• I’m mind fu*cked. Should I break up with him?

    After dating my boyfriend for about 4 months, he started staying over at my house every day. I knew it was too soon but I loved every minute and didn’t want it to end. 6 months later we talked about how we miss seeing our friends, family, hobbies etc and decided he would move back home. But now that he’s not with me all the time, he’s thinking... show more
    After dating my boyfriend for about 4 months, he started staying over at my house every day. I knew it was too soon but I loved every minute and didn’t want it to end. 6 months later we talked about how we miss seeing our friends, family, hobbies etc and decided he would move back home. But now that he’s not with me all the time, he’s thinking negatively about me and I wouldn’t have a clue why.. he’s always thinking that I’m hiding things, he even asked me if I have access to his Facebook or Snapchat cause he thinks someone is hacking him. He’s always saying things like “I KNOW you’re hiding things from me” I’ve tried showing him my messages, and he gets angry if I do. I’m always trying to prove myself to him. Honestly I’m an attractive girl, I go to the gym and cook for fun, I don’t go out (my preference), I’m always cooking for him, buying him things, doing whatever I can because I absolutely love seeing him happy. But I’m getting tired of this... I’ve tried talking to him about how this makes me feel and he says things like “well that just shows you don’t care about proving yourself” - should I break up with him?
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 months ago
  • What do I do?

    My boyfriend has been distant lately. I know from past experience that when he's pissed off about something, he becomes distant and won't talk about it. I have directly asked him what's wrong, and he says it's nothing and we end up arguing. I know him very well, so it's emotionally draining thinking off 100 possible reasons for... show more
    My boyfriend has been distant lately. I know from past experience that when he's pissed off about something, he becomes distant and won't talk about it. I have directly asked him what's wrong, and he says it's nothing and we end up arguing. I know him very well, so it's emotionally draining thinking off 100 possible reasons for this. These arguments are because he's being distant, and he finally told me that he's being distant because of the arguments. This is so stupid, but I can't even help him put this in perspective because he's been ignoring me. I feel like the longer he doesn't talk to me, the more he's going to want to break up with me. I'm devastated and don't know what to do. I texted him yesterday and asked if he was free tonight. He hasn't responded
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 6 months ago
  • Should I start playing his little boy games?

    My boyfriend and I have been arguing a lot recently and it's pretty much because he bottles things up. Because of this he's caused me an enormous amount of stress and anxiety. Hes ignored my calls, takes several hours to respond to messages even though he's online on Facebook. Im trying to talk things out with him and he's just... show more
    My boyfriend and I have been arguing a lot recently and it's pretty much because he bottles things up. Because of this he's caused me an enormous amount of stress and anxiety. Hes ignored my calls, takes several hours to respond to messages even though he's online on Facebook. Im trying to talk things out with him and he's just playing pathetic little games, as a woman I know that I can play mind games A LOT better... but should I? I've texted him and asked him if he's free tomorrow, he didn't reply and im sure he will text me tomorrow and say yes. I don't want to play games, but I feel like I'm just lowering my dignity
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 6 months ago
  • Should I text him?

    My ex and I have decided to stay friends, we hang out once a week. If I text him one night, he texts back the next night and I'll text back the night after that - I know, so weird. Anyway last Wednesday he asked me if I'm free on Friday, I text back the next day telling him that I am. But I get no reply....Friday afternoon I sent him a... show more
    My ex and I have decided to stay friends, we hang out once a week. If I text him one night, he texts back the next night and I'll text back the night after that - I know, so weird. Anyway last Wednesday he asked me if I'm free on Friday, I text back the next day telling him that I am. But I get no reply....Friday afternoon I sent him a question mark and he immediately responded by asking me what time. When I saw him, he had expensive, thoughtful Christmas gifts for me so I was a bit confused. I'm thinking of asking him to hang out this week, but I'm not sure if I should because he didn't seem to want to the last time...
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 year ago
  • What to do about a rebellious teenager?

