• Is my mom allowed to just unlock my bedroom door?

    I don't want my mom to just unlock my door. I lock the doors to the bathroom and my bedroom because I don't want people to just walk in. But my Mom always unlocks the door without even knocking first. I told her to please stop but she told me that I can have privacy when I'm 18. It makes me really... show more
    I don't want my mom to just unlock my door. I lock the doors to the bathroom and my bedroom because I don't want people to just walk in. But my Mom always unlocks the door without even knocking first. I told her to please stop but she told me that I can have privacy when I'm 18. It makes me really uncomfortable that she does this. Is this rude or am I just overreacting?
    41 answers · 1 day ago
  • I can’t even go out with my friends & I’m 15 going to 16?

    Basically, my brother can go out with his friends all the time, but I can’t, AT ALL. I asked what was the reason and my parents said it’s because I’m a girl, what’s that suppose to mean? It’s not like I’m going to go out and meeting up with some guy. All I’m asking is just to have some quality time with my friends.... show more
    Basically, my brother can go out with his friends all the time, but I can’t, AT ALL. I asked what was the reason and my parents said it’s because I’m a girl, what’s that suppose to mean? It’s not like I’m going to go out and meeting up with some guy. All I’m asking is just to have some quality time with my friends. I’ve done everything. Do chores, get good grades in school, work hard, got a job, I’m starting to do after school activities (softball), and the answer is still no. I’m a good kid. I’m really am. I’ve never gotten in trouble at school. But I’m pretty sure it has to do with the fact that one of my sisters previously had gotten pregnant at 14, and she’s 32 right now. And this one time, my brother was speaking to his girlfriend on FaceTime and my mother supported it, but didn’t want to tell my dad because he’d freak out, but every time when one of my older sister makes a joke about me having a boyfriend (I don’t) my mom wants to turn serious. I’m smart enough to know not to go around and have sex with some boy and get pregnant. I trust them, but they clearly don’t have a trust in me. And now, I’m starting to lose my trust in them. I feel I can’t even talk to my parents about anything, especially when it has to do with going to my one my closest friends birthday party. (They still said no). Whenever I see someone going shopping at the mall with their friends, I feel upset because I can’t do the same. My parents are strict, wayy too strict, and it’s hurting me mentally.
    9 answers · 7 hours ago
  • Would it be unfair to let my children s grandparents take my oldest on vacation and not my other children?

    My mom wants to go with my sis, her husband, & my neice (17) to Hawaii & take my oldest son (13) with her. They will stay with my cousin whose son is 16 & my mom s sister & bro-in-law will be there. I have 3 other children a boy 9, girl 7, & girl 4. I told her it would be unfair for me to let... show more
    My mom wants to go with my sis, her husband, & my neice (17) to Hawaii & take my oldest son (13) with her. They will stay with my cousin whose son is 16 & my mom s sister & bro-in-law will be there. I have 3 other children a boy 9, girl 7, & girl 4. I told her it would be unfair for me to let him go & the other s can t & I think they would be upset. There has been other vacays with the same set of people that only my oldest was invited to go so I didn t let him because I believe in showing my kids that they are treated equal & not cause any jealousy or division among them. She insists he is a big enough age difference from my younger children that makes it okay but I feel they are at the very age where it matters to them. I told her if she thinks it s okay than ask my other kids herself & see what they have to say. She has pics of my niece & my oldest on the refrigerator & in the guest room from when they where little & my 9 yr old asked me why are there only pics of my neice & my oldest on the refrigerator. I also feel like I don t want to keep hindering him because he has younger siblings. My mom also already told him which I don t like & she does often b4 talking to me or even after I tell her no. My neice & cousin are the same age difference to my oldest that my oldest is to my 2nd son so I don t agree with how for my mom the age difference applies to my two oldest sons but not to my oldest & my neice or cousin. Should I let him go even though my other children can't?
    5 answers · 3 hours ago
  • Why does my mom do this?

    Best answer: nnaybe you should nnove out if it bothers you
    Best answer: nnaybe you should nnove out if it bothers you
    12 answers · 6 hours ago
  • My mom went through my phone and ipad texts and it pisses me off?

    Best answer: not nnuch you can do but try apologizing and nnaybe you'll get it back
    Best answer: not nnuch you can do but try apologizing and nnaybe you'll get it back
    11 answers · 16 hours ago
  • Im 31 and live at home. Can I tell my mom not to bother me in the mornings because I’m tired? Or is that rude?

    Best answer: nnaybe you shouldnt live at honne if you dont want her bothering you, i would just be thankful you still have your nnother around, wish i did
    Best answer: nnaybe you shouldnt live at honne if you dont want her bothering you, i would just be thankful you still have your nnother around, wish i did
    10 answers · 6 hours ago
  • Is it okay to be 30 and living with your parents?

    Assuming you work full-time as a CNA at a nursing home. I always see articles about society being judgmental about grown men living at home, but was wondering about people's views on women.
    Assuming you work full-time as a CNA at a nursing home. I always see articles about society being judgmental about grown men living at home, but was wondering about people's views on women.
    61 answers · 6 days ago
  • If I want to move with my dad and step mom but the only person who will be able to take care of me at home is my 21 step brother ....?

