• Does friends with benefits really work?

    I told this guy I really like him as a friend and that I didn't want to ruin our friendship with sex. And this is what he said but people always say sex ruins friendships. Me:Well, I really like you as a friend that's why I bought you a present for your birthday and I don't want sex to ruin it.... show more
    I told this guy I really like him as a friend and that I didn't want to ruin our friendship with sex. And this is what he said but people always say sex ruins friendships. Me:Well, I really like you as a friend that's why I bought you a present for your birthday and I don't want sex to ruin it. Him:Sex will only ruin it if you want something more that I'm not willing to give. Keep your expectations low and you won't be disappointed. That's what I do. **I was the one who mentioned sex to him. I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits. He never said anything to me about sex until I asked him. Before I ever asked him about having sex he had asked me to hangout.**
    16 answers · 18 hours ago
  • If your friend paid for your boob job, would you be ok if he then asked to see the results?

    So I’m 30 and male and my friend is female and is 27. We’ve been friends for over 10 years now and we’re very close. Unfortunately we live about 3 hours from each other now and one day when I was in town, my friend told me how she really wanted bigger breast. I told her I’d buy her a boob job for her birthday under... show more
    So I’m 30 and male and my friend is female and is 27. We’ve been friends for over 10 years now and we’re very close. Unfortunately we live about 3 hours from each other now and one day when I was in town, my friend told me how she really wanted bigger breast. I told her I’d buy her a boob job for her birthday under the condition that I get to see them. This is not me trying to be perverted. This is me making sure she uses the money for what she says she’s using it for and the only way for me to ensure that is to be there when it happens. She’s agreed to my terms but what do you guys think? If you were a female and your male friend offered to pay for your boob job, would you be ok in letting him see the results?
    23 answers · 2 days ago
  • Friend constantly tells me I am not invited to her wedding. Proper etiquette?

    A girl I went to highschool with is getting married early next year.She has always been "out there" and invited herself to my 2nd wedding a decade ago and appointed herself bridesmaid without being asked. I was polite and allowed it since nobody else would participate. She talks about her upcoming wedding... show more
    A girl I went to highschool with is getting married early next year.She has always been "out there" and invited herself to my 2nd wedding a decade ago and appointed herself bridesmaid without being asked. I was polite and allowed it since nobody else would participate. She talks about her upcoming wedding a lot and always says "you are not being invited just putting that out there" or she will mention where she is registered for gifts and when I mention what all do you need she says "dont buy me anything, its not like you are being invited anyway we don't have the space we are having 150 people". I understand she has free will and she can do as she pleases regarding her wedding. But I can't help but feel she is being a childish brat by constantly saying this. My relative told me this is not a true friend and at being in our mid 30s this is asinine behavior and to cut off the friendship stat. What should I do?
    16 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is this bad or am i just sensitive?

    okay so I'm in a group of 3 friends and one of them is really popular and we get along really well until the other one keeps trying too hard to be her friend so it pushes me out. I try and talk to them but the other one just clings onto the popular one so I can't get a word in. every time we are in class... show more
    okay so I'm in a group of 3 friends and one of them is really popular and we get along really well until the other one keeps trying too hard to be her friend so it pushes me out. I try and talk to them but the other one just clings onto the popular one so I can't get a word in. every time we are in class they are laughing away and I'm just sat there with no one to talk to. And they don't even notice that I'm upset. I feel like they don't care about me at all. Am I just being sensitive?
    13 answers · 20 hours ago
  • Do i have the right to be mad?

    basically I was having a small argument with this girl. let's call her A. A told my best friend O about the argument from her point of view. O texted me about it so I told O all about what had happened and um my thoughts towards A. O (my 'best friend'!!) then decided to take screenshots and sent them to... show more
    basically I was having a small argument with this girl. let's call her A. A told my best friend O about the argument from her point of view. O texted me about it so I told O all about what had happened and um my thoughts towards A. O (my 'best friend'!!) then decided to take screenshots and sent them to A!! which got me into a lot of stuff with my friendship group because A sent the screenshots of what I said to everyone!! do I have the right to be mad at O???
    12 answers · 20 hours ago
  • Can a 16 year old and a 19 be FRIENDS?

