• Is it worth finishing school?

    I'm 31, have a well established career (not makeing insane money but my wife and I are middle middle class with our combined income) and I have been a part time student since 2013. I work full time and go to school part time. I'm getting tired and the older I get the less tollerence I have for professors who think they are god. Also, I miss... show more
    I'm 31, have a well established career (not makeing insane money but my wife and I are middle middle class with our combined income) and I have been a part time student since 2013. I work full time and go to school part time. I'm getting tired and the older I get the less tollerence I have for professors who think they are god. Also, I miss my wife whenever I'm working on school projects . The only reason I'm still going to school is an assanine fear that I won't be able to find another we'll paying position with my associates degree. Is school worth it at this point in my life or should I just live and enjoy my life?
    4 answers · Other - Careers & Employment · 3 weeks ago
  • Should I get a PS4 slim or Pro?

    I have been wanting a PS4 for a while now and I've just about talked myself into it. My question is, is the pro worth the extra $100 or should I just stick with a vanilla PS4? I have a 4K TV and I do not have PSVR (Nor do I intend to purchase it.)
    I have been wanting a PS4 for a while now and I've just about talked myself into it. My question is, is the pro worth the extra $100 or should I just stick with a vanilla PS4? I have a 4K TV and I do not have PSVR (Nor do I intend to purchase it.)
    Video & Online Games · 2 months ago
  • Overcoming Gift Anxiety?

    When I was young, my mother would berate and belittle my brother and I if she was having a bad day (I think it was theraputic for her, idk) and then she would feel bad and buy us a gift "to make up for it " . Or she would buy me something out of the blue but hold it over our heads how great she was for getting it for is. My brother (41)... show more
    When I was young, my mother would berate and belittle my brother and I if she was having a bad day (I think it was theraputic for her, idk) and then she would feel bad and buy us a gift "to make up for it " . Or she would buy me something out of the blue but hold it over our heads how great she was for getting it for is. My brother (41) has accepted it. He lives with her and uses it to get things he wants (pisses my mom off to start a fight and then she buys him whatever he wants to make up for the fight.. I, haven't accepted it. Im so scarred from the experience that any time I receive a gift I have an internal panic attack (externally I'm gracious and thankfully). Birthdays and Christmas are a nightmare for me. How do I overcome this?
    3 answers · Psychology · 3 months ago
  • Is it okay to skip week before finals at UH?

    I work full time as well as attend classes. My work just informed me that I will need to make a business trip on the week before finals (But I will be back in time for the final exam) I'm in the college of technology. I'm wondering if I should just withdraw from the semester of if the week before final swill have minimal impact on my... show more
    I work full time as well as attend classes. My work just informed me that I will need to make a business trip on the week before finals (But I will be back in time for the final exam) I'm in the college of technology. I'm wondering if I should just withdraw from the semester of if the week before final swill have minimal impact on my academic performance.
    2 answers · Higher Education (University +) · 3 months ago
  • What is wrong with my tree?

    In early February we planted two red oaks in our back yard. Last week we noticed that the edges of the leaves were turning brown. We figured it wasn't getting enough water so we adjusted the watering schedule and started running a dedicated hose to the trees. After two weeks of additional water, the brown edges are getting worse. I fear it may... show more
    In early February we planted two red oaks in our back yard. Last week we noticed that the edges of the leaves were turning brown. We figured it wasn't getting enough water so we adjusted the watering schedule and started running a dedicated hose to the trees. After two weeks of additional water, the brown edges are getting worse. I fear it may be root wilt. Is there anything I can do to save my trees?
    Garden & Landscape · 4 months ago
  • I have 8 hours to over come crippling social anxiety. Help!!?

    There is a work function I must attend with my companeys sales force. My entire division is going. I hate these events and typically avoid them but my boss (and my wife) tell me I have to go to further my career. I m shaking with fear and anxiety. What can I do?
    There is a work function I must attend with my companeys sales force. My entire division is going. I hate these events and typically avoid them but my boss (and my wife) tell me I have to go to further my career. I m shaking with fear and anxiety. What can I do?
    8 answers · Mental Health · 6 months ago
  • Why am I so Affraid to spend money?