    Is it illegal if my 21 year old step brother can take care of me while my stepmom and dad are on the road (they aren’t home as much because of their job )
    Is it illegal if my 21 year old step brother can take care of me while my stepmom and dad are on the road (they aren’t home as much because of their job )
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • What do I do??

    I just found out that my "sister" is actually my mother... Help
    I just found out that my "sister" is actually my mother... Help
    19 answers · 3 days ago
  • Do you think an alcoholic will stop drinking for the sake of his family?

    Best answer: I would give him a written ultimatum stating if he continues to drink and does not seek help the very next day, you will take the kids and leave so that they (and you) can be in a safe, healthy environment. You both sign and date it; you keep a copy and give him one to keep. Then stick to it. It then is on him to... show more
    Best answer: I would give him a written ultimatum stating if he continues to drink and does not seek help the very next day, you will take the kids and leave so that they (and you) can be in a safe, healthy environment. You both sign and date it; you keep a copy and give him one to keep. Then stick to it. It then is on him to keep up his end of it if he wants to keep you all around. I suspect he will test you, so be prepared to leave. Don't make false threats; follow though immediately if he fails. I'm sorry it has turned out this way, but I'm glad you quit drinking yourself. As others have stated, he is the only one who can change, and hopefully, this would be what it takes. I doubt it will work, but who knows? You DO know that doing nothing hasn't worked. All I know of is to leave, or possibly have an intervention first. Your kids have to be the priority here, so do what's best for them! I wish you luck.
    42 answers · 5 days ago
  • Can gay men date girls ?

    Best answer: Of course it's possible but I highly doubt that, that actor would say yes to her, as a gay man would most likely not want to date a girl. Your sister is clearly very untrusting of her boyfriend, and she should break up with him. It seems that she thinks the actor is also in love with her, which makes her seem... show more
    Best answer: Of course it's possible but I highly doubt that, that actor would say yes to her, as a gay man would most likely not want to date a girl. Your sister is clearly very untrusting of her boyfriend, and she should break up with him. It seems that she thinks the actor is also in love with her, which makes her seem VERY delusional, because getting upset over an actor hugging a girl in a movie is stupid. I don't mean to sound rude but it's true. Being this obsessed with someone is unhealthy.
    8 answers · 5 hours ago
  • Opinions: Going on a “secret” trip to see boyfriend at 22 and giving my mom a fake address?

    Best answer: Your parents know what is best for you, believe it or not, even at your age. If your parents dislike him, I assure you there's a logical reason for it and they're not disliking him just to punish you. At 22, you need to be more mature and responsible than to lie and betray your parents. There will be other... show more
    Best answer: Your parents know what is best for you, believe it or not, even at your age. If your parents dislike him, I assure you there's a logical reason for it and they're not disliking him just to punish you. At 22, you need to be more mature and responsible than to lie and betray your parents. There will be other boyfriends, there won't be other parents.
    7 answers · 18 hours ago
  • Are your kids good singers?

    18 answers · 3 days ago
  • Money-wise, what should you do before having a baby?

    What are the things you have to do before having a baby??
    What are the things you have to do before having a baby??
    13 answers · 4 days ago
  • Can brothers and sisters cuddle ?

    Best answer: It's not a good idea. It's not something brothers and sisters do with each other.
    Best answer: It's not a good idea. It's not something brothers and sisters do with each other.
    5 answers · 4 hours ago
  • Am I wrong for telling him this?

    So my boyfriends parents canceled their internet subscription as a punishment because their 14 year old’s not doing well in school and does not do chores around the house. The thing is they’re not persistent with their punishments (ever). And now he’s coming over every weekend and maybe twice on school nights (his... show more
    So my boyfriends parents canceled their internet subscription as a punishment because their 14 year old’s not doing well in school and does not do chores around the house. The thing is they’re not persistent with their punishments (ever). And now he’s coming over every weekend and maybe twice on school nights (his parents just drop him off). I have told him he’s only allowed to come over on weekends and on days there’s no school and to listen to his parents but I guess that just goes out the other ear. I have voiced it to my boyfriend and he agrees but tells me that I shouldnt be telling him (the brother) anything bc it seems as if I’m trying to parent him (which I’m not). I would just like my home to myself and not worry about watching over/feeding/hosting a 14 yr old while also caring for my one year old (mind you he’ll play on his PlayStation for up to 5-8hrs a day). I don’t want to make his family not feel welcomed bc I really do love them and I love their occasional visits but 3-4 times a week is a little to much for me . Am I wrong for asking my boyfriend to tell his brother and parents he’s only allowed to play video games at our house on the weekend. (If it we’re up to me I wouldn’t let him play due to his grades being terrible and him not listening to his parents but I really don’t have a say in that). (Sometimes he tries to spend the night so he could play longer or play as soon as he wakes up. And sometimes he does)
    9 answers · 1 day ago