• Girl put her fist over her nose while walking past me after gym got over. This hurt me really bad . Do I smell that bad ?????? Please help?

    Hi I am 21 year old male. Let me get straight to the point. I have been paranoid of the way I smell for the last few months. Today their girl ,in my gym was there . I have never gone near her in the past . In class she saw me more than a few times . She is younger than me and after class got over , when she walked past me , she out her fist over her... show more
    Hi I am 21 year old male. Let me get straight to the point. I have been paranoid of the way I smell for the last few months. Today their girl ,in my gym was there . I have never gone near her in the past . In class she saw me more than a few times . She is younger than me and after class got over , when she walked past me , she out her fist over her nose . This made me very paranoid because I was slowly recovering. I am very paranoid with this and it is starting to come back . What do I do ??? Please answer honestly
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • Girl put her fist over her nose while walking past me after gym. Do I smell that bad or am I being paranoid ?

    Hi I am 21 year old male. Let me get straight to the point. I have been paranoid of the way I smell for the last few months. Today their girl ,in my gym was there . I have never gone near her in the past . In class she saw me more than a few times . She is younger than me and after class got over , when she walked past me , she out her fist over... show more
    Hi I am 21 year old male. Let me get straight to the point. I have been paranoid of the way I smell for the last few months. Today their girl ,in my gym was there . I have never gone near her in the past . In class she saw me more than a few times . She is younger than me and after class got over , when she walked past me , she out her fist over her nose . This made me very paranoid because I was slowly recovering. I am very paranoid with this and it is starting to come back . What do I do ???
    2 answers · Friends · 1 day ago
  • Why do I hate girls even though I have never been hurt by them ? I like to degrade and hurt them emotionally . Why ? Am I a sociopath ? Help?

    I am 21 years old male . I used to be a nice guy and nothing in my life has happened where a girl hurt me deeply or anything because no girl was ever rude to . 4 years ago , I started to feel that I felt happy when girls got hurt or angry with me because I ignored them. This also has something to do with the fact that I was never able to get to the... show more
    I am 21 years old male . I used to be a nice guy and nothing in my life has happened where a girl hurt me deeply or anything because no girl was ever rude to . 4 years ago , I started to feel that I felt happy when girls got hurt or angry with me because I ignored them. This also has something to do with the fact that I was never able to get to the next level with a girl and got frustrated.I used to talk to girls properly before and when I started ignoring them , they used to be upset and that made me happy. In high school I rejected girls very harshly by saying no to one and the other one I knew she had a crush on me and purposely ignored her. They both were very popular and their female friends obviously started hating me. Even in my apartment I did this. I have heard I'm a good looking guy I don't have many friends and yes many people do dislike me . I love my mom but hate girls. One girl in particular in my gym was Avery quite girl. A very sweet girl who never hates anyone . She was my junior in school and I found out that I had a crush on her but she seemed to talk to a 27 year old guy. This obviously hurt my ego because I am 1000 times better looking than he is so I forgot my feelings and completely started ignoring her. She was a quite girl so she never approaches guys , but she approached me 3 -4 times because we had spoken earlier. This was 8 months ago . To this date I ignore her when I see her walking in the road and she gets a little serious when she sees me.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 weeks ago
  • Why do I like hurting girls emotionally but feel sad for them sometimes ? Am I a jerk ? Did I hurt girls this girl enough to hate me ? Help?

    I am 21 years old male . I used to be a nice guy and nothing in my life has happened where a girl hurt me deeply or anything because no girl was ever rude to . 4 years ago , I started to feel that I felt happy when girls got hurt or angry with me because I ignored them. This also has something to do with the fact that I was never able to get to the... show more
    I am 21 years old male . I used to be a nice guy and nothing in my life has happened where a girl hurt me deeply or anything because no girl was ever rude to . 4 years ago , I started to feel that I felt happy when girls got hurt or angry with me because I ignored them. This also has something to do with the fact that I was never able to get to the next level with a girl and got frustrated.I used to talk to girls properly before and when I started ignoring them , they used to be upset and that made me happy. In high school I rejected girls very harshly by saying no to one and the other one I knew she had a crush on me and purposely ignored her. They both were very popular and their female friends obviously started hating me. 3ven in my apartment I did this. Many girls hate me. I have heard I'm a good looking guy I don't have many friends and yes many people do dislike me . One girl in particular in my gym was Avery quite girl. A very sweet girl who never hates anyone . She was my junior in school and I found out that I had a crush on her but she seemed to talk to a 27 year old guy. This obviously hurt my ego because I am 1000 times better looking than he is so I forgot my feelings and completely started ignoring her. She was a quite girl so she never approaches guys especially but she approached me 3 -4 times because we had spoken earlier. This was 8 months ago . Till this date I ignore her when I see her walking in the road and she gets a little serious when she sees me.
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 weeks ago
  • Why do I want to hurt girls emotionally most of them time but also feel a little guilty sometimes ? Is there something called karma ? Help !?