    Best answer: No reason you can't be friends, that is a minor age difference. My best friend and I are nearly 30 years apart.
    Best answer: No reason you can't be friends, that is a minor age difference. My best friend and I are nearly 30 years apart.
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • Was this sexual harassment?

    My boss at work who is a very good friend called me in his private office one day and asked me if I wanted to be considered for a new position in the company. Jokingly I said “I like to try new positions”. With a big smile on his face, he said “If my boss knew what I was thinking now, I would be fired on the... show more
    My boss at work who is a very good friend called me in his private office one day and asked me if I wanted to be considered for a new position in the company. Jokingly I said “I like to try new positions”. With a big smile on his face, he said “If my boss knew what I was thinking now, I would be fired on the spot”. I told him “If something comes up, let me know”. We both had a good laugh. In the employee break room I told some of my female co workers about this and they told me that was sexual harassment. What do you think? Was that sexual harassment? If it was, who was harassing who? He did not say anything about sex.
    15 answers · 3 days ago
  • Is my friend overreacting?

    So last Saturday while on my way to my friend's wedding, i got into a bad car accident that required hospitalization. Since I was being treated all day I couldn't call her personally to tell her what happened I had my mom do it. She got mad because according to her she wasted an entire meal's worth on... show more
    So last Saturday while on my way to my friend's wedding, i got into a bad car accident that required hospitalization. Since I was being treated all day I couldn't call her personally to tell her what happened I had my mom do it. She got mad because according to her she wasted an entire meal's worth on me. She is also demanding i pay her for the meal. Is she right in doing this or is it a slight overreaction
    24 answers · 5 days ago
  • Was I wrong to read my friend’s messages?

    Yes I know what you are gonna say- “you invaded her privacy” But please hear me out. my BEST friend came and she logged into her snapchat on my phone so i let her. She forgot to log out when she left and I was curious. I peeked at a conversation on snapchat between her and my cousin (my cousin is also one of my... show more
    Yes I know what you are gonna say- “you invaded her privacy” But please hear me out. my BEST friend came and she logged into her snapchat on my phone so i let her. She forgot to log out when she left and I was curious. I peeked at a conversation on snapchat between her and my cousin (my cousin is also one of my other best friends) and they were COMPLETELY ******** about me! Basically this was just before our school camping trip. Lets call best friend C and cousin D C: heyyyy we should prank deeya on the camping trip. She just ft me and told me not to prank her so we have to something original. D: okay. It sucks shes sharinf our tent C: ikrrrrrr D: what if me and u move our sleeping bags together and tell her to move somewehere else and we can pretend we have a huge secret C: yess and ill bring my sharpie and we can draw something on deeyas (me) face. And there r no toilets so she cant wash it off D: yes lets do that. honestly though that ***** doesn’t even fit in shes just a ******* weirdo C: innittt. Like shes way to big for her boots. Shes always like following mw around idk what to do. D: idk we will talk about it tomorrow bye So i logged out immediately and I dont know what to do. I am SO upset because I’ve known D my whole life and I introduced both of them and now they are turning on me. And C is suchc a hypocrite like last week she was saying that she hated people who talked behind people’s backs. How can i confront her without letting her know I read her messages?
    7 answers · 18 hours ago
  • What should I do? Should I make a move?

    Best answer: I definitely think she likes you or she wouldn't be so touchy feely with you and that is a subtle, non verbal way of flirting. She knows your bi and that's a good thing, so ask her to hang out and don't be afraid to make the first move.
    Best answer: I definitely think she likes you or she wouldn't be so touchy feely with you and that is a subtle, non verbal way of flirting. She knows your bi and that's a good thing, so ask her to hang out and don't be afraid to make the first move.
    10 answers · 5 days ago
  • Am I fearful for my job for no reason?

