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Paradise and me cant be described..

  • Away from home since more than 3 month ,?

    and into extremely uncomfortable life style , i need someone very experienced person to answer me , i am not able to return home as iam very scared of my wife and my own parents , because when i was there like a rock with them , they never valued me , my wife cheated me severely , i forgive her, but my wounded heart keeps reminding that i have no one , i just have to adjust with my life , iam a dreamer of true love , nothing happened , i turned 36 this month , iam no more strong like i used to be , if i dont go back , my mother falls sick and worse things can happen due to guilt , my wife too repenting , but iam scared to trust her , iam not even able to divorce her because of emotions which stops me from hurting others , i am getting mad , there is no way out

    3 AnswersMarriage & Divorce4 years ago
  • Dear friends , here is a critical situation ,very wise suggestions required?

    its about my wife , she is kind of immature may be , she has a problem in understanding me , there are too many silly issue , but this one might not be silly , she gets up too late , i just politely requested her to wake up early and help my mother in the kitchen because it doesnt look decent when a mother inlaw is working and daughter inlaw is sleepling , so for this she says sorry she cant do this , she cant accept this , and she will leave, but everytime i agree for her leaving , she stops , i feel sad for her , when i look at her i feel sorry . i keep forgiving her ,thinking about her widow mother whom i dont want to hurt dont want to hurt no one , my life sucks now , head is breaking please help out to fix this . i know it cant be answered in one shop for further things please continue the conversation to help me with this

    3 AnswersFriends6 years ago
  • Dear friends ,how to renew my passport , its expired long back , my address is changed?

    and i dont have a address proof for the new resident , being really worried about it , i got a phobia towards indian govt offices , i really dont like going to pass port offices etc , as the authorities are really annoying here , but have to face this , and how should i renew my passport without hassle ? my place bangalore , India

    3 AnswersImmigration7 years ago
  • excessively attached to my sisters , not paying attention to my newly married life , niether iam able ,?

    sisters hurt a lot , but never can leave them , feeling suicidal , but i dont do , please help

    3 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • I am an entrepreneur?

    Dear friends , i am an entrepreneur?

    I am struggling to reach my goal which needs hard and good work and its my passionto be the best in business , but still i haven't reached to a standard level and these days i have been getting too many job offers by people i meet , surely the salaries will be high , the question is should i leave my business which i like , should i leave my passion for the sake a job ? what should i do ? one side there is business which needs lots of dedication , and one side the tempting salaries , What should i do ??? please help me clear my mind . will i regret for rejecting those offers ? or will i feel peaceful , why do some lines says , take what is in front of you ? i never used have doubts as such , but since i will be married soon, my fluctuating income scares me . please help

  • At my apartment compound there are 2 stray dogs ,and i been providing them some food everynight?

    At my apartment compund there are 2 stray dogs and i been providing them some food every night before my dinner , but since few days i been noticing that one of the dog is not letting the to eat , when he comes near , he bites him , so today i decided not give food to both of them , (what is the solution for this ?

    8 AnswersDogs8 years ago
  • complicated question ,need proper guidance.?

    recently my engagement was broken as the girl called and said the she dont want to marry me because she likes somebody else , but then recently a new girl started texting me and she seemed to be very nice and understanding , the turning point is that now i found that its the same girl who broke the engagement ,

    i'm too lonely i can't even stop replying her messages , neither i want to hurt her , so i dint ask her any questions like what made her to get in touch with me again, ,

    i'm a emotional person, sometimes it becomes too difficult while making decisions ,

    i hope you frinds will help me , what to do with this girl ? should i continue texting her ?

    but i know if i continue the wedding matter will return again,

    may be her boyfriend has left her , so she is sympathized towards me , may be she feels sorry and wants to marry me ,

    what to do ? if there is any more details required to help me , please brother and sisters , let me know ,

    thank u

    1 AnswerTeaching8 years ago
  • This is a question to all the few good people ..?

    dear friends . its 3 Am and couldnt sleep yet though im too tired .

    i am a perfect and honest business man . and its a client based business related to travelling .as a person . i come under angels directory . not a normal person.

    this is a very sensitive problem of mine which needs proper and effective guidance . and any person who shows me a proper way, means a lot to me .

    the question is .

    during my work . i see horrible things . but i have to keep my mouth shut . if i open my mouth , i may lose my business and clients .

    i am a very romantic 31 year old single man with dynamic features , but unnoticed by any girl .

    my life is full of love failures and disasters . still that good inner me is not changing . i try to be a savior every where ..

    i havnt asked my question yet because who ever is reading this . has to know my mind . and then answer .

    i see horrible things in my life related to girls . just yesterday i see my 60 yrs old divorced ,divorced because he is a womanizer client staying alone in his house with little teenage girl. i know his intentions , he wants to have sex .

    though its non of business, it breaks my heart . because i want a wife a life partner . and all the girls looking for true is going to wrong place . and i am not able to do anything.

    i am not able to sleep . that girls face is still in my eyes though she is no one for me .

    if i stop such girls . then i may lose my business.

    please help .,

    4 AnswersSociology8 years ago
  • mom liked a girl for me to marry .?

    and the people from the girl side also like me a lot .

    but she is quite healthy and doesnt match me only in appearance .

    i have no option .

    what to do ?

