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  • Which one am I?

    Am I the kind, shy, soft spoken person I portray myself to be when I’m around others? Or am I the lazy, untrustworthy, and extremely judgmental person I tend to be when I’m by myself? I know they’re both on two extremes but I’ve never been able to figure out who I am exactly since I’m always switching between the two. Sometimes manipulative, and sometimes also extremely kind. I just can’t make sense of myself. 

    3 AnswersPsychology3 weeks ago
  • Are nice people nice because of self-loathing? ?

    Nice; meaning kind, self-sacrificing, etc. etc. 

    4 AnswersPsychology3 weeks ago
  • How do I fix imbalance in my left side? ?

    Whether it’s lifting weights, balance, or even playing basketball. My right side is SUBSTANTIALLY weaker than my right side. I have better balance on my right, I dribble predominantly with my right, I don’t even know how to make layups with my left practically impossible for me, I’m at least 2x stronger with my right. Even when I walk/stand I put more weight on my right foot. Sometimes when I bench press, my right arm goes up first before my left side. 

    1 AnswerOther - General Health Care2 months ago
  • How do I stop listening to the negative voice in my head?

    In case theres any confusion, I don't mean a voice in my head like in a schizophrenic way lol. But on a serious note my head is ALWAYS so pessimistic and just straight up harsh to me to the point where sometimes I question and doubt myself beyond belief. 

    3 AnswersPsychology3 months ago
  • How to find ambition?

    I'm very lazy, only make enough money to get by. I just lack motivation, and whenever I try to find some motivation, it's never enough.

    Psychology3 months ago
  • how do I know what to major in?

    I have no interests (at least that I know of)

    3 AnswersHigher Education (University +)3 months ago
  • Convince me God is real?

    I'm not an atheist, but I'm not a heavy Christian either. I will respond to your posts so be prepared.

    15 AnswersReligion & Spirituality4 months ago
  • what is tesla's net sales on their income statement 2019?

    So i've been looking at teslas 10-k report and i cant seem to find their net sales on their income statement. i have a theory, their total revenues is 24.6 billion is this their net sales?

    1 AnswerOther - Business & Finance4 months ago
  • Why don't I see any of my 3 accidents on my driving record?

    in the last 5 years i've had 3 accidents. All 3 of which were not under my insurance (idk if that matters). The most recent one being 6 months ago. Anyways, I'm currently looking for new insurance on my car and I downloaded my driving record from my DMV website, I actually bought it for $9. But I don't see any of the 3 accidents on there, just some of the tickets i've gotten and suspension dates i have already completed. What does this mean? Where are my accidents???

    9 AnswersInsurance & Registration4 months ago
  • Is there an accident on my driving record if I got in an accident with someone else's car?

    I got into an accident like 6 months ago in my uncles car, under his insurance. Will this accident be in my driving record? Im currently looking fo new car insurance and i downloaded my driving record online, but i don't see any accident on there, which is odd because i've had 3 during these past 5 years

    5 AnswersInsurance & Registration4 months ago
  • Why did Hitler target the Jews?

    I heard some things around the internet about how he thought Jews were a financial leech to society. What was his evidence? Is this true? What do you guys think? Please, rational responses.

    31 AnswersHistory5 months ago
  • What do I do?

    My girlfriend and I have been dating for just 2 months now. She's literally the kindest and sweetest person I've ever met. She's so thoughtful, always goes out her way to make me happy and I absolutely love that about her. But unfortunately, I dont find her sexually attractive... I thought at first that this wasnt going to be a problem, but shes just so petite, she's a little boney and has no butt. I'm no 10, honestly I'm a 5 at most, but it just really bothers me a lot. I've never met anyone as nice as her, but I'm barely attracted to her. These doubts started out small but have now grown so much I'm debating breaking up with her. But I just cant bring myself to do so. It'll devastate her, plus our families just started to get to know each other, and I've grown pretty close to hers. I feel trapped. What should I do? 