    There is something I want. It is expensive(4k tv). I have enough money and room in the budget but I'm Affraid that my situation will change.
    There is something I want. It is expensive(4k tv). I have enough money and room in the budget but I'm Affraid that my situation will change.
    3 answers · TVs · 7 months ago
  • Can new mortgage companey change escrow terms?

    I would like to remove my taxes and hazard insurance from my escrow. I called the company that currently owns my mortgage and they tell me I will have to pay a $500 fee to close the escrow. I told them that is nowhere in the paperwork I signed but they said there is nothing I can do. Is this legal? Renting & Real Estate · 6 days ago
    I would like to remove my taxes and hazard insurance from my escrow. I called the company that currently owns my mortgage and they tell me I will have to pay a $500 fee to close the escrow. I told them that is nowhere in the paperwork I signed but they said there is nothing I can do. Is this legal? Renting & Real Estate · 6 days ago
    11 answers · Renting & Real Estate · 7 months ago
  • How can I comfort my wife after she found out my mother doesn't like her?

    Recently my mom "accidentally " sent a txt message to my wife (meant for my aunt) saying how much she dislikes my wife. My wife is very upset by this. I told her I don't care what my mother thinks and neither should she. Some background, my mother is insane, I moved out of her house at 24 by grabbing as much of my stuff as I could in... show more
    Recently my mom "accidentally " sent a txt message to my wife (meant for my aunt) saying how much she dislikes my wife. My wife is very upset by this. I told her I don't care what my mother thinks and neither should she. Some background, my mother is insane, I moved out of her house at 24 by grabbing as much of my stuff as I could in one go because she was a narcissistic abuser who loved to keep me beat down. She threatened to have me arrested if I didn't return. I had done nothingvwrong, of corse so i told jer to shove it. I only see her because my wife insists I try to have a relationship. My wife is very upset by this recent revelation, but I honestly couldn't care less about my mother's feelings but I hate seeing my wife upset. How do I help her?
    13 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 7 months ago
  • Should I buy my brother a gift?

    I'm going to see my brother for a birthday dinner tonight. I am paying for him and his wife to eat as well as myself and my own wife. Probably $100 total for the evening. In my mind that's a gift it's self. But should I buy an additional gift on top of that?
    I'm going to see my brother for a birthday dinner tonight. I am paying for him and his wife to eat as well as myself and my own wife. Probably $100 total for the evening. In my mind that's a gift it's self. But should I buy an additional gift on top of that?
    7 answers · Family · 8 months ago
  • My wife wants to cancel our duplicate cards and open joint accounts. I don't like the idea. It's a fight. What should I do?

    We each came into our marriage with a visa and a discover. She thinks it's stupid to have two of each card and wants to cancel our individual cards and open joint accounts on each. I don't want to close the accounts and see no reason to do so. We own a home and vehicles so I'm not worried about the potential credit drop. Losing the... show more
    We each came into our marriage with a visa and a discover. She thinks it's stupid to have two of each card and wants to cancel our individual cards and open joint accounts on each. I don't want to close the accounts and see no reason to do so. We own a home and vehicles so I'm not worried about the potential credit drop. Losing the buying power is what scares me. Are there any reasons I should consider consider consolidating our cards? Any reason I should not? Saying to keep a card in case we split is not helpful. I know that already.
    17 answers · Credit · 8 months ago
  • How is box 2 (taxes with held) on a W-2 calculated?

    Say someone made $44555.79 (Box 1) Based on the link here https://files.taxfoundation.org/20170123... the taxes with held should be 5226.25+(6605.79*0.25)=6877.69. my W-2 shows 3846.17. 1 exemption. what gives? how is this calculated?
    Say someone made $44555.79 (Box 1) Based on the link here https://files.taxfoundation.org/20170123... the taxes with held should be 5226.25+(6605.79*0.25)=6877.69. my W-2 shows 3846.17. 1 exemption. what gives? how is this calculated?
    1 answer · United States · 9 months ago
  • Spiritually speaking, is it suicide to participate in an action that will likely result in you death which does result in your death?