    I am 21 years old male . I used to be a nice guy and nothing in my life has happened where a girl hurt me deeply or anything because no girl was ever rude to . 4 years ago , I started to feel that I felt happy when girls got hurt or angry with me because I ignored them. I used to talk to girls properly before and when I started ignoring them , they... show more
    I am 21 years old male . I used to be a nice guy and nothing in my life has happened where a girl hurt me deeply or anything because no girl was ever rude to . 4 years ago , I started to feel that I felt happy when girls got hurt or angry with me because I ignored them. I used to talk to girls properly before and when I started ignoring them , they used to be upset and that made me happy. In high school I rejected girls very harshly by saying no to one and the other one I knew she had a crush on me and purposely ignored her. They both were very popular and their female friends obviously started hating me. 3ven in my apartment I did this. Many girls hate me but I think I blend in pretty well. I don't have many friends and yes many people do dislike me . One girl in particular in my gym was Avery quite girl. A very sweet girl who never hates anyone . She was my junior in school and I found out that I had a crush on her but she seemed to talk to a 27 year old guy. This obviously hurt my ego because I 1000 times better looking than he is so I forgot my feelings and completely started ignoring her. She was a quite girl so she never approaches guys especially but she approached me 3 -4 times because we had spoken earlier. This was 8 months ago . Till this date I ignore her when I see her walking in the road and she gets a little serious when she sees me. More serious than I have ever seen her. I again managed to get a very nice girl to hate me. Did I hurt this girl ?
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 weeks ago
  • I like playing mind games with girls and emotionally hurting them but I also feel sad for them. Am I a sociopath ? What do I do to blend in?

    I am 21 years old male. I have no girlfriends and barely any friends. I am mostly a quite guy. I have found that when pretty girls get hurt emotionally or they cry , I feel very happy. I have rejected a few girls directly and 3 of them were pretty and popular . It felt so good and they were more popular than me as well. It felt amazing but I also... show more
    I am 21 years old male. I have no girlfriends and barely any friends. I am mostly a quite guy. I have found that when pretty girls get hurt emotionally or they cry , I feel very happy. I have rejected a few girls directly and 3 of them were pretty and popular . It felt so good and they were more popular than me as well. It felt amazing but I also feel sad for girls a few times. I don't know why. I have been a jerk to girls for so long. Last year I had a crush on a quiet girl but she didn't seem interested and I thought she liked a 27 year old guy.I started ignoring her a lot and she had approached me 4 timesand I never spoke properly when she approached because she had chosen him. She had never approached the other 27year old guy. So it was all my imagination and now I have continued to ignore her and now the other day when I saw her , I smiled and she smiled back very little.She is the type of girl who could never be mad , hate or be angry with anyone , but there was something I did. I am a good looking guy I have heard. I have become paranoid because of the pack of friends.I want to approach girls and become friends with them . I have hurt girls a lot for which I will have had karma .I called one girl a $lut and she was a good friend in school and now she never replies back and once also told me to never text her. I also hate when I text girls and they don't text back so u never text girls. Even though my past is a black mark , I still want a girlfriend and good friends
    2 answers · Psychology · 1 month ago
  • I like playingind games and hurting girls emotionally , I have also become very paranoid . Am I a sociopath ? I highly doubt it , but help !?

