• I have been moving through life hurting people and I feel guilty about it now because it is affecting me personally , what do I do ? Help?

    I always think that I don't have real friends but whenever my friends in school used to ask me to hang out with them I used to make up excuses to avoid it. I'm in college final year now and I'm 20 . I am not in touch with my school friends and don't even talk to them and even now in college I avoid hanging out with friends and later... show more
    I always think that I don't have real friends but whenever my friends in school used to ask me to hang out with them I used to make up excuses to avoid it. I'm in college final year now and I'm 20 . I am not in touch with my school friends and don't even talk to them and even now in college I avoid hanging out with friends and later feel lonely. I have hurt girls also , inhale rejected about 4 of them and very rudely. It hurts me because I don't have a girlfriend now and my past rude attitude makes it difficult for me to talk to the girl I have a crush on now. She also speaks to a guy who is 28 years old but it doesn't seem like she likes him in the other way and whenever I look at that guy I assume it will never happen between them because he is 28 and she is 18. He is nicer to her and doesn't ignore her but I did do that for 2 weeks and I have never seen her go and talk to him first but she did it to me . She approached me when I ignored her a lot but later after few days when i tried talking to her she said I like talking to you but "yes chill dude " sweetly smiling. On Thursday I spoke to her and she made eye contact and spoke and even after gym got over I spoke to her she answered and when there were pauses in the conversation she asked the question and we spoke till we walked home. I can make her like me like this but I am a bad guy because I think it won't work with the girl and the other guy because he is 10 years older and I laugh when I think about it.
    1 answer · Gender Studies · 8 hours ago
  • I have a crush on this girl but she seems more comfortable with an older guy than me and I'm hurting . Can I still change it ? Please help?

    I like this quiet girl in my gym. She goes to an all girls college and barely speaks to anyone. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting and it was going well until she started to ignore a few of them on facebook. Later when we spoke she said it takes time to get comfortable with new people and once she is she will speak a... show more
    I like this quiet girl in my gym. She goes to an all girls college and barely speaks to anyone. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting and it was going well until she started to ignore a few of them on facebook. Later when we spoke she said it takes time to get comfortable with new people and once she is she will speak a lot. I ignored her for a week during which I saw her looking at me many times and even smiled but I didn't smile back. Later she approached me and spoke which was surprising because quiet girls never approach. After a few days we spoke and she seemed very interested in me because she asked a lot of questions and even answered more than what I asked her. Next day she didn't look at me much and when she did she barely smiled. Next day when I approached her she didn't seem as interested as she was 2 days back and later I asked he rid she likes talking to me and she said yes chill dude sweetly smiling There is this other guy who is 10 years older than her. He never ignores her and always approaches her when he see's her. When he speaks to her she talks properly and is comfortable around him. I ignored her and when I do it is very rude I admit . I don't even acknowledge her presence and I know she can see me because I can see it . When we had class that day and exchanged partners she smiled at me and we had a good workout but after it got over she left without speaking to me even though I was right behind her. Can I still get her ?
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • My crush is more comfortable around an older guy and it is very bad for me to keep trying , I'm going to forget her. Wise ? Explain please?

    I have a crush on a quiet girl in the gym. She is 18 , older guy is 28 and I'm 20. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting and it was good until the quiet girls started ignoring my messages. Later when we spoke she said that she takes time to get used to people in general and once she is she will be comfortable around... show more
    I have a crush on a quiet girl in the gym. She is 18 , older guy is 28 and I'm 20. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting and it was good until the quiet girls started ignoring my messages. Later when we spoke she said that she takes time to get used to people in general and once she is she will be comfortable around them. So I ignored her for a week during which I saw he looking at me many times and she even smiled but I didn't smile back. After a week she approached me and started speaking to me which was surprising because quiet girls never approach after a few days during class we laughed and spoke a little and walked all the way home talking and she did most panther talking. She goes to an all girls college. Next day she didn't look at me much and when she did she barely smiled and next day when I tried speaking to her she didn't show much as interest as before and I asked her if she likes talking to me and she said yes chill dude sweetly smiling. I ignored her again and while leaving the gym on another day she looked across the gym at me and left. The old guy is nicer and doesn't ignore her , always approaches her and when he speaks to her she replies properly. On Monday we were in the same class and even the old guy was there and when he spoke to her she replied properly but when it was my and her turn she smiled at me and we laughed and spoke a little. After class got over she knew I was behind her but she crossed the road and went home.
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  • My crush seems to be more comfortable and friendly around another guy( much older than me ) , why is that ? What did I do wrong ? Help?