    Example: doc says"if you fall and hit you head, you'll die" and then you go do something like skateboarding where you may fall and it your head and then do fall and hit your head.
    Example: doc says"if you fall and hit you head, you'll die" and then you go do something like skateboarding where you may fall and it your head and then do fall and hit your head.
    4 answers · Religion & Spirituality · 10 months ago
  • Can spousal support be denied after divorce do to health and dissability?

    Long stort: 5 years ago my mother's husband (not my father) was an alcoholic, abusive man. She was about to serve him divorce paper and then he was in a motorcycle accident and suffered a traumatic brain injury. Sher felt guilty about leaving him so she stayed and helped him recover. Everything changed. He found Jesus, stopped drinking and... show more
    Long stort: 5 years ago my mother's husband (not my father) was an alcoholic, abusive man. She was about to serve him divorce paper and then he was in a motorcycle accident and suffered a traumatic brain injury. Sher felt guilty about leaving him so she stayed and helped him recover. Everything changed. He found Jesus, stopped drinking and stopped hitting her. It was amazing. Problem is, his brain only functions on the level of a 12 year old at best so he is incapable of leading a life without help on my mother was okay with staying with him. Now, some bad influences are making their way back into his life. He was resumed drinking and while the violence hasn't come back(yet) he does threaten her if he doesn't get his way. She wants to resume the divorce proceedings but she is affraid the judge will deny spousal support (she has a job but it doesn't pay well so they rely on his company's long term dissabillity check) because he cannot live on his own. Is there anything she can do?
    2 answers · Law & Ethics · 10 months ago
  • Replaced Lenovo g700 laptop screen. Backlight in New screen does not work. Any ideas?

    When i reinstall the old screen, the backlight works fine. New screen will come on but there is no back light. Any ideas?
    When i reinstall the old screen, the backlight works fine. New screen will come on but there is no back light. Any ideas?
    2 answers · Laptops & Notebooks · 11 months ago
  • Is it illegal to pass a slow driver in texas?

    I was driving home from work today and ended up behind a tractor going 10mph on a two lane road. I waited for the road lines to indicate it was legal to pass and passed. Officer behind me turns on his sirens and pulls me over and told me it's illegal to pass a slow veichle that's driving safely. In all my years I have never heard such... show more
    I was driving home from work today and ended up behind a tractor going 10mph on a two lane road. I waited for the road lines to indicate it was legal to pass and passed. Officer behind me turns on his sirens and pulls me over and told me it's illegal to pass a slow veichle that's driving safely. In all my years I have never heard such nonsense. Cop was also out of her jurisdiction. You think I could win this one in court?
    7 answers · Law & Ethics · 11 months ago
  • Can short term hydrocodone use result in withdrawal insomnia?

    I had my wisdom teeth pulled the Thursday before thanksgiving. I was given hydrocodone for the pain. By Wednesday I was off the pain meds but for the past three nights, I havnt been able to sleep at all. I'm up past 4am and very tired but can't fall asleep. Is this a symptom of hydrocodone withdrawl? How long will it last?
    I had my wisdom teeth pulled the Thursday before thanksgiving. I was given hydrocodone for the pain. By Wednesday I was off the pain meds but for the past three nights, I havnt been able to sleep at all. I'm up past 4am and very tired but can't fall asleep. Is this a symptom of hydrocodone withdrawl? How long will it last?
    7 answers · Pain & Pain Management · 11 months ago
  • What is wrong with me? Why can't I sleep?

    Every day I wake up at 7 am. I get in bed at 10 pm and read untill 11-12 and then kill the lights and try to sleep. My legs then get restless and my heart rate accelerates. I feel pressure in my chest like I'm having a panic attack. It horrible. I'm like this untill 3 am most night but some night as late as 5am before I fall asleep. What... show more
    Every day I wake up at 7 am. I get in bed at 10 pm and read untill 11-12 and then kill the lights and try to sleep. My legs then get restless and my heart rate accelerates. I feel pressure in my chest like I'm having a panic attack. It horrible. I'm like this untill 3 am most night but some night as late as 5am before I fall asleep. What could be causing this?
    2 answers · Other - General Health Care · 11 months ago