So my so-called fiance and I have been having arguments lately, that ended up with her leaving. her reason is that she wants to work out the relationship while living separately. i was raised to believe that in a relationship you only walk away after you've tried everything unsuccessfully to save it, so walking away is a 1 way trip.
Don't get me wrong, we are both at fault. I haven't given much family time, but not because am lazy. i work full time and nursing school full time, so stress and frustration comes easily with the territory. but i did tell her this before being together.
She wants more family time, which i couldnt give, even though i spend time with the kids at home instead of library.
She left me with the household bills in an apartment too big for me alone. She said she has almost fallen out of love with me and leaving will help us solve our problems ( i don't get it).
i keep thinking what the chances are, that if we get married and every time there is a problem (and there will be many), she will walk away without a though of the damages (financially and emotionally) she leaves behind. I dont have the luxury of doing such thing. I believe in doing what is right, rather than what you want (most of the time). Makes me wonder why I should marry her. The more time passes, the less i am interested in her. I want your input on weather i should stay or cut my loses and move on. Though final decision is mine, any kind of advice will help.