• Would dry humping a man other than my husband be considered cheating?

    Best answer: yes, it's sexual activity and you should only do that with your partner
    Best answer: yes, it's sexual activity and you should only do that with your partner
    16 answers · 15 hours ago
  • Married Men: How often does your wife give you blow-jobs? How long have you been married? How often would you like to get blow jobs?

    Best answer: So two answers so far, both anon, and obviously full of you-know-what. Surely, there are some guys out there who get regular head from their wives. But I would guess the real % is somewhere around 1%. Yes, that means one out of every hundred receive head more than once per year. SOOOOO many guys are at zero... show more
    Best answer: So two answers so far, both anon, and obviously full of you-know-what. Surely, there are some guys out there who get regular head from their wives. But I would guess the real % is somewhere around 1%. Yes, that means one out of every hundred receive head more than once per year. SOOOOO many guys are at zero times per year. Those are the facts. I would venture a guess that guys would like it many times per year. She gets her beaver licked to climax every time, but only because I really enjoy the hell out of that. Too bad it's not reciprocal.
    5 answers · 21 hours ago
  • Husband will not forget and move from swinging incident, its been 4 months no sex not intimacy and he sleeps in guest room.?

    We have been married 24 years I am 46 he is 49. Our sex life had become less exciting after all these years. So when a friend of mine mentioned that they were into swinging for the last 5 years and how it revitalized there sex life it sound like just the thing. Did not go for it immediately spoke with her offer a... show more
    We have been married 24 years I am 46 he is 49. Our sex life had become less exciting after all these years. So when a friend of mine mentioned that they were into swinging for the last 5 years and how it revitalized there sex life it sound like just the thing. Did not go for it immediately spoke with her offer a few months about it and decided to bring it up to my husband. He was against it but over another couple months got him to at least agree to attend a party my friend was having. Well one thing led to another at that party and I thought my husband was onboard so while he was chatting with another women and look like they might be heading off to have sex I went off with another gentlemen. Well I had misread he was just being nice and when had not seen him or women he was talking to figure they had retired to a room. But what actually had happened is he had went to bathroom. Once he came back and started looking for me and found me I was in the middle of having sex with two guys and another women. He blew up and left before I could even get dressed to catch him. Since than he has moved into guest room. I told him it was mistake explained my thought process and apologized. Am at wits end do not have clue how to fix this. We still have 2 kids at home 16 and 12 year old. They know something is not right obviously.
    16 answers · 1 day ago
  • Would you be ok with you're husband drawing naked women?

    Ok so my husband and I recently just started watching porn when in the bedroom which is a major headway for me because I have the mentally a husband should only see his wife nakied. No I'm not a prude. I am a freak in the bedroom and try everything imaginable but when it comes to other women I feel it's... show more
    Ok so my husband and I recently just started watching porn when in the bedroom which is a major headway for me because I have the mentally a husband should only see his wife nakied. No I'm not a prude. I am a freak in the bedroom and try everything imaginable but when it comes to other women I feel it's wrong in a marriage. Anyway I've been trying to get pasted that mentality because I myself appreciate a women's body and believe it to be a beautiful thing so I opened up and have been trying to work porn into our bedroom game every now and then. Not getting insecure about it either afterward but I believe it's more or less because I'm turned on in that moment anyways so it's not really phasig me that he's seeing another women but he brung up recently I still won't let him draw women naked. Naked women as in a photograph of a naked women not her sitting on a couch in front of him. But I feel that's a bit disrespectful. One day me just going through his computer and seeing a naked women that's not me is a bit a punch in the heart to me. So I guess I'm just wondering how many females would be ok with that? Him staring at another women naked for hours on end while he's drawing her? I think it's a double standard because I don't believe he'd like me having random naked men just sitting in my gallery of my laptop. Perferable women in there twenty's or up to answer.
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is divorce more common now because women are becoming more liberal and manipulative?

    i mean back then, women would do whatever her man says so divorce and conflicts were less of an issue back then
    i mean back then, women would do whatever her man says so divorce and conflicts were less of an issue back then
    17 answers · 1 day ago
  • My husband won't do things i want to do?