    I am 21 years old male. I have no girlfriends and barely any friends. I am mostly a quite guy. I have found that when pretty girls get hurt emotionally or they cry , I feel very happy. I have rejected a few girls directly and 3 of them were pretty and popular . It felt so good and they were more popular than me as well. It felt amazing but I also... show more
    I am 21 years old male. I have no girlfriends and barely any friends. I am mostly a quite guy. I have found that when pretty girls get hurt emotionally or they cry , I feel very happy. I have rejected a few girls directly and 3 of them were pretty and popular . It felt so good and they were more popular than me as well. It felt amazing but I also feel sad for girls a few times. I don't know why. I have been a jerk to girls for so long. Last year I had a crush on a quiet girl but she didn't seem interested and I thought she liked a 27 year old guy.I started ignoring her a lot and she had approached me 4 timesand I never spoke properly when she approached because she had chosen him. She had never approached the other 27year old guy. So it was all my imagination and now I have continued to ignore her and now the other day when I saw her , I smiled and she smiled back very little.She is the type of girl who could never be mad , hate or be angry with anyone , but there was something I did. I am a good looking guy I have heard. I have become paranoid because of the pack of friends.I want to approach girls and become friends with them . I have hurt girls a lot for which I will have had karma .I called one girl a $lut and she was a good friend in school and now she never replies back and once also told me to never text her. I also hate when I text girls and they don't text back so u never text girls. Even though my past is a black mark , I still want a girlfriend and good friends.
    3 answers · Psychology · 1 month ago
  • Do I still have a chance to attract this girl ? Or will my past ruin my chances with her ? Please advice me and help me in this case?

    I am 21 year old male and single. I have been a jerk almost my whole life. I have rejected 3 girls in the past and now I'm regretting it. I don't have a crush in this girl in my gym but I want to date her for some reason. She is friends with a girl and a guy in my apartment who know how I have acted in the past. The girl in my apartment is... show more
    I am 21 year old male and single. I have been a jerk almost my whole life. I have rejected 3 girls in the past and now I'm regretting it. I don't have a crush in this girl in my gym but I want to date her for some reason. She is friends with a girl and a guy in my apartment who know how I have acted in the past. The girl in my apartment is my friend I suppose but I think that she will object to her friend dating me. I know girls do this and I'm actually not an ugly guy but I'm very paranoid that girls think I'm disgusting and an untouchable. I am very paranoid about the way I smell etc. I don't have any friends but I have never tried speaking to this girl yet. But there are just too many people who are her friends who know about me. I have a feeling that she is avoiding coming to the gym as the same time as me but I have never started at her or been creepy or cornered her . She looks at me normally and even I do , and I never stare at any girl because I don't want to get caught. I am actually a cute guy as I have heard girls say in the past. I have treated girls badly as well by ignoring them and calling them names. In the gym there was a quiet girl I had a crush on but I ignored her completely because I thought she liked someone else and then the quiet girl approached me many times but I ignored her. However this girl doesn't know the girl I'm talking about. Is there still a way I can get this girl by trying or should I just forget ?
    Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • Do I still have a chance of getting this girl ? Please guys how do I do it ? Should I approach her directly ? Advice please?

    I am 21 year old male and single. I have been a jerk almost my whole life. I have rejected 3 girls in the past and now I'm regretting it. I don't have a crush in this girl in my gym but I want to date her for some reason. She is friends with a girl and a guy in my apartment who know how I have acted in the past. The girl in my apartment is... show more
    I am 21 year old male and single. I have been a jerk almost my whole life. I have rejected 3 girls in the past and now I'm regretting it. I don't have a crush in this girl in my gym but I want to date her for some reason. She is friends with a girl and a guy in my apartment who know how I have acted in the past. The girl in my apartment is my friend I suppose but I think that she will object to her friend dating me. I know girls do this and I'm actually not an ugly guy but I'm very paranoid that girls think I'm disgusting and an untouchable. I am very paranoid about the way I smell etc. I don't have any friends but I have never tried speaking to this girl yet. But there are just too many people who are her friends who know about me. I have a feeling that she is avoiding coming to the gym as the same time as me but I have never started at her or been creepy or cornered her . She looks at me normally and even I do , and I never stare at any girl because I don't want to get caught. I am actually a cute guy as I have heard girls say in the past. I have treated girls badly as well by ignoring them and calling them names. In the gym there was a quiet girl I had a crush on but I ignored her completely because I thought she liked someone else and then the quiet girl approached me many times but I ignored her. However this girl doesn't know the girl I'm talking about. Is there still a way I can get this girl by trying or should I just forget ?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • Do I have a change of getting this girl ? Will her friends ruin the chance for me to get her ? Please tell me how I can improve my chances ?