    I have worked at a company for 7 years. The last 3 years for a terrible boss. He hit on all the female employees married or not. He often made us work through our lunch hour. We had a big party to celebrate his leaving (after he left). Everyone was happy to get a new boss. However my happiness turned to tears... show more
    I have worked at a company for 7 years. The last 3 years for a terrible boss. He hit on all the female employees married or not. He often made us work through our lunch hour. We had a big party to celebrate his leaving (after he left). Everyone was happy to get a new boss. However my happiness turned to tears when I found out who the new boss was. It was a guy who had asked me for dates in high school and I turned him down every time. I just knew he would fire me to get back for turning him down for dates. For the first month I worked for him, I lived in fear every day that he would fire me. However he never said a word about us going to high school together. It appeared he did not remember me and what I did to him. Perhaps because I am using my married name now. My close friend Jill thinks he is just a nice guy that remembers but does not want to embarrass me by saying anything about our past. Everyone thinks and I agree he is a great boss. He is giving us all training so we can get a raise and promotion. For those of us that have kids, he will cover for us when we have to go to a school event or when we have doctor’s appointment for our kids. My coworkers just adore him as their boss. I still have the fear that one day he will remember me and fire me. Am I fearful for no reason? Should I mention our past to him or just forget it and move on?
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • How did i upset benjamin?

    Best answer: You must have done something he considered intolerably aggravating.
    Best answer: You must have done something he considered intolerably aggravating.
    5 answers · 13 hours ago
  • I'm in love with a 42 year old and I'm 21 nearly 22 and I'm so happy?

    I finally found someone who's perfect for me he may be doing another 7 months in jail but he's my hero we connect on a level that's beyond friendship he gets me and I get him the only thing I'm worried about is telling my family he's 44 will they disown me over it I don't care if they do... show more
    I finally found someone who's perfect for me he may be doing another 7 months in jail but he's my hero we connect on a level that's beyond friendship he gets me and I get him the only thing I'm worried about is telling my family he's 44 will they disown me over it I don't care if they do because he's my fiancee or should I lie about his age to them??
    6 answers · 14 hours ago
  • Mental Health?

    I'm 18, I have no job, come from a lower middle class family, I have no car, can't afford driving lessons, I have no GCSEs because I got mostly U grades due to lack of revision, depression and anxiety, I am however doing level 1 and 2 English and maths functional skills in college now. I hate my body and my... show more
    I'm 18, I have no job, come from a lower middle class family, I have no car, can't afford driving lessons, I have no GCSEs because I got mostly U grades due to lack of revision, depression and anxiety, I am however doing level 1 and 2 English and maths functional skills in college now. I hate my body and my face, I don't know why or how I've been told I am good looking and get boyfriends because I feel so ugly, I don't get bullied for my looks but I'm around 5ft and I look 15. I did get compared to 2 pretty celebrities though. I want to go to uni to do a Criminology degree with either Psychology or Sociology. I look at other girls and think they are so pretty and got good jobs, a car, money, everything going for them. I lost my girl best friend of 6 years and the guy I was dating, I f**k every relationship and friendship I have up. I have 1 close guy friend now and people I talk to in college but rarely go out. I feel so lonely. I'm very bored with my life, I'm struggling to get a job as my anxiety ruins things in interviews and I don't get many interviews anyway. Nothing good ever lasts in my life. I want a degree, a car, to travel, friends, boyfriend and an apartment but I doubt I'll get any of it. I was born a disaster. I pray to God but he ignores some of my prayers which angers me. What do I do exactly?
    6 answers · 15 hours ago
  • Define a true friend?

    Best answer: Someone who never talks behind my back. Someone who isn’t money hungry and don’t say “you have to pay me back” everytime. Like say you guys just buy for eachother. Someone who makes plans with you cause they wanna be with you. Someone who you can always go to cause you feel comfortable and someone who truly has... show more
    Best answer: Someone who never talks behind my back. Someone who isn’t money hungry and don’t say “you have to pay me back” everytime. Like say you guys just buy for eachother. Someone who makes plans with you cause they wanna be with you. Someone who you can always go to cause you feel comfortable and someone who truly has your back no matter what
    7 answers · 5 days ago