• My girlfriend cheated on me and wants me back? Should I leave or forgive?

    My girlfriend cheated on me with a guy she met at a bar. And I know the bar and it’s a bar where lots of guys go to who look for hook ups. He bought her a drink and then another and then another and she told me he said he thought she was beautiful and asked her if she wanted to go back to his place and they kissed... show more
    My girlfriend cheated on me with a guy she met at a bar. And I know the bar and it’s a bar where lots of guys go to who look for hook ups. He bought her a drink and then another and then another and she told me he said he thought she was beautiful and asked her if she wanted to go back to his place and they kissed in his car and had sex in his basement. She said she regretted everything and was crying her eyes out the whole time. Promised me to never go to that bar again. She was begging me not to leave her, but the whole time I’m saying to myself I’m done done done. What should I do? She’s gorgeous and I love her very much I just feel so stupid now because She cheated on me. Been together for almost two years. Should I leave or forgive.
    39 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • I ve just found out that my boyfriend has cheated over 10 times with the same person in 2 years of being with me.. What do I do?

    Best answer: Definitely get away from the negativity and get yourself tested please. Remember the cheating probably doesn't have much to do with you and regardless if the excuses you deserve better. I know it will hurt because you have invested a great deal of time a trust, but at most take it one day at a time. At the end... show more
    Best answer: Definitely get away from the negativity and get yourself tested please. Remember the cheating probably doesn't have much to do with you and regardless if the excuses you deserve better. I know it will hurt because you have invested a great deal of time a trust, but at most take it one day at a time. At the end if the day you are going to do what you want... I have known a bunch of women to stay with a person who continously cheats and I hope you just head for the hills girl. Much love, Trish.
    84 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • Are you well behaved?

    My name is Queenstar Betty Amoah, I am a 26 year old Ghanaian female, and I am a good girl because I don't smoke, I don't drink alcohol, and I don't do drugs. I don't have any sexually transmitted diseases. I graduated High School and obtained a Diploma. I have never been married before in my entire... show more
    My name is Queenstar Betty Amoah, I am a 26 year old Ghanaian female, and I am a good girl because I don't smoke, I don't drink alcohol, and I don't do drugs. I don't have any sexually transmitted diseases. I graduated High School and obtained a Diploma. I have never been married before in my entire life. I don't have any tattoos on my body. I don't wear nose rings, lip rings, or tongue rings. I don't wear artificial nails or nail polish. I don't wear contact lenses. I don't go to parties, bars, or clubs. I don't wind on guys or drop it down low and bring it up slow. I don't twerk or swing on poles. I don't wear thongs. I don't strip or give guys lap dances. I don't call guys on the phone to have phone sex. I am not a gold digger. I don't make out with guys in public. I don't rough play with guys. I don't wear high heel shoes and revealing clothes with an intention of getting guys to check me out. I like to dress decent like a lady because I respect myself. I don't follow the crowd or try to fit in. I like to follow my own lead and stand out of the crowd. I don't hang around bad friends. I know right from wrong and I try to stay out of trouble. I remained true to myself. I am unpopular and I like myself just the way I am. I will never change myself for anyone. What is so cool about being popular anyways? Popular people aren't any better than me and you. I am not materialistic and I wear what my parents can afford. I am content with what I have.
    14 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 hours ago
  • What should i do?

    I saw a friends penis at the gym showers and now i feel very awkward.
    I saw a friends penis at the gym showers and now i feel very awkward.
    68 answers · Friends · 3 days ago
  • Why is my dad so annoying and retarded?

    I’m 16! I’m an adult! He won’t let me go to my boyfriends house tonight because he thinks I’m going to have sex with him. He’s having a birthday party for another friend and I know his friend and we’re good friends. My dad thinks I’m just going to have sex with him! It’s completely unfair!
    I’m 16! I’m an adult! He won’t let me go to my boyfriends house tonight because he thinks I’m going to have sex with him. He’s having a birthday party for another friend and I know his friend and we’re good friends. My dad thinks I’m just going to have sex with him! It’s completely unfair!
    27 answers · Family · 17 hours ago
  • I found out my wife of 16 years, had a one night stand the night before our wedding, all those years earlier?

    I've been married sixteen years. Two kids, nice house, and very financially stable. We have a good sex life, don't fight a lot and spend a lot of quality time together. But I came across an old journal of hers, and while skimming, I came across a journal entry for two days after our wedding, where she was... show more
    I've been married sixteen years. Two kids, nice house, and very financially stable. We have a good sex life, don't fight a lot and spend a lot of quality time together. But I came across an old journal of hers, and while skimming, I came across a journal entry for two days after our wedding, where she was asking god for forgiveness for having a one night stand with the bouncer at the bar where she had her bacherolette party. I have done some digging, and haven't found any signs of her currently cheating or cheating within the last 10 years. I confronted her and she admitted it. I just feel so gutted. If I knew of this back then, I wouldn't have married her. But now I just dont' know if I can forgive this. Cheating was always one of those things I couldn't forgive. But we have 16 years of marriage, and 19 years total together. I can't fathom throwing that away, over something that she regrets, based on a lot of journal entries following our marriage. She is a good mother, wife, and friend now. I'm so conflicted.
    22 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 10 hours ago
  • Why are you ANSWERING questions in the Singles & Dating Category?

    What makes you an expert on this
    What makes you an expert on this
    52 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Opened condom wrapper found in my car?