    I do everything he wants to make him happy. Cook for him, bake, go see movies he wants to see, watch TV shows he wants to watch. IT doesn't bother me because I love him and enjoy doing things to make him happy. I will point out the positives in my husband, before the negatives. He is hardworking, will do... show more
    I do everything he wants to make him happy. Cook for him, bake, go see movies he wants to see, watch TV shows he wants to watch. IT doesn't bother me because I love him and enjoy doing things to make him happy. I will point out the positives in my husband, before the negatives. He is hardworking, will do anything to provide and we are looking to start a family soon. Weve been married only a few months so far. Can be loving and cuddly at times ( when he's in the mood). Very loyal, never cheated and i have faith he would never. However, he is very selfish when it comes to doing things i want to do. I am a star wars fan, and the new movie came out this weekend. I want to go see it and he refuses to go see it with me. He says he hates star wars and can't sit through it. I never ask him to do much that i want , but whenever its something he doesn't want to do I'm shot down. He's like going with another friend or ask you're dad. all my friends are recently married with little kids, its hard for me to make plans with them to see a movie, and most aren't into star wars like me. Also, when we were in italy for our honeymoon , i wanted to do go see the coliseum while we were in Rome and he didn't want to , so we argued over that. I said we have to , were in Rome, and he's like no i hate crowds, finally he gave in, but was cranky the whole time. I just feel he should give in more , as i would for him , and do some things to make me happy.
    18 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why do US people think woman should get half of her husband's money even if she did not work together with him?

    Partnership is working together taking pain together concerning together so they can enjoy asset together. But why US people think woman who did not work for her husband still can get 50? If she did not work 50 but only 10 percent she should get only 10 percent out of his fortune doesn't she?isn't it fair?
    Partnership is working together taking pain together concerning together so they can enjoy asset together. But why US people think woman who did not work for her husband still can get 50? If she did not work 50 but only 10 percent she should get only 10 percent out of his fortune doesn't she?isn't it fair?
    15 answers · 24 hours ago
  • Why would my mother in law say to my husband that we are inheriting her house & turnaround and give it to my stepson?

    My mother in law gave her home to my stepson, wife and kids, and moved his mother (My husband's EX) into the guesthouse. With all the contents!!!!! Our kids know their grandmother's house as the fun house because of the pool and grounds and a toy room where they play, now my stepson and his kids are... show more
    My mother in law gave her home to my stepson, wife and kids, and moved his mother (My husband's EX) into the guesthouse. With all the contents!!!!! Our kids know their grandmother's house as the fun house because of the pool and grounds and a toy room where they play, now my stepson and his kids are getting it all. My kids go there twice a month every month for BBQ and a swim. But now we can't go, because my husband, ex and his son and wife live there. My mother in law didn't want to sell it to someone out of the family and decided it was best to give to my stepson since he was paying for house & property repairs..... That's what my husband says anyways. I think we should have a share in this home and it's contents, is there any legal way we can get a percentage of this home and some of it's valuables?
    12 answers · 21 hours ago
  • My wife cheated on me, I am struggling to forgive her. What should I do ?

    My wife and I have been married for 4 years. 7 months ago she miscarried and gave birth to a stillborn I tried to comfort her but she pushed me away and I was hurting to. 3 weeks later I had to go away on business and whilst I was away she slept with a man that we know through friends of ours. She told me about 3... show more
    My wife and I have been married for 4 years. 7 months ago she miscarried and gave birth to a stillborn I tried to comfort her but she pushed me away and I was hurting to. 3 weeks later I had to go away on business and whilst I was away she slept with a man that we know through friends of ours. She told me about 3 months ago and now we are distant and I told her I forgive her because I understand why she did it if she was grieving, but I haven't really forgiven her. I have tried my best but I keep picturing her with another man. Sometimes when we argue I bring it up because I want to hurt her. My wife wants to try for another baby but I am not convinced that I want to because she is still grieving a bit and I haven't forgiven her. What should I do? So I can forgive her. How can I tell her I don't want to try for another baby yet? Am I being unfair?
    15 answers · 3 days ago
  • I found out my husband had been cheating on me with a women from church that I knew. Should I tell her hisband what she did?

