Im currently in my 2nd semester as a 2nd year student at college. My 'close' friends group consists of 11 people. My "friends" and roommates will see me working on work in my dorm (Im in a triple), and instead of asking me to join them for dinner, they'll all leave without telling me. Last semester they all had a group chat, and I kept asking to get put in it. They finally put me in it, but IOS messed it up and nobody uses it. They then made a snapchat group with everyone but me. I had to again ask to be put in.
We always are around each other and have a good time, but the moment we go do anything else, I am always the last person to know about it, if I even get to know.
I am definitely not a boring person either. I'm always saying yes to parties, or any away from college events. I always make everyone laugh, but there are too many moments that make me ask myself if they actually like me. Another example would be rearranging roommates for next semester, and everyone seems to be making plans without letting me know. Anyone I ask to maybe live with / in their suite keeps saying, Oh I have a roommate ... and I don't know what we're doing for a dorm next year.
Sorry this is a bit long, but I keep debating if I will say screw these guys, or keep hanging out with them. We're all busy architecture students which always do our work together, which is why I am hesitant. Outside of work, is when I question them as friends.