    I am 21 year old male and single. I have been a jerk almost my whole life. I have rejected 3 girls in the past and now I'm regretting it. I don't have a crush in this girl in my gym but I want to date her for some reason. She is friends with a girl and a guy in my apartment who know how I have acted in the past. The girl in my apartment is... show more
    I am 21 year old male and single. I have been a jerk almost my whole life. I have rejected 3 girls in the past and now I'm regretting it. I don't have a crush in this girl in my gym but I want to date her for some reason. She is friends with a girl and a guy in my apartment who know how I have acted in the past. The girl in my apartment is my friend I suppose but I think that she will object to her friend dating me. I know girls do this and I'm actually not an ugly guy but I'm very paranoid that girls think I'm disgusting and an untouchable. I am very paranoid about the way I smell etc. I don't have any friends but I have never tried speaking to this girl yet. But there are just too many people who are her friends who know about me. I have a feeling that she is avoiding coming to the gym as the same time as me but I have never started at her or been creepy or cornered her . She looks at me normally and even I do , and I never stare at any girl because I don't want to get caught. I am actually a cute guy as I have heard girls say in the past. I have treated girls badly as well by ignoring them and calling them names. In the gym there was a quiet girl I had a crush on but I ignored her completely because I thought she liked someone else and then the quiet girl approached me many times but I ignored her. However this girl doesn't know the girl I'm talking about. Is there still a way I can get this girl by trying or should I just forget ?
    Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • I want one girl in my gym to be my girlfriend but I don't think it's possible because of my past . Is it still possible to get her ? Advice?

    I am 21 year old male and single. I have been a jerk almost my whole life. I have rejected 3 girls in the past and now I'm regretting it. I don't have a crush in this girl in my gym but I want to date her for some reason. She is friends with a girl and a guy in my apartment who know how I have acted in the past. The girl in my apartment is... show more
    I am 21 year old male and single. I have been a jerk almost my whole life. I have rejected 3 girls in the past and now I'm regretting it. I don't have a crush in this girl in my gym but I want to date her for some reason. She is friends with a girl and a guy in my apartment who know how I have acted in the past. The girl in my apartment is my friend I suppose but I think that she will object to her friend dating me. I know girls do this and I'm actually not an ugly guy but I'm very paranoid that girls think I'm disgusting and an untouchable. I am very paranoid about the way I smell etc. I don't have any friends but I have never tried speaking to this girl yet. But there are just too many people who are her friends who know about me. I have a feeling that she is avoiding coming to the gym as the same time as me but I have never started at her or been creepy or cornered her . She looks at me normally and even I do , and I never stare at any girl because I don't want to get caught. I am actually a cute guy as I have heard girls say in the past. I have treated girls badly as well by ignoring them and calling them names. In the gym there was a quiet girl I had a crush on but I ignored her completely because I thought she liked someone else and then the quiet girl approached me many times but I ignored her. However this girl doesn't know the girl I'm talking about. Is there still a way I can get this girl by trying or should I just forget ?
    Friends · 2 months ago
  • I'm very paranoid about smelling bad and I don't have any good friends to ask . What can I do ? I have been proven wrong in the past . Help?