    Best answer: You just don’t want to react in revenge, for your own sake. I would probably tell her that she needs to tell her husband and leave it at that. Then she’ll be afraid you will tell him and hopefully she’ll tell him herself. But you have your own marriage to worry about. It’s going to be a bumpy road figuring out why... show more
    Best answer: You just don’t want to react in revenge, for your own sake. I would probably tell her that she needs to tell her husband and leave it at that. Then she’ll be afraid you will tell him and hopefully she’ll tell him herself. But you have your own marriage to worry about. It’s going to be a bumpy road figuring out why he cheated and trying to fix the problems, you don’t have the energy to add more fuel to the fire. Concentrate on your selves for now atleast
    50 answers · 5 days ago
  • Should I tell my husband that I have a crush on another man?

    Best answer: I wouldn’t if I were you because he might tell you about the other woman he’s married to besides you
    Best answer: I wouldn’t if I were you because he might tell you about the other woman he’s married to besides you
    9 answers · 15 hours ago
  • Should men be praised for going to work 60 hours a week and earning money for their family or should this simply be expected.?

    Let’s assume for this example that the man works and the wife is a homemaker.
    Let’s assume for this example that the man works and the wife is a homemaker.
    10 answers · 24 hours ago
  • If a married woman flirts with you does it mean she will divorce her husband?

    Best answer: It merely means she's trying to see if she's still attractive to other men.
    Best answer: It merely means she's trying to see if she's still attractive to other men.
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why do people get married for when they could just live together forever?

    Best answer: We wanted to is the ultimate reason, we both want the commitment of marriage. There's legal benefits to marriage that there isn't living together. A big legal privilege with marriage is medical decisions. If you're not married, you're not that persons next of kin so it won't be you who is... show more
    Best answer: We wanted to is the ultimate reason, we both want the commitment of marriage. There's legal benefits to marriage that there isn't living together.

    A big legal privilege with marriage is medical decisions. If you're not married, you're not that persons next of kin so it won't be you who is making their decisions for them if they can't their self. Their next of kin does, so it would be a child of legal age and if there is none, then it would fall back to that person's parents and then their siblings if the parents wasn't an option. The next of kin doesn't have to allow you to visit them, either or release any updates/information on it. My husband is who I would want making my medical decisions if something happened and I couldn't do it myself. I'm also the person that would make them with him, however I would also consult his family in them as well and I'm pretty sure he would with mine too. You can do that not being married by filing some paper work, but your family can also contest it. Being married, I didn't have to make those extra steps.

    Kids - when a woman has a baby and she is married, the husband is automatically deemed the legal father of the baby. If she's not, the father has to be named on the birth certificate and sign it to establish his parental rights at that time. That has to be done when the mother is coherent. If something happens to the mother during the birth and she's unable to make decisions for herself, her next of kin will make them for her AND the baby because at that point if the father is not married to the mother, the next of kin for the mother is also the next of kin for the baby, until a court says otherwise.

    Myself, I don't have any issues with people who decide to do things different than me. However, I think it's harder to show kids the commitment of a relationship if you don't actually have one to display to them. I haven't figured out why a couple will make a 30 year commitment to the bank for a house, but not with each other.

    Some states still have common law marriage. If you meet the criteria for it and have an actual common law marriage what some don't realize is when/if you break up, you actually have to get a divorce just like a traditionally married couple will. My grandparents had a common law marriage back when it was recognized in Michigan and were together for 30 years when they split. Since they had assets and minor children together they had to get a divorce.

    Bank accounts - if you have a shared bank account but are not married the funds in the bank account are fair game, first come first serve. If you broke up, one person can go to the bank and withdraw everything in the account. Since there's legal protection for cohabitation like there is with marriage, they're not required to give any of it back. Under marital assets they would have to pay back 50% of it.
    30 answers · 4 days ago