EVERYTHING I do makes it blow up. There's a full inch of melted wax under the flame which is right at the rim and keeps crackling, I'm scared it could catch somthing on fire. I want to pick it up and put it in the bath tub, but i'm scared to move it. I have a fire extinguishing can, but as soon as I sprayed, the fire blew everywhere and I was absolutely sure I'd burned my house down. But it's still in the jar now. I tried taking my small metal trash can and flipping it over around it to suffocate it, but it started getting hot and I didn't know if it could catch fire, so I took it off. I spat at it once and it flew all over the place. I don't know what to do, I'm scared.