    It turned up today. I don't understand how it got there. It was a Chinese branded Durex wrapper. I photographed the evidence. My marriage has been rocky recently. I questioned my wife and she categorically denied knowing how it got there. She found the whole thing amusing. Claimed her colleague drove the car.... show more
    It turned up today. I don't understand how it got there. It was a Chinese branded Durex wrapper. I photographed the evidence. My marriage has been rocky recently. I questioned my wife and she categorically denied knowing how it got there. She found the whole thing amusing. Claimed her colleague drove the car. Then when I asked for the name of the colleague, she said she couldn't give the name. Said she will call him tomorrow to ask why he left a wrapper in the car and if he was fooling around with the real estate clients. I don't fully believe my wife and think she may have cheated. Do I just blindly trust her or start divorce proceedings? I have a strong opinion of cheating. If she has cheated, then it is already over between us. Is it plausible that her colleague was being dirty?
    20 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 14 hours ago
  • What is your typical day like?

    67 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 days ago
  • I avoid my mother because she is mentally insane and obsesses over her disorders. Is that wrong?

    My mom has schizophrenia, bi polar, OCD, PTSD, whatever else u can think of and she is OBSESSED. She has made her problems her and not just a part of her. She posts nothing but things about her disorders on Facebook that bluntly say she's a victim of this and that and it's annoying. She's never worked... show more
    My mom has schizophrenia, bi polar, OCD, PTSD, whatever else u can think of and she is OBSESSED. She has made her problems her and not just a part of her. She posts nothing but things about her disorders on Facebook that bluntly say she's a victim of this and that and it's annoying. She's never worked and spends her husband's money on stupid stuff. When I'm around her I feel uncomfortable. Her house is always messy and smells like pee and she does nothing but sleep and play on her laptop. She has an autistic daughter who doesn't know how to read and her husband is a little off too I feel like she could've done a lot more to help with her kid and she doesn't manage what she eats and let's her just sit in front of the computer too all day she's only like 9 but she acts like she's 4 and I feel like there's more my mom can do like with her weight and hygiene. My mom has showed up at my door before with out asking (she has no vehicle she'll just walk). I just don't really want much to do with them because it's just depressing and they kinda smell. I have nothing to do with any of my family really and I think my mom neglected me as a child. Also anytime I'm around her, all she does is talk about past things and abuse and stuff. I have bi polar but at least I try to not harp on it and try to eat healthy and just try to do things to make me happy. The least she can do is try to help herself but she swims in hopelessness. Wtf to do?
    40 answers · Family · 3 days ago
  • What do I do when my mother keeps saying to me, "You haven't even given me a grand child?"?

    Best answer: If she really wanted grandchildren, she should have increased her odds by having more children herself. There is a percentage of people who never marry and a percentage who do marry but for any of several reasons are childless. Some become alienated for a variety of reasons. By raising only one child, she took... show more
    Best answer: If she really wanted grandchildren, she should have increased her odds by having more children herself. There is a percentage of people who never marry and a percentage who do marry but for any of several reasons are childless. Some become alienated for a variety of reasons. By raising only one child, she took a chance that her only child would be any one of those. So not having any grandchildren is actually a product of her own life as a parent.

    If she wants to alienate you and lose contact with her only child, Nagging in this way is a good way to lead to that.
    25 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 1 day ago
  • If during a war a guy does this to a girl, is that legit?

    So they're both in love with each other but they don't admit it. The girl is shot and he takes her away and removes the bullet but since he has not other instruments he disinfects the wound by burning it with gun powder. The girl screams and is shocked even more because he cut off her shirt to extract the... show more
    So they're both in love with each other but they don't admit it. The girl is shot and he takes her away and removes the bullet but since he has not other instruments he disinfects the wound by burning it with gun powder. The girl screams and is shocked even more because he cut off her shirt to extract the bullet. He stays with her until she's healthy again so she can go back home. Has the girl the right to be mad at him for taking off her clothes? Should he apologize or there's nothing to apologize, since it was a dangerous situation? What if the girl is so mad she doesn't want to see him or talk to him anymore?
    6 answers · Special Education · 12 hours ago
  • Why don't most people marry and start families young anymore?

    Best answer: It's called "the curse of affluence".. As societies "advance" economically, values shift from family and community to individual financial status, especially among the middle class... high school kids are obsessed with getting into college specifically to get high-paying jobs... college... show more
    Best answer: It's called "the curse of affluence"..

    As societies "advance" economically, values shift from family and community to individual financial status, especially among the middle class... high school kids are obsessed with getting into college specifically to get high-paying jobs... college kids are obsessed with starting careers, and spend the first several years after graduation focused on personal advancement...

    The net result is a generation of people in their mid-to-late 20s (prime parenting years) who are focused entirely on themselves... buy the time they have finally "made it" in their own minds, most are either too old to start families or can only afford (both in terms of finances and energy) to have one or two children at the most.

    This is why you see population decreases in places like Japan or sharp demographic shifts in other First World nations due to minorities and lower economic classes out-breeding establishment classes by as much as 4-to-1...
    17 answers · Family · 13 hours ago
  • What should I make of this response from my husband?

    Best answer: The fact that he clearly is attracted to her, at least a little bit, doesn't make it necessarily the reason he suggested her. If she was previously your sitter, it would only make sense to think of her as a possibility again. That having been said, the fact that your husband, even jokingly, expressed an... show more
    Best answer: The fact that he clearly is attracted to her, at least a little bit, doesn't make it necessarily the reason he suggested her. If she was previously your sitter, it would only make sense to think of her as a possibility again. That having been said, the fact that your husband, even jokingly, expressed an attraction to her may not make her your best choice. No good reason to tempt fate. At least he was honest about it. That's healthy.
    14 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • Old man winked at me!?

    I'm in my teens and I was spinning around in the grocery store and this old man winked at me. I kept looking behind me and he was staring at me. What does the mean?
    I'm in my teens and I was spinning around in the grocery store and this old man winked at me. I kept looking behind me and he was staring at me. What does the mean?
    17 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago