour and a half" This is when I started shouting at her which made things worse because she cut it to 1 hour what should I do? Also my sister is 6 and she is allowed on my IPAD for 6 hours and my mom doesn't say anything to her ;-;
    13 answers · 15 hours ago
  • My Dad is an alcoholic and it sucks because none of my friends can come over, what do I do?

    Best answer: My mother is an alcoholic and it's horrible so I feel your pain, I would say to be patient, and really think about how you can talk to him, because I know how mad this can make you, because I know how mad it's made me; but remember that alcoholism is a problem, most of the time an emotional one. Also... show more
    Best answer: My mother is an alcoholic and it's horrible so I feel your pain, I would say to be patient, and really think about how you can talk to him, because I know how mad this can make you, because I know how mad it's made me; but remember that alcoholism is a problem, most of the time an emotional one. Also remember THE TRUTH IS LOUD!!! Speak to him resonably and responsibly, take your time, and if he resists the first time, try again, try again, try again, just never talk to him when you're upset about it. Also DO NOT SAY A WORD ABOUT THIS WHEN HES DRINKING, NOT A WORD!!! EVEN IF HE'S JUST TAKEN HIS FIRST SIP, THESE EPISODES TURN HORRIBLE AND SOMETIMES VIOLENT , BE CAREFUL AND BE SAFE!!!!
    23 answers · 3 days ago
  • I hate my parents?

    Best answer: You walk out the front door the day you turn 18 and never look back.
    Best answer: You walk out the front door the day you turn 18 and never look back.
    56 answers · 5 days ago
  • My parents want to STOP Me from going on vacation with my boyfriend because OF US HAVING SEX HELP?

    ok so my parents are older theyre in their 60s and super christians (my dad is a pastor) so all through out my life i was taught that sex was "bad" and like the plague unless you were a married couple but since im 22 i've grown up and had boyfriends and clearly started having sex i lost my virginity... show more
    ok so my parents are older theyre in their 60s and super christians (my dad is a pastor) so all through out my life i was taught that sex was "bad" and like the plague unless you were a married couple but since im 22 i've grown up and had boyfriends and clearly started having sex i lost my virginity at 19 and hid it from them but a few months ago they found out i wasnt a virgin when they found sexy lingerie in my room and since then they've been OBESSED WITH Keeping me away from spending the night at my boyfriends house (he's 30) and he has a big house and he loves to cook for me and sometimes i fall asleep at his house and i wake up to many of calls and texts from my parents begging me to not have sex anymore and come home scaring me saying "if you get pregnant im not taking care of your baby!" i tell them im using condoms and they said "whatever condoms dont work properly they break!" well ive been using them for years and NEVER ONCE been pregnant LOL anyways next week me and my boyfriend plan on going on vacation to his moms beach house in another state and they're fliping the f**k out saying "were acting like a married couple he wont marry me cause im giving the milk for free we better sleep in different rooms" mind you his whole family will be with us LOL its really stressing me out! and they want to give him a 'serious talk" before we leave and wants to know if he'll ever marry me since we've been together 8 months WTF SHOULD I DO??
    10 answers · 10 hours ago
  • My brother is an alcoholic and the family blames me. How do I get over being the scapegoat?

    I am blamed for not being there for him more as the older brother (14 years older) after our Dad killed himself with alcohol.
    I am blamed for not being there for him more as the older brother (14 years older) after our Dad killed himself with alcohol.
    17 answers · 3 days ago
  • Am I overreacting or do I have a right to be upset? My mom is 55, dating my 27 year old brother in law.?

    Best answer: You owe it to your family(your kiddos) to provide a safe and healthy environment. Mom needs to go! Helping people family or not, is great. However, when it has a negative impact on your quality of life(and your kiddos) , she needs to find lodging elsewhere. She has created(from what you say) an undesirable living... show more
    Best answer: You owe it to your family(your kiddos) to provide a safe and healthy environment. Mom needs to go! Helping people family or not, is great. However, when it has a negative impact on your quality of life(and your kiddos) , she needs to find lodging elsewhere. She has created(from what you say) an undesirable living situation for all parties involved, your children, yourself and your mother in-law. I think you know what you need to do, you are just afraid you will damage your relationship between your mother and yourself. I completely understand that, but as a parent you have duties and obligations to be met on behalf of those kiddos of yours! Best of wishes!
    17 answers · 3 days ago
  • Why is my little sister such a crybaby?

