I dated a guy for a year (Long distance relationship. We live about 2 hours away from one another, but visited each other frequently). As our relationship continued, he began to widthdrawl himself from me, but continued to act affectionate when we talked. He started texting and calling less and blaming it on his job and being tired (he is a trucker and work 12 hours a day). I asked him two weeks before visiting him “Do you feel that everything is ok between us?”. He answered and told me his feelings have not changed towards me and he thought things were going good. I went to visit him and talked to him the night before I was supposed to see him and everything was perfect. The next day he ignored me and I haven’t heard from him in a month. He’s a Sagittarius (just to explain some of his ways) I texted him several times and asked him to have a conversation with me and tell me how he feels, but no answer. Why couldn’t he just come out and break up with me, instead of ignoring me after a year of dating? I stopped texting and calling him and began healing myself and decided to move on. Why do men pretend that everything is ok, just to leave you with no closure?