    I've got a friend (matt) who is pretty much a father to his 15 yo brother (James) They live with their parents who own a business and are always working and rarely at home. They have no say in James' life, he just hates them and has even punched his father once. James goes out for days at a time without telling anyone where he is and he... show more
    I've got a friend (matt) who is pretty much a father to his 15 yo brother (James) They live with their parents who own a business and are always working and rarely at home. They have no say in James' life, he just hates them and has even punched his father once. James goes out for days at a time without telling anyone where he is and he won't answer calls from his family. Him and his friends sleep in the park, he does weed, rarely goes to school, doesn't do homework.. James does not listen to anyone, though sometimes he listens to me. I'm quite close to this family so I care for him like my little brother but I don't know what else to suggest. James' parents employ him at the restaurant that they own, I suggested firing him because he never goes to work anyway. But they're scared if he doesn't get money he will resort to selling drugs What should matt do? James has seen a psychologist 6 times and that did nothing for him so he refuses to go back
    3 answers · Family · 3 years ago
  • Is there an app for music storage and play?

    I have an iPhone 5s, how can I store and play music without needing wifi or mobile data?
    I have an iPhone 5s, how can I store and play music without needing wifi or mobile data?
    1 answer · Mobile Phones & Plans · 3 years ago
  • What do I write in a 40th anniversary card?

    It's my friends parents 40th anniversary tonight and I have a card and gift for them but don't know what to write in the card... I've never been to an anniversary celebration :/ Any suggestions?
    It's my friends parents 40th anniversary tonight and I have a card and gift for them but don't know what to write in the card... I've never been to an anniversary celebration :/ Any suggestions?
    1 answer · Friends · 3 years ago
  • My jacket turned white ish green?

    I have a denim jacket that I loved but unfortunately the first time I wore it, I got stuck in the rain and the colour went from light blue to white ish green... Should I dye it? Is there any other way to get the colour back?
    I have a denim jacket that I loved but unfortunately the first time I wore it, I got stuck in the rain and the colour went from light blue to white ish green... Should I dye it? Is there any other way to get the colour back?
    1 answer · Cleaning & Laundry · 3 years ago
  • Is the detective putting the investigation off?

    I have an intervention order against my ex boyfriend, when he found out he sent pictures of him and I having sex to my parents and a friend. But he sent it from a fake Facebook account .. His laptop, phone and iPad were taken and they will be investigated. I was told they have 12 months to do it (starting from November), the detective told me he... show more
    I have an intervention order against my ex boyfriend, when he found out he sent pictures of him and I having sex to my parents and a friend. But he sent it from a fake Facebook account .. His laptop, phone and iPad were taken and they will be investigated. I was told they have 12 months to do it (starting from November), the detective told me he needs their IT team to make an appointment with them... Some of my friends are telling me this sounds like he's stalling or something, could this be true ?
    2 answers · Law Enforcement & Police · 3 years ago
  • Why should I go to police? Should I just leave it?

    I have an intervention order against my ex, he's not allowed to contact me but has sent me several emails from October last year (when I left him) till one week ago. I'm nervous to go to police about these emails, I'm scared he will try to take revenge I know I need to report this but I guess I need a little pep talk.. Help?
    I have an intervention order against my ex, he's not allowed to contact me but has sent me several emails from October last year (when I left him) till one week ago. I'm nervous to go to police about these emails, I'm scared he will try to take revenge I know I need to report this but I guess I need a little pep talk.. Help?
    4 answers · Law & Ethics · 3 years ago
  • Is there any way i can lock my room without an actual lock?

    My parents don't believe in privacy, whenever I'm not home they go into my room and take my clothes so they can donate it. They also look through my things and get rid of anything that they don't like eg lingerie.. So I'm going out tonight, is there some way I can lock my door temporarily .. I'll be getting a lock put on it next... show more
    My parents don't believe in privacy, whenever I'm not home they go into my room and take my clothes so they can donate it. They also look through my things and get rid of anything that they don't like eg lingerie.. So I'm going out tonight, is there some way I can lock my door temporarily .. I'll be getting a lock put on it next week but for now, what do I do?
    2 answers · Family · 3 years ago
  • He breached the intervention order, I'm scared to report it?