    23 AnswersSingles & Dating5 months ago
  • If wisdom is gained through pain, how does one gain wisdom when no pain has been brought upon yet?

    Through the experiences of others is a good answer but even then (at least for me) seeing other people experience that pain sometimes isn't enough for me to show humility, compassion, etc. 

    I'm a 22 year old guy and I was raised pretty spoiled, not necessarily financially but my parents spoil me so much with love, attention, and compassion that I've grown used to always being a receiver and never a giver (in terms of affection, care, compassion, humility). I've seen people close to me lose people very close to them, I've seen how it tears them up inside. But even then I keep taking the people closest to me for granted. I'm afraid that one day when my time comes to experience that pain, it would be too late. Is going through this pain (any pain not just death) the only way to grow and gain wisdom? Or am I just being too selfish, spoiled, or self-centered to realize I can change that now? If so, why haven’t these experiences of others affected me emotionally to change? 

    3 AnswersPhilosophy8 months ago
  • Is it weird that I feel uncomfortable when I feel my heart beating?

    Well, obviously I'm glad its beating, or else i'd be dead haha, but what im saying is every time I feel my heart beat, especially after doing some running It just feels so fragile and it makes me feel so uncomfortable. Here's another example, when sleeping I cannot sleep on my left side because I can feel my heart beat and there's just something about that that makes me feel off and I just can't sleep. Like I said maybe its because it makes me feel so fragile, idk. What do you guys think? Anybody feel the same way?

    3 AnswersOther - Health8 months ago
  • How do I stop being so lazy?

    I've been at my local community college for 4 years now, switched majors about 5 times. But I've been doing some thinking and I'm starting to think I'm just super lazy, not necessarily in school, I get straight A's. But everytime I think of a "Career" I just think work and i HATE working. I've been trying to find something I'm passionate about but no matter how hard I try I'm always going to think of it as work, and I just dont want to work. How do i change this mindset?

    8 AnswersOther - Careers & Employment9 months ago
  • How do I know if im Introverted or Extroverted?

    I just can't seem to figure this out. I've been thinking about it for about a year now and I realized confidence plays a big role for me whether im Introverted or Extroverted. For example, when I'm around new people, or people I'm just not comfortable with I tend to be more Introverted, because I admit, I hate being judged so I don't want to show myself around these people because I feel like maybe they'll think I'm weird or something. Now When I'm with close friends all of this goes out the window, I'm EXTREMELY confident, I even become more of a d*ck actually and stop thinking about others. I do things I usually don't do when I'm with people I'm not comfortable with like making a fool of myself and I just don't care what others think of me. Its weird, I just don't know which one I am.

    4 AnswersPsychology9 months ago
  • Am I being ungrateful?

    My dad and I have had the weirdest relationship. I love him, I really do. He can be really kind and thoughtful. But I never feel like I can be myself around him. He's a HEAVY Christian, as a matter of fact he's a pastor and he's always ALWAYS trying to preach to me about god. He has forced his religion on me and my family since I can remember. He's forced us to go to church every sunday and even now when I tell him I cant go to church he tries to guilt trip me, saying things like "dont apologize to me, apologize to god" and he makes me feel terrible about myself. I'm gonna be honest the only reason I go to church in the first place is because I feel bad for him. It's only 3 of us, including my dad. So if I didn't show it would only be him and 1 more person. I dont like seeing him down because he truly is passionate about his belief. Anyways, what I'm trying to say is, sometimes him and I just don't get along. Everytime I try to be myself around him he always has some sort of judgement so I tend to just stay silent around him sometimes, I dont spend much time with him and it kills me inside because I feel like I should spend more time with him while he's alive, hes 62. But I just cant seem to ever have a GENUINE time with him, no matter how hard I try. He likes to randomly tell me things like "i wish my dad was still alive" "you're lucky you have me, I lost my dad when I was 20" I'm torn up so much inside I dont know what to do.

    6 AnswersFamily9 months ago