    I'm 21 year old male. NEED HELP BADLY . ITS RUINING MY LIFE GUYS I NEED HELP. CANT GO TO THR DOCTOR FOR THIS For that last year I have began to assume that people think I smell bad. I always assume that girls think I smell bad. I think about it too much and expect them to come close to me. When they don't , I automatically assume they... show more
    I'm 21 year old male. NEED HELP BADLY . ITS RUINING MY LIFE GUYS I NEED HELP. CANT GO TO THR DOCTOR FOR THIS For that last year I have began to assume that people think I smell bad. I always assume that girls think I smell bad. I think about it too much and expect them to come close to me. When they don't , I automatically assume they think I smell bad. I assume this even when girls who have never come near me . I hate this because if I manage to get happy , this drags me down. Even in college I had assumed this and I was so wrong. I hate even talking to girls because of this and I'm not able to focus on my career properly. This literally is eating me up inside and I'm never happy . I hope I don't go into depression because this worries me. I know that when I'm thinking girls think I smell had that's it's illogical because I think everyone thinks I smell . When a girl is walking across the road and she crossed the road when I'm walking on the same side , I think she thinks I smell. I have been a jerk to girls and maybe the word has spread and that may be the reason girls don't come near me , but I'm always assuming I smell. Please guys help me , I'm very depressed. I don't know if it's true or not but obviously I don't want it to. I think every girls thinks this about me and this has caused me to ignore girls and make them actually hate me. Help !!!! I can't concentrate on anything . I keep imagining scenarios and trying to figure out if I smell bad. PLEASE HELP
    Mental Health · 2 months ago
  • I'm paranoid that I smell bad but I have been proven worng about it when I thought this in the past . How do I get rid of this in my own ??

    I'm 21 year old male. ITS RUINING MY LIFE GUYS I NEED HELP. For that last year I have began to assume that people think I smell bad. I actually take bath 2 times a day and put perfume as well. I always assume that girls think I smell bad. I think about it too much and expect them to come close to me. When they don't , I automatically assume... show more
    I'm 21 year old male. ITS RUINING MY LIFE GUYS I NEED HELP. For that last year I have began to assume that people think I smell bad. I actually take bath 2 times a day and put perfume as well. I always assume that girls think I smell bad. I think about it too much and expect them to come close to me. When they don't , I automatically assume they think I smell bad. I assume this even when girls who have never come near me . I hate this because if I manage to get happy , this drags me down. Even in college I had assumed this and I was so wrong. I hate even talking to girls because of this and I'm not able to focus on my career properly. This literally is eating me up inside and I'm never happy . I hope I don't go into depression because this worries me. I know that when I'm thinking girls think I smell had that's it's illogical because I think everyone thinks I smell . When a girl is walking across the road and she crossed the road when I'm walking on the same side , I think she thinks I smell. I have been a jerk to girls and maybe the word has spread and that may be the reason girls don't come near me , but I'm always assuming I smell. Please guys help me , I'm very depressed. I don't know if it's true or not but obviously I don't want it to. I think every girls thinks this about me and this has caused me to ignore girls and make them actually hate me. Help !!!! I can't concentrate on anything . I keep imagining scenarios and trying to figure out if I smell bad. PLEASE HELP
    7 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • I am very paranoid that girls think I smell bad . This paranoia is ruining me ? It's been there for almost a year ? How do I get rid of it ?

    I'm 21 year old male. For that last year I have began to assume that people think I smell bad. I actually take bath 2 times a day and put perfume as well. I always assume that girls think I smell bad. I think about it too much and expect them to come close to me. When they don't , I automatically assume they think I smell bad. I assume this... show more
    I'm 21 year old male. For that last year I have began to assume that people think I smell bad. I actually take bath 2 times a day and put perfume as well. I always assume that girls think I smell bad. I think about it too much and expect them to come close to me. When they don't , I automatically assume they think I smell bad. I assume this even when girls who have never come near me . I hate this because if I manage to get happy , this drags me down. Even in college I had assumed this and I was so wrong. When ever I had assumed this I was wrong. I hate even talking to girls because of this and I'm not able to focus on my career properly. This literally is eating me up inside and I'm never happy . I hope I don't go into depression because this worries me. I know that when I'm thinking girls think I smell had that's it's illogical because I think everyone thinks I smell . When a girl is walking across the road and she crossed the road when I'm walking on the same side , I think she thinks I smell. I have been a jerk to girls and maybe the word has spread and that may be the reason girls don't come near me , but I'm always assuming I smell. Please guys help me , I'm very depressed. I don't know if it's true or not but obviously I don't want it to. I think every girls thinks this about me and this has caused me to ignore girls and make them actually hate me. Help !!!! I can't concentrate on anything . I keep imagining scenarios and trying to figure out if I smell bad .
    6 answers · Mental Health · 2 months ago
  • I'm paranoid that I smell bad even though I have always been proven wrong about it. It's killing me , how do I come out of this ???? Help !!?