    i am a 15 y/o girl, and my little sister just turned 13. she has the mentality of a 5 y/o. she accuses me of being selfish, bossy, controlling, etc. but i swear on my life that i’m not. she plays a game where it's either her way, or no way. If she doesn't get exactly what she wants, then she'll go... show more
    i am a 15 y/o girl, and my little sister just turned 13. she has the mentality of a 5 y/o. she accuses me of being selfish, bossy, controlling, etc. but i swear on my life that i’m not. she plays a game where it's either her way, or no way. If she doesn't get exactly what she wants, then she'll go crying to my mom and dad about how i'm "cheating/being controlling/bullying her" which i DONT. she makes daily threats about tattling on me for made up stuff. She is always over dramatic about stuff too. For example: yesterday I got a bunch of baby chickens (i researched how to take care of them, what to feed them etc). she did absolutely nothing in preparation of their arrival, which isn't out of the ordinary for her because she is incredibly lazy. So naturally after all my hard work, she thinks she can cry to my mom and dad that I'm saying that she can't touch them, when all I asked of her was to not remove them from under their heat source. So my dad told me "Chloe, I don't want to deal with her crying right now, and if you upset her for any reason, you're in trouble." I did the research. I know what is good and bad for them, but she thinks she can just take control of MY birds. she wanted me to leave her alone with them, i said no. So she called my mom crying about how im not letting her touch them (but i was letting her touch them) so i got grounded and grace got her way ... but this is just one ex. of how she lies to my parents, so she can get what she wants.
    8 answers · 9 hours ago
  • I work with a constant complainer. All she does is complain about little things. How do I deal with it?

    She complains about her job, the sun shining in the windows, the loud people in the shop next to us, the weather, her son, the phone ringing... I could go on. I try ignoring her and keeping to myself but her desk is right next to mine. She makes me hate coming to work because I know I am going to hear her... show more
    She complains about her job, the sun shining in the windows, the loud people in the shop next to us, the weather, her son, the phone ringing... I could go on. I try ignoring her and keeping to myself but her desk is right next to mine. She makes me hate coming to work because I know I am going to hear her constantly ***** and moan all day.
    8 answers · 12 hours ago
  • Is it bad that I'm pissed at my boyfriend for not having his license?

    He is 17, almost 18. He said he was going to the DMV today which he did, twice because he forgot some paperwork(which I reminded him to get but he ignored). He said that he's doing it later because he "would have had to take a driving test". I told him that he has to take a driving test (how else... show more
    He is 17, almost 18. He said he was going to the DMV today which he did, twice because he forgot some paperwork(which I reminded him to get but he ignored). He said that he's doing it later because he "would have had to take a driving test". I told him that he has to take a driving test (how else would they freaking know if he could drive or not 😑), but he kept saying that it's just a multiple choice test. I think he's mad at me because I kept giving him advice Anyways, my parents think that it's really weird that he doesn't have a license so I think that's contributing to my anxiety I think that I'm also worried about him being really immature/codependent. He relies on his parents for EVERYTHING, and seems to avoid thinking for himself. We were baking awhile ago, and before he even looked for the ingredients, he would tell "DAD!! WHERE ARE THE EGGS?" and it really pissed me off because he asked his parents about every little step in the recipe. He's going to community college. He says it's to save money and stuff, but I feel like it's really because he likes living at home where his mom makes EVERY SINGLE MEAL for him and does his laundry. I mean, for God's sake, he doesn't even know how to preheat the oven or use the microwave He has a lot of good qualities too, but this codependency on his parents is a real turn off sometimes. Like I haven't been that dependent on my parents since I was 10. Am I an asshole or what? Should I be annoyed by this? What should I do??
    8 answers · 12 hours ago
  • Is it right for me to wash cars and babysit sister 3-4 hrs every week + more chores and not get any pocket money?

    I wash both mums and her boyfriends car every week, babysit little sister 3-4 hrs sometimes more a week and do more chores such as tidying every now and then, mow the lawn and more and not get any pocket money?
    I wash both mums and her boyfriends car every week, babysit little sister 3-4 hrs sometimes more a week and do more chores such as tidying every now and then, mow the lawn and more and not get any pocket money?
    8 answers · 12 hours ago
  • How do I get custody or guardianship of my little sister?

    My parents died in a car accident when I was 14 years old and my little sister was only 2 years old. We were separated between family members. My aunt took me into her care, and my grandparents got guardianship of my little sister. Now I am 26 years old, my little sister is 14 years old and she wants to live with... show more
    My parents died in a car accident when I was 14 years old and my little sister was only 2 years old. We were separated between family members. My aunt took me into her care, and my grandparents got guardianship of my little sister. Now I am 26 years old, my little sister is 14 years old and she wants to live with me. My grandparents refuse to give her up and rarely let me see her. She feels mistreated, and there is a lot of emotional abuse in the home. She is not in any danger, but I would like to take her out of my grandparents home as soon as possible. I live in Las Vegas and she lives in California. What can I do to get custody of her???
    8 answers · 14 hours ago
  • Is throwing your hair in the garbage safe?

    I wanted to be sure because in Biology we learned that it had DNA and stuff so is it safe?
    I wanted to be sure because in Biology we learned that it had DNA and stuff so is it safe?
    7 answers · 7 hours ago