    She is a quiet girl and goes to an all girls college. She barely speaks to guys . Only me ( sometimes) and to another guy . He is 28 , I'm 20 and she is 18. He is nicer to her and doesn't ignore her but I'm much better looking than he is. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting on facebook and suddenly she... show more
    She is a quiet girl and goes to an all girls college. She barely speaks to guys . Only me ( sometimes) and to another guy . He is 28 , I'm 20 and she is 18. He is nicer to her and doesn't ignore her but I'm much better looking than he is. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting on facebook and suddenly she stopped replying to a few texts . I spoke to her later and she told me that it takes time to get used to people and once she is she will speak a lot to them. I ignored her for a week during which I saw her looking at me many times and a few times I caught her she used to turn away suddenly. Later she came up to me and started asking me about my college which was surprising because we only spoke to each other like 2 times . During one class we spoke a little and after it got over we spoke a lot and she seemed comfortable around me. The next day she didn't look at me and when she did she barely smiled . Next day I approached her and asked her if she likes talking to me and she said yes chill dude sweetly smiling. I again ignored her for the week and when I used to walk past her she used to look at me a little and then just walk past and didn't even come to me but I have never seen her approach him but she smiles at him every time she sees him and we have known each other almost the same time . He always approaches her and she speaks properly. After gym class she knew I was behind her but crossed the road and went home without speaking to me. Why ??
    6 answers · Sociology · 3 days ago
  • How do I make this quiet girl more comfortable around me ? Should I always approach her or wait for he to approach ?

    I have a crush on a quiet girl. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting. It was going well until she started ignoring a few messages. She barely speaks to anyone goes to an all girls college. Have seen her speaking to girls but rarely to guys. Later when we spoke she told she takes time to get comfortable with people and... show more
    I have a crush on a quiet girl. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting. It was going well until she started ignoring a few messages. She barely speaks to anyone goes to an all girls college. Have seen her speaking to girls but rarely to guys. Later when we spoke she told she takes time to get comfortable with people and once she is she will speak. I ignored he for a week during which I caught her looking at me many times and she also smiled but I didn't smile back. She approached me after a week and started speaking to me which was surprising because quiet girls never approach. Later after a few days again we spoke and an she opened up a lot while walking home and next day she didn't look at me much and when she did she barely smiled and left but just looked in my direction and didn't wave. Next day I approached her and she didn't seem as interested as before and later asked her if she like talking to me and she said yes chill dude in a sweet voice smiling. I ignored her for a week again and she looked at me a few times while walking away but didn't approach me. On Monday when we were in the same class she smiled when she was my partner as we all had to change. I made her laugh a little and we had fun but after gym got over I was walking behind her and she crossed the road( her house if after you cross the road) and went home without speaking to me like she did before. I don't think she is comfortable around me yet. Should I always approach her ?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • I'm going to leave this girl I have a crush on alone , is this the best idea for me ? Please explain it would be helpful , thanks 😊😊?

    I like his quiet girl in my gym. She goes to an all girls college and barley speaks. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting and it was going well until she started to ignore a few messages. Later when we spoke she said that it takes time to get used to people in general and when she is she will speak a lot . So I ignored... show more
    I like his quiet girl in my gym. She goes to an all girls college and barley speaks. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting and it was going well until she started to ignore a few messages. Later when we spoke she said that it takes time to get used to people in general and when she is she will speak a lot . So I ignored her for a week during which I caught her staring at me many times, smiled at me but didn't smile back. Later she approached me which was surprising because quiet girls never approach. Later after a few days we were in the same class, spoke very little during class and after it got over we walked home together and she spoke much more than me and opened up. Next day she barely looked at me and when she did she barely smiled and left but before she did she looked in my direction .next day I approached her but she didn't seem as interested as 2 days back and so I asked her Ignace likes talking to me and she said yes chill dude sweetly smiling. She is friends with other guy but he's 10 years older than her but she is just his friend . He is nicer to her and doesn't ignore her and she knows him for longer. On Monday we were in the same class but he approached her first and I heard him ask non personal questions and she answered but I didn't approach her. When partners changed she smiled when she came to me and laughed a bit and made eye contact but after class she crossed the road and went home when she knew I was behind her. I give up.
    3 answers · Psychology · 3 days ago
  • I'm very upset that I am not able to get this girl I have a crush on . It upsets me that my chance is 0 now , what do I do ? Please help?