    I'm 21 year old male. For that last year I have began to assume that people think I smell bad. I actually take bath 2 times a day and put perfume as well. I always assume that girls think I smell bad. I think about it too much and expect them to come close to me. When they don't , I automatically assume they think I smell bad. I assume this... show more
    I'm 21 year old male. For that last year I have began to assume that people think I smell bad. I actually take bath 2 times a day and put perfume as well. I always assume that girls think I smell bad. I think about it too much and expect them to come close to me. When they don't , I automatically assume they think I smell bad. I assume this even when girls who have never come near me . I hate this because if I manage to get happy , this drags me down. Even in college I had assumed this and I was so wrong. When ever I had assumed this I was wrong. I hate even talking to girls because of this and I'm not able to focus on my career properly. This literally is eating me up inside and I'm never happy . I hope I don't go into depression because this worries me. I know that when I'm thinking girls think I smell had that's it's illogical because I think everyone thinks I smell . When a girl is walking across the road and she crossed the road when I'm walking on the same side , I think she thinks I smell. I have been a jerk to girls and maybe the word has spread and that may be the reason girls don't come near me , but I'm always assuming I smell. Please guys help me , I'm very depressed. I don't know if it's true or not but obviously I don't want it to. I think every girls thinks this about me and this has caused me to ignore girls and make them actually hate me. Help !!!!
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • I'm paranoid that I smell bad and it's killing me. How do I focus on my daily activities ? I'm depressed. How to get rid of this paranoia ?

    I'm 21 year old male. For that last year I have began to assume that people think I smell bad. I actually take bath 2 times a day and put perfume as well. I always assume that girls think I smell bad. I think about it too much and expect them to come close to me. When they don't , I automatically assume they think I smell bad. I assume this... show more
    I'm 21 year old male. For that last year I have began to assume that people think I smell bad. I actually take bath 2 times a day and put perfume as well. I always assume that girls think I smell bad. I think about it too much and expect them to come close to me. When they don't , I automatically assume they think I smell bad. I assume this even when girls who have never come near me . I hate this because if I manage to get happy , this drags me down. Even in college I had assumed this and I was so wrong. When ever I had assumed this I was wrong. I hate even talking to girls because of this and I'm not able to focus on my career properly. This literally is eating me up inside and I'm never happy . I hope I don't go into depression because this worries me. I know that when I'm thinking girls think I smell had that's it's illogical because I think everyone thinks I smell . When a girl is walking across the road and she crossed the road when I'm walking on the same side , I think she thinks I smell. I have been a jerk to girls and maybe the word has spread and that may be the reason girls don't come near me , but I'm always assuming I smell. Please guys help me , I'm very depressed.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • Guys I'm very paranoid when it comes to girls . How to get rid of the paranoia ? How to not care about what they think ? Help , not trolling?

    I'm a 21 year old male guy . Never had a girlfriend or a female friend. I'm just really paranoid that girls think something about me which I do not want to say. I think that every girl I see thinks that about me. I know there is no logic to it but it still makes .e depressed and upset. Girls never initiate texts with me. I text a girl she... show more
    I'm a 21 year old male guy . Never had a girlfriend or a female friend. I'm just really paranoid that girls think something about me which I do not want to say. I think that every girl I see thinks that about me. I know there is no logic to it but it still makes .e depressed and upset. Girls never initiate texts with me. I text a girl she tries but never starts it. I used to be a jerk but now that's boring for me. I have no friends to share anything with a d I can't share it with my parents. Last week j spoke to a girl and later by text asked if she wanted to go to the gym bit she said she was meeting friends and could go next weekend. I was very upset as she was clearly avoiding it. I'm not that bad a guy and there is no way I'll ask her to go this weekend because I'm scared of rejection and I have never asked out a girl. I have rejected 3 girls in the past and that's it. I have heard I'm good looking but the girls never text me or approach me and I'm fed up of trying to be nice to girls and speak to them because I'm always approaching . I thought I don't need friends but it seems like I do. I have an exam coming up in November which is my life and I'm not able to concentrate because of this stupid paranoia. I wish I had female friends as girls can understand problems much better . I have completely ignored a girl who I had a crush in but didn't ask her out. She had approached me 3 times but now she has stopped and it's because of her thus paranoia started. Help !!!!
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • I'm under a lot of pressure and my paranoia of girls is making me depressed. How to get rid of it ? Do girls actually think about me ? Help?