    I have an intervention order against my ex boyfriend .. Hes sent me a lot of emails even though the intervention order says he cannot have any contact with me. I want to go to police about this but he will be arrested and I'm so scared of what will happen ... He's proven to be very vindictive and I'm worried. I don't want to disrupt... show more
    I have an intervention order against my ex boyfriend .. Hes sent me a lot of emails even though the intervention order says he cannot have any contact with me. I want to go to police about this but he will be arrested and I'm so scared of what will happen ... He's proven to be very vindictive and I'm worried. I don't want to disrupt my families life by having to move but if he puts another girl through what he put me through (he was abusive) I will never forgive myself. I don't know what to do.. what do I do?
    3 answers · Law & Ethics · 3 years ago
  • Was he right? He said "you don't know the first thing about how to love"?

    My ex was abusive, he never hit me but he used to keep surveillance on me, insult me constantly, tell me to kill myself, spit on me, hack my phone and Facebook, send rude messages to my friends and family on my behalf, restrict the people I'm allowed to talk to, threaten to kill or hurt me, my family or friends so I left him eventually and got... show more
    My ex was abusive, he never hit me but he used to keep surveillance on me, insult me constantly, tell me to kill myself, spit on me, hack my phone and Facebook, send rude messages to my friends and family on my behalf, restrict the people I'm allowed to talk to, threaten to kill or hurt me, my family or friends so I left him eventually and got an intervention order against him. He sends me emails all the time even though he's not allowed to and I don't have the heart to report him to police because he will be arrested if I do.. My question is, is that really what love is? Letting them hurt you but never giving up ? I believe in love you shouldn't give up and I would've kept putting up with his crap if he hadn't tried to destroy my relationship with my parents and friends. I've been feeling so guilty and I really need advice. I'm supposed to see a counsellor but they're closed for 2 weeks
    3 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 3 years ago
  • My ex was abusive but I miss him?

    I left my ex boyfriend almost 4 months ago, he was abusive. He never hit me but would threaten me all the time to either hurt/kill me or my family and friends, he watched me through cameras he tracked my phone, spat on me countless times, called me horrible names like black c*nt, he always tried to humiliate me by sending personal things to my... show more
    I left my ex boyfriend almost 4 months ago, he was abusive. He never hit me but would threaten me all the time to either hurt/kill me or my family and friends, he watched me through cameras he tracked my phone, spat on me countless times, called me horrible names like black c*nt, he always tried to humiliate me by sending personal things to my friends or family. when I left him I got an intervention order against him so he sent a video of us having sex to my parents and a friend. There's more but I'm trying to keep this short. we still had great times together, I loved him so much, he understood me and would drop everything if I needed him. He was always there for me, he did the sweetest things for me like one time when I was asleep, he put post it notes all over the house and said things like "you look stunning today" "please stitch my pants" "you're my soul mate" I have a slight disability after having brain surgery and sometimes I get upset because I can't do certain things and he always made me feel good about it. So I live with my parents now and I don't have any contact with him .. But I miss him. He sent me an email to say happy valentines day .. I really want to reply, but I know if my parents or friends found out they would be really upset .. I don't know what to do, should I just ignore it?
    8 answers · Friends · 3 years ago
  • Do they have to do it by November ?

    My ex boyfriend was abusive. I got an intervention order against him and when he found out he made a fake Facebook account and used it to send pictures of him and I having sex, to my parents and a friend. The police have taken his phones and laptops and are 'investigating'. The cop that I spoke to told me that they need to take the computers... show more
    My ex boyfriend was abusive. I got an intervention order against him and when he found out he made a fake Facebook account and used it to send pictures of him and I having sex, to my parents and a friend. The police have taken his phones and laptops and are 'investigating'. The cop that I spoke to told me that they need to take the computers in for "analysis" and need an appointment, he said they have 12 months to do it. The 12 months will end in November, is it possible that they might not even do it by November?
    1 answer · Law & Ethics · 3 years ago
  • What do I say to this cocky guy?

