• Are there types of women that men treat right?

    Every relationship I've been in I've been treated pretty bad or not to my expectations. But those same men have had other girlfriends in past or after me that they looked after and treated with respect. Am i the problem? Am i not as good as those other girls? I know there is no definite answer but wpuld like some light shed. If i do... show more
    Every relationship I've been in I've been treated pretty bad or not to my expectations. But those same men have had other girlfriends in past or after me that they looked after and treated with respect. Am i the problem? Am i not as good as those other girls? I know there is no definite answer but wpuld like some light shed. If i do everything right and am still not amazing in his eyes is it me? Or him that is the problem? If someone loves me are they meant to think im amazing or just average? Im so confused.
    7 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 months ago
  • Freshen up my realtionship what are my options?

    Things are getting very dull. He doesn't talk to me unless he is moaning about soemthing. Sex in same position everytime(me facing away from him). Doesn't take me anyhwere. Asked to marry me 2 years ago but i can't mention a wedding without being told to slow down (we have a child and live together so bit late for slowing down) ... show more
    Things are getting very dull. He doesn't talk to me unless he is moaning about soemthing. Sex in same position everytime(me facing away from him). Doesn't take me anyhwere. Asked to marry me 2 years ago but i can't mention a wedding without being told to slow down (we have a child and live together so bit late for slowing down) christmas and birthday gifts have always been electricals that he can also use nothing sentimental or romantic. No fuss on mothers day. Nothing on valentines. (I do all these things for him). No compliments. I feel pretty shitty and if i talk to him he gets angry and says I'm dragging things up for no reason or I'm spoiled for asking to be taken out. He did all this for his ex he bought her flowers regularly took her on holidays brought her jewelery on her birthdays. I asked why he wont do that for me he says necause he learmed his lesson with her. But I'm not her. So does he really love me? If so how dp i get thigns going right? How do i become someone who he wants to think about? I really love him and dont wnat to end it as we have a child and a life together. What do i do?
    8 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 months ago
  • Recurring dreams about secret passageways.?

    In the dreams I m always in my nans old flat and for some reason i need to hide and theres a tiny trap door in the corner of the wardrobe that in the dream i remember from when i was a child but in real life i have no recollection of a trap door in my nans wardrobe. In the dream i squeeze in to it and end up in a cupboard on the other side of the... show more
    In the dreams I m always in my nans old flat and for some reason i need to hide and theres a tiny trap door in the corner of the wardrobe that in the dream i remember from when i was a child but in real life i have no recollection of a trap door in my nans wardrobe. In the dream i squeeze in to it and end up in a cupboard on the other side of the flat and escape. Also dreaming about a secret tunnel to a beautiful room full of trinkets and pretty old fashioned mirrors and furniture but its all old and dusty and it always gives me great discomfort to go in there but theres always a reason to go there in my dreams. From my flat i can t see the secret room but from the secret room i can see my garden and flat. So its not a room in the house its through a secret passage set quite far back. Its been bugging me for years and i have no idea how to begin interpreting it. Would appreciate some help 😁
    2 answers · Dream Interpretation · 5 months ago