    I really like this girl in my gym. She is very quiet and barely speaks to people. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting. She ignored a few texts of mine and later I spoke to her and she said that she takes time to get used to people and once she is she will speak to anyone. I ignored her for a week during which I saw... show more
    I really like this girl in my gym. She is very quiet and barely speaks to people. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting. She ignored a few texts of mine and later I spoke to her and she said that she takes time to get used to people and once she is she will speak to anyone. I ignored her for a week during which I saw her look at me a lot and she even smiled but I didn't smile back. After a week she approached me and spoke about my college which was surprising because quiet girls never approach. Last Saturday we spoke and laughed a little during class and after class got over we spoke a lot to the way home which was very surprising. Next day she ignored me and when she looked at me she smiled a little and while leaving the gym she looked in my direction and left. Next day I approached her and spoke to her but she didn't seem interested and then I asked her if she likes talking to me and she said yes chill dude sweetly smiling. Yesterday we were in the same class and had to change partners and when she was mine she smiled when came and we laughed a little. She speaks to me and another guy but he is 28 , I'm 20 and she is 18 and I don't think she likes him but he is way nicer than me and doesn't ignore her. Yesterday after class got over I was behind her when she left he gym and she crossed the road and walked home. It made me very upset but her house is on the other side and mine is further. Should I stop ignoring her and treat her better ? Help
    2 answers · Psychology · 4 days ago
  • I'm heartbroken and not able to do anything else . How do I get over this girl who I have no chance with ? Please help me I feel like crying?

    I have a huge crush on this quiet girl in my gym. She is 18 and I'm 20. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting on facebook and it was good until she started ignoring my messages. Later after we met she told me that it takes time to get used to people and once she is she will speak a lot. I ignore her for a week... show more
    I have a huge crush on this quiet girl in my gym. She is 18 and I'm 20. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting on facebook and it was good until she started ignoring my messages. Later after we met she told me that it takes time to get used to people and once she is she will speak a lot. I ignore her for a week during which I saw her looking at me a lot and even smiled at me but I didn't smile back. Later after a week she approached me and we spoke for sometime which was surprising because quiet girls don't approach. Last week Saturday we were in the same class and we spoke a little during class and after it got over we walked together and spoke a lot till we reached home and she spoke the most. Next day she didn't look at me much and when she did she barely smiled and while leaving she looked back in my direction. Next day I approached her and spoke to her but she didn't show much interest as before and I asked her if she likes talking to me and she said yes dude chill sweetly smiling. I ignored her for the full week and she saw me and even I saw her but didn't approach. Once while leaving the gym she looked across the gym at me. She even smiled at me the next day but I didn't and next day I ignored her and she walked past. Yesterday we were in the same class and everyone had to switch partners and she smiled when it was her turn and we enjoyed but it after class got over I was behind her but she crossed the road and just walked home on her own.
    2 answers · Psychology · 4 days ago
  • I feel horrible that I girl I have a crush on doesn't like me even a little , I'm heartbroken . What do I do ? Please help me 😭😭😭?

    I have a crush on this girl in the gym. She is a very quiet girl. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting. It was going well until she ignored 4 of my texts. Later when I spoke to her she just said that she takes time to get used to people and one she is she will speak a lot. I barely see her speaking to people. I ignored... show more
    I have a crush on this girl in the gym. She is a very quiet girl. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting. It was going well until she ignored 4 of my texts. Later when I spoke to her she just said that she takes time to get used to people and one she is she will speak a lot. I barely see her speaking to people. I ignored her for a week during which I saw her looking at me many times and she even smiled at me but I didn't smile back. Later after a week she approached me and we spoke for sometime which was surprising because quiet girls never approach. Last Saturday we were in the same class and spoke a little during class and after it got over I stopped her and we talked till she reached home and she opened up a lot to me which was surprising . Next day she didn't look at me much and when she did she barely smiled and when she was leaving the gym she looked in my direction but didn't wave. Last Monday I approached her and spoke to her but she didn't show much interest as before and I asked her if she likes talking to me and she said "yes chill dude" in a sweet voice smiling .Today we were in the same class and everyone had to switch partners and when she came to me she smiled and we did the workout and laughed ,it was fun . After class got over we went out of the gym together but I was behind her and she crossed the road and I walked the other side.My house is further and hers is on the side she walked but she knew I was behind her. I'm very hurt.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 days ago
  • If I like this girl should I ignore her or try to talk to her and get close to her ? I'm confused and need help .?

    I like this quiet girl. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting , it was going well until she ignored a few messages. When we spoke about it later and she said she doesn't have messenger and told that she takes time to get used to people and when she is she will speak. I took offense to this because I saw her spelling... show more
    I like this quiet girl. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting , it was going well until she ignored a few messages. When we spoke about it later and she said she doesn't have messenger and told that she takes time to get used to people and when she is she will speak. I took offense to this because I saw her spelling to some new girl. She goes to an all girls college . So I ignored her for a week during which I caught her looking at me many times , she even smiled at me but I didn't smile back. After a week she approached me which was surprising because quiet girls ever approach and we weren't even that close. Last week Saturday we were in the same class and we laughed a little during class and after it was over we spoke a lot on the way home and she answered all questions and asked a lot of questions and seemed happy to talk to me. Next day when I came she looked at me and barely smiled and when she was leaving the gym she looked in my direction and just left. I approached her the next day and when we spoke she didn't seem as interested as she was 2 days back and when I asked her if she likes talking to me she said yes chill dude in a sweet voice smiling. We saw each other a couple of times in the gym but I ignored her but when I saw her she smiled at me but I didn't smile back. When we had the same class one day I sat in a different place and she saw me . Once when she was leaving the gym she looked back at me and left. Does she like me ?
    4 answers · Gender & Women's Studies · 5 days ago
  • I like this girl but I ignored her because it didn't seem like she was interested. What do I do when I see her tomorrow? Approach her ? Help?

    I like this quiet girl in the gym. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting. Everything was fine until she ignored my messages( facebook). Later when we spoke she said she takes time to get used to people and once she is she will speak .She goes to an all girls college. So I ignored her for a week during which I caught... show more
    I like this quiet girl in the gym. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting. Everything was fine until she ignored my messages( facebook). Later when we spoke she said she takes time to get used to people and once she is she will speak .She goes to an all girls college. So I ignored her for a week during which I caught her looking at me many times , she even smiled at me but I didn't smile back. Later after a week she approached me and spoke to me about my college which was surprising because quiet girls never approach anyone and especially her. The next day we were in the same class, spoke a little during class but after it got over we walked home together and she spoke a lot with me which surprised me. The next day I was early for my class but she was there before , she didn't approach me and even I didn't .After her class got over she saw me but barely smiled and while leaving the class she looked in my direction but not at me. Next day I approached her and asked her about her college and other things to which she didn't respond as well as before and later I asked he if she likes talking to me and she said "yes chill dude" smiling sweetly. I saw her on Thursday and she saw me but I looked away slowly without an expression and sat down while her class was going on . Before leaving the class she looked back and saw me and even I did. On Friday we were in the same class and when she saw me she smiled but I didn't smile and I ignored her yesterday.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 6 days ago
  • I have too much pride and it's affecting me and my chances with girls which freaks me out. How do I get rid of it ? Please help?

    I have found girls in the past attractive to me and I haven't ever made the first move because I have too much pride. I want to approach them but it's just too hard and even when they approach me I don't reciprocate properly for some reason. I'm not gay. I even like this quiet girl in the gym. We introduced ourselves about a month... show more
    I have found girls in the past attractive to me and I haven't ever made the first move because I have too much pride. I want to approach them but it's just too hard and even when they approach me I don't reciprocate properly for some reason. I'm not gay. I even like this quiet girl in the gym. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting and it was going good until she ignored like 3 of my texts . Later when we spoke she said she takes time to get used to people and she barely speaks to people. She goes to an all girls college. So I ignored her for a week during which I caught her looking at me many times , she even smiled at me but I didn't smile back. She even smiles at others but they smile first and she does but this time it was opposite for me. She approached me later and spoke which quiet girls usually don't. We spoke properly after 4 days when she opened up about college asked questions etc . She ignored me the next day and when she saw me she barely smiled and looked in my direction before she left. On next day when I approached her she didn't answer with the interest she did before and when I asked her Fu she likes talking to me she said "yes chill dude" sweetly smiling. This hurt my ego and this whole week I ignored her , she smiled at me day before but I didn't and yesterday when she was walking past me she saw me but I didn't. I don't know if she likes me or not but I don't think I can approach her , what do I do ?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 6 days ago
  • I like this girl but my feelings for her are slowly fading away , should I do something about it before it goes away ? Please read and tell?

    I like this girl in my gym for about 2 weeks now and she is a quiet girl. Doesn't talk much to people and she goes to an all girls college. I don't think she even has feelings. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting and all was going well until she ignored 3 messages. I spoke to her after that and she told she... show more
    I like this girl in my gym for about 2 weeks now and she is a quiet girl. Doesn't talk much to people and she goes to an all girls college. I don't think she even has feelings. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting and all was going well until she ignored 3 messages. I spoke to her after that and she told she takes time to get used to people and once she is she will speak . So I ignored her for a week during which she looked at me many times , smiled at me but I didn't smile back . She approached me herself after the week and spoke to me about my college which was surprising because quiet girls never approach. On Saturday we were in the same class but barely spoke during the class but after it got over we walked together home during which she spoke so much which I never expected and asked many questions. On Sunday I came for the class after hers and she completely ignored me and when she saw me she barely smiled and when she was leaving the gym she looked in my direction but didn't say bye. I approached her on Monday . She was sitting on the corner of the seat but there was little space so I went and sat in little space and she moved a little and unasked her about her college but she didn't seem as interested as she was the previous day I got the hint she doesn't like me and I'm ignoring her now and the feelings are seeming to fade . Yesterday we saw each other and she smiled but I didn't and even today I ignored presence completely.
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 7 days ago
  • I'm giving up on the girl I like which hurts , what do I do when I see her ? Please advice !!!?

    There is this girl I have a crush on in the gym. She is a quiet girl who barely speaks to anyone and goes to an all girls college. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting. All was good until she ignored a few texts. Later we spoke and she told she takes time to get comfortable with people and once she is she will speak .... show more
    There is this girl I have a crush on in the gym. She is a quiet girl who barely speaks to anyone and goes to an all girls college. We introduced ourselves about a month ago and later started texting. All was good until she ignored a few texts. Later we spoke and she told she takes time to get comfortable with people and once she is she will speak . So I ignored her because of this for a week during which I saw her looking at me many times , she even smiled at me but I didn't smile back. After the week she approached me but quiet girls never approach . Last Saturday we were in the same class but didn't speak much during class but we both laughed a little. After class got over we walked home together and she spoke so much I was surprised and answered more than what I asked and also asked questions. On Sunday when I saw her she completely ignored me , when she came to take her bottle next to me she barely smiled at me and walked away and before she left the gym , she looked in my direction but didn't look at me and left. On Monday I approached her and I tried speaking to her but when I sat on the edge of the seat ( she was a little close to the edge) she moved a little , I asked her about her college and then I asked her about her college timings . She was answering but suddenly stopped and then I asked he rid she likes speaking with me and she said "yes chill dude" in a sweet voice smiling. Yesterday I saw her but ignored her and when we saw each other she smiled at me.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 1 week ago
  • This girl is impossible to get for me , please give me tips . I need help . What do I do ?

    I have a huge crush on this quiet girl in my gym . I am 20 and she is 18. I ignored her for a week after she told me she takes time to get used to people. She even said that she barely speaks to people. During the week I ignored her she looked at me many times , smiled at me when indie her but I didn't smile back. She approached me and said hi... show more
    I have a huge crush on this quiet girl in my gym . I am 20 and she is 18. I ignored her for a week after she told me she takes time to get used to people. She even said that she barely speaks to people. During the week I ignored her she looked at me many times , smiled at me when indie her but I didn't smile back. She approached me and said hi and she spoke to me which surprised me because quiet girls never approach. We spoke a lot on Saturday after our class . During class we smiled and laughed a little and spoke. After class got over she spoke to me a lot and I was surprised because she answered more than what u asked her and also asked questions. On Sunday( next day ) she ignored me when she saw me in the gym and when she saw me up close ( to take her bottle which was near me ) she smiled barely and just walked away and when she left the gym she looked back in my direction but didn't look at me or say bye. Yesterday when I approached her in the gym when I came I asked her how her college was , she said good. I asked her when she finds out about her college timings and she was speaking but she suddenly stopped after a few words . I knew she ain't interested. So after 2 minutes I went back and asked her if she likes talking to me and she said "yes chill dude" while making eye contact and she smiled a little. She isn't interested at all and I'm very hurt.
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 week ago
  • I found out this girl was not playing hard to get but just wasn't interested . How do I face her everyday ? Ignore her or talk to her ?

    This girl I liked in the gym didn't reject me but I definitely think she ain't interested. We introduced ourselves a month ago and then texted . She ignored the texts towards the end . When u spoke to her she told it takes time to get used to people and once she is she will speak .First I ignored her for a week during which she stared at me... show more
    This girl I liked in the gym didn't reject me but I definitely think she ain't interested. We introduced ourselves a month ago and then texted . She ignored the texts towards the end . When u spoke to her she told it takes time to get used to people and once she is she will speak .First I ignored her for a week during which she stared at me , smiled at me but I didn't smile back. Then she approached me after this and spoke to me for sometime. We were in the same class on Saturday and after it got over she was leaving when I stopped her and spoke to her and she opened up to me so much that I was surprised because I have never seen her do that before because she barely talks to people .The next day she just ignored me . When she came to take her bottle she looked at me and barely smiled and walked away and just before she left the gym , she turned to my direction but didn't look at me and today when I sat down with her and asked her how her college was she said good . Then I asked her about he timings and she answered but not a ling one which showed me that she wasn't interested . After that I asked her if she liked talking to me and she said yes chill dude in a sweet voice and not an irritating one. Should I just ignore her even though I like her a lot and forget about her ?
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 weeks ago
  • I like this girl a lot but I don't think she likes me , I'm hurt and trying to forget her but I can't . Should I ignore her ?

    I don't know if that quiet girl likes me or not but I'm trying to forget her because I don't think I have a chance. We introduced ourselves about a month ago . We texted a a fair amount but she started ignoring my messages later and I spoke to her after a few days where she told me she takes time to get comfortable with people and... show more
    I don't know if that quiet girl likes me or not but I'm trying to forget her because I don't think I have a chance. We introduced ourselves about a month ago . We texted a a fair amount but she started ignoring my messages later and I spoke to her after a few days where she told me she takes time to get comfortable with people and barely speaks to people. She also goes to an all girls college . I ignored her because I saw her speaking to some new girl . I ignored her for like a week during which she was staring at me I could see from the corner of my eye. She even smiled at me but I didn't smile back. She even sat at places where she could see me. She also has another guy friend in the gym but doesn't care when he doesn't approach him. Later this week she approached me after all the ignoring and spoke to me for 3 minutes. There were barely any people in the gym and I was pretty far away from her and did not corner her. She came up to me and made eye contact while speaking to me. Later the next day I saw her outside the gym and we smiled. Yesterday I saw her in the gym after my class but ignored her. I don't think she likes me and I don't want to be friends with her. Either I date her or nothing . What do I do ? Should I speak to her today if I see her ?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 weeks ago
  • I hate myself so much for who I am , and there is no way I can improve . How will I ever get this girl who I have a crush on ?

    There is this girl in the gym u have a crush on but I can't even imagine her kissing me or even liking me because I don't have any good qualities . She is a quiet girl and doesn't talk to people much . I always act serious and tough on the outside but I have the capability to be a very nice guy but I am afraid that people will think... show more
    There is this girl in the gym u have a crush on but I can't even imagine her kissing me or even liking me because I don't have any good qualities . She is a quiet girl and doesn't talk to people much . I always act serious and tough on the outside but I have the capability to be a very nice guy but I am afraid that people will think I'm a wuss if I act nice and even I think that. We used to know each other long ago by face and never spoke to each other that time and she is younger than me but not much. She is 18 and I'm 20. We spoke first and it was good and then texted for about a week after which she suddenly ignored my texts. Later I spoke to her and she told it takes to for her to get comfortable with people and she barely talks to people. After this I saw her speak to some new girl so I thought this girl has no interest in me and I just ignored her existence. I did this for a week not even looking at her once and during this time I could see her looking at me from the corner of my eye and she even smiled at me when I saw her by accident but I didn't smile back and she even sat at places where she could see me clearly and this happened more than once. Just yesterday when I again ignored her she approached and spoke to me for about 3 minutes in which she did most of the talking but even I spoke. At the end of the conversation when there was a small silence she left slowly and don't even know why she approached because I didn't corner her or force her to talk to me.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 weeks ago