    I've known this guy for about 2 years, he's very supportive and is always these when I need someone.. Whenever I'm upset he's so sweet but when I'm happy and normal he annoys the crap out of me with his cockiness! He talks about himself ALL THE TIME! Eg last week I texted him to ask how his new job was going and this was his... show more
    I've known this guy for about 2 years, he's very supportive and is always these when I need someone.. Whenever I'm upset he's so sweet but when I'm happy and normal he annoys the crap out of me with his cockiness! He talks about himself ALL THE TIME! Eg last week I texted him to ask how his new job was going and this was his reply It's so good ! I'm the youngest and hottest person there ! Everyone always tells me how good I look. Wtf? So we haven't talked in about a week and he texts me this so my manager is sick so I've been a receptionist this week . So much better than the girl that was here (she's sick too ) ... Everyone's like you are so smart and hardworking ... I'm like well yeah What do I say?
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • He will deny it.. Is there any point getting a solicitor?

    My ex boyfriend has a lot of my belongings, including my citizenship certificate and my passport. I have an intervention order against him so I can't just ask him for it back, although he would probably deny having it because he's an a**hole. I was told to get a solicitor to contact his lawyer .. I'm going to get one soon but I have a... show more
    My ex boyfriend has a lot of my belongings, including my citizenship certificate and my passport. I have an intervention order against him so I can't just ask him for it back, although he would probably deny having it because he's an a**hole. I was told to get a solicitor to contact his lawyer .. I'm going to get one soon but I have a question. What if he has destroyed my stuff? Or he denies having it, what happens then?
    2 answers · Law & Ethics · 3 years ago
  • Period is 6 days late?

    I haven't had sex since October last year, but now I'm 6 days late for my period. How long should I wait before seeing a doctor?
    I haven't had sex since October last year, but now I'm 6 days late for my period. How long should I wait before seeing a doctor?
    1 answer · Women's Health · 3 years ago
  • Am I overthinking?

    I was in an abusive relationship but I'm out of it and my life is back to normal now but after leaving him, I researched signs of meth abuse and he had a lot of them eg picking skin, excessive sweating, not eating or sleeping etc. now I'm very cautious not to get involved with anyone that does drugs. So this guy I've been talking to,... show more
    I was in an abusive relationship but I'm out of it and my life is back to normal now but after leaving him, I researched signs of meth abuse and he had a lot of them eg picking skin, excessive sweating, not eating or sleeping etc. now I'm very cautious not to get involved with anyone that does drugs. So this guy I've been talking to, I've known him for a while and I know he doesn't smoke or drink ... But his eyes are very shiny and somewhat big and he mentioned the other day that sometimes he wakes up in cold sweats. Am I over thinking ? Lol it probably sounds stupid but I'm terrified that I could go through that again. I just want to be sure
    1 answer · Mental Health · 3 years ago
  • What are his intentions? How do I know if he just wants sex?

    I've been with a lot of guys that just wanted sex.. Now I can usually tell when they're like that, but sometimes they can be tricky. I've been texting this guy everyday, now and then he calls me beautiful, we have talked sexually once but he hasn't brought it up again. I sprained my ankle so he asks me how it is every day, he... show more
    I've been with a lot of guys that just wanted sex.. Now I can usually tell when they're like that, but sometimes they can be tricky. I've been texting this guy everyday, now and then he calls me beautiful, we have talked sexually once but he hasn't brought it up again. I sprained my ankle so he asks me how it is every day, he sometimes tells me that he was thinking about me when he was at work, he says things like "tell me more about yourself" and about an hour ago he said "we should call each other sometime" but I think he fell asleep cause I said I'd love to and he didn't reply. He seems legit, but without directly asking him, how would I know what his intentions are?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago