Recently my mom "accidentally " sent a txt message to my wife (meant for my aunt) saying how much she dislikes my wife. My wife is very upset by this. I told her I don't care what my mother thinks and neither should she.
Some background, my mother is insane, I moved out of her house at 24 by grabbing as much of my stuff as I could in one go because she was a narcissistic abuser who loved to keep me beat down. She threatened to have me arrested if I didn't return. I had done nothingvwrong, of corse so i told jer to shove it. I only see her because my wife insists I try to have a relationship.
My wife is very upset by this recent revelation, but I honestly couldn't care less about my mother's feelings but I hate seeing my wife upset. How do I help her?