    I'm a 21 year old male guy . Never had a girlfriend or a female friend. I'm just really paranoid that girls think something about me which I do not want to say. I think that every girl I see thinks that about me. I know there is no logic to it but it still makes .e depressed and upset. Girls never initiate texts with me. I text a girl she... show more
    I'm a 21 year old male guy . Never had a girlfriend or a female friend. I'm just really paranoid that girls think something about me which I do not want to say. I think that every girl I see thinks that about me. I know there is no logic to it but it still makes .e depressed and upset. Girls never initiate texts with me. I text a girl she tries but never starts it. I used to be a jerk but now that's boring for me. I have no friends to share anything with a d I can't share it with my parents. Last week j spoke to a girl and later by text asked if she wanted to go to the gym bit she said she was meeting friends and could go next weekend. I was very upset as she was clearly avoiding it. I'm not that bad a guy and there is no way I'll ask her to go this weekend because I'm scared of rejection and I have never asked out a girl. I have rejected 3 girls in the past and that's it. I have heard I'm good looking but the girls never text me or approach me and I'm fed up of trying to be nice to girls and speak to them because I'm always approaching . I thought I don't need friends but it seems like I do. I have an exam coming up in November which is my life and I'm not able to concentrate because of this stupid paranoia. I wish I had female friends as girls can understand problems much better . I have completely ignored a girl who I had a crush in but didn't ask her out. She had approached me 3 times but now she has stopped and it's because of her thus paranoia started. Help !!!!
    1 answer · Friends · 2 months ago
  • Why don't girls ever text me first ? Do they have me ? Should I stop talking to them if they don't initiate ? I can't always fun after them?

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    I'm male 21 years old. I have never had a girlfriend to any female friend .I have rejected girls in the past. I have been a jerk to a majority of the girls in the past but now I have not insulted or pissed of anyone in the past. I have become brief of acting like a jerk. I spoke to a girl last week for 15 minutes and it was good and she spiel equally. After a few days I texted her and she replies but I was always the one texting first. I don't have a crush in her but I'm trying to become sociable and this really bothers me. This is not only with this girl but with every girl in my life. Girls don't know I even exist if I don't text them first. Maybe j have a ego problem but I want girls to approach me. I have not texted that girl for the last 3 days and she hasn't texted back. I get so angry when girls don't initiate. I have ignored a lot of girls even without texting and I expect them to approach me. Even a quite girl who I had a crush in last year used to approach me 4 times when I ignored her but I forgot about her and even she forgot about me ( reason I ignored her was because I thought she liked some 27 year old ugly guy). I'm actually a good looking guy and I have heard girls say it. It's unbelievable how no girl has ever texted me first. I am never going to try speaking to a girl now because if I start talking to someone I expect it to be equal from both sides. I don't have an ego problem because it's never fair in my case and I'm sick if this. I'm not girls pet .
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    I'm male 21 years old. I have never had a girlfriend to any female friend . I have been a jerk to a majority of the girls in the past but now I have not insulted or pissed of anyone in the past. I have become brief of acting like a jerk. I spoke to a girl last week for 15 minutes and it was good and she spiel equally. After a few days I texted her and she replies but I was always the one texting first. I don't have a crush in her but I'm trying to become sociable and this really bothers me. This is not only with this girl but with every girl in my life. Girls don't know I even exist if I don't text them first. Maybe j have a ego problem but I want girls to approach me. I have not texted that girl for the last 3 days and she hasn't texted back. I get so angry when girls don't initiate. I have ignored a lot of girls even without texting and I expect them to approach me. Even a quite girl who I had a crush in last year used to approach me 4 times when I ignored her but I forgot about her and even she forgot about me ( reason I ignored her was because I thought she liked some 27 year old ugly guy). I'm actually a good looking guy and I have heard girls say it about me. It's unbelievable how no girl has ever texted me first. I am never going to try speaking to a girl now because if I start talking to someone I expect it to be equal from both sides. I don't have an ego problem because it's never fair in my case and I'm sick if this. I'm not girls pet .To run after them Advice
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