I cheated on my wife and got gonorrhea. I was about to confess because I figured she's gonna know when she finds out she has gonorrhea. But before I could confess she confessed to me that she cheated and has gonorrhea and probably gave it to me. I was pretty shocked, for many reasons, and I left the house yesterday, told her I need to think. Should I still confess? or should I not confess and try to work it out. I love her and she loves me, can we work it out?