    6 AnswersEngagements & Weddings9 years ago
  • my mothers dream. and my reality?

    i am a 31 year old man. and i still feel like a boy . i have never realize that iam 31 . but sometimes i feel the reality though i look very young . in fact i look like chocolate hero . this is a strange miracle . why am i saying all this to you all ?

    its because. all these facts a connected to my problem . and these facts would be helpful to find a right answers from you all.

    the reason i don't want to marry . is because i loved a girl truly , but she left me without any reason . and im under that trauma . and afraid to trust anyone . she really understood me well. she loved me a lot . but dont know what happened suddenly she changed like a devil . i was very clever in the early stage . but she made me love her 100 percent . and then said good bye .

    after this i started looking towards the outside world . here i realized that no one wants me .

    i have a mind of 80 's people , but honesty ,loyalty , punctuality, pride ,and true love is being treated like **** in today's world .

    and people are filled with arrogance , and i'm afraid to be myself here. every time i speak to girl i have to act artificial. if i am going by walk ,i have to say im driving . of course i have everything . but people want more than i have .

    they say there is someone for everyone . i too had someone . but for just 3 years only .

    Sorry people . my story is not in one track .

    k. the simple reason i dont want to marry though i want a normal life .

    is because im very different . i am not gay . i have everything a girl wants . but iam not bill gates . so where should i go and break my head ?

    it looks stupid to praise ourselves .

    but its true . after analyzing every where online and even in person . i have come to know that there is no one like me . NO ONE LIKE ME . and iam all alone .

    how do i convince my mother not to dream about my wedding .

    i have no one . but i cant live alone .

    there are many many poeple out there who are still alone. but they carry on with some other thing .

    but my dream is only LOVE .

    but its only in movies .

    my mother is getting stubborn day by day .

    her dreams will make me a victim of love again.

    what to do . i dont want to risk my heart again. i know no girl will love me the way i would love .

    thank you . if someone has understood

    3 AnswersPsychology9 years ago
  • why a girl or a women never says what exactly she wants .?

    and if it all she gets what she wanted . she doesnt wants that . then what do they want exactly ? for example if we ask a girl .do you want a rich guy ? she will say NO . i want someone who can love me all his life .. but when she finds true love . she doesnt wants that . if she wants onyl money . she doesnt says that openly.. ..

    11 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • when a girl cheats a good man .?

    when a girl cheats and leaves a good man .

    everyone around that man , try give him strength by saying ,dont worry there is someone better then her for you .

    and is the same thing the girl hears ? though she was the one who broke ones heart badly ?

    7 AnswersMarriage & Divorce9 years ago
  • Somebody Help me . i will be grateful?

    one day before my birthday may 2 my love left me for ever , though i gave her true love for 3 years .

    since then my eyes are restless.. i have been working very hard to forget the past . but its not working . there is not a single moment where my mind is not asking .WHY DID SHE LEAVE ME ? now since 2 days i have got no work . i am free . and her memories her haunting me for. please somebody help me , please . .. i am very alone . i live in a city bangalore . but no one talks . . everyone is after money here . there are no emotions.

    and few friends are busy with their work and family so i cant pressurize them with my same old pain.

    i am not suicidal , neither i can drink . neither i smoke .. i work 24 /7 . but now my body needs rest . but her memories are not allowing me to rest . please help me . my phone is ON 24/7 .she knows very well that i can not live without her . but she never called . this truth makes me more sad . and i realize that how heartless can a women be.. .

    my head is breaking , please help me . this cold breeze from my room window is bringing her flash back, .

    iam not even able to leave this city and go. and i cant . i dont know what has happened to me please . HElp me . i will be very grateful .

    this is not a normal story . i know iam very different . but somebody has to come forward and help me . no matter how far you are . for the sake of humanity .

    my mom is after my marriage iam 31 now .. but i cant marry . i cant risk my heart again. people leave me very soon , though i dont hurt anyone . the truth is i am the man in every girls dream . . but i dont know why i am suffering like this . its may be because iam not rich . i dont know . the rest i got everything .

    i am not too poor also . with my hard work i can afford a lot .

    that girl has left a mystery in my life .

    please help me . . .

    5 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships9 years ago
  • where to find things of my taste?

    Where to find music of my taste?

    i have very different taste , i like something others dont like . i am a different person . i feel alone , thats a different matter . but what about music ? i like bit to bit music . not sure how to explain this. but like the music runnig behind a movie scene . or a fast song in slow version , when i was too young i used hear musc in my dreams , it used go very deep , no one has ever made that kind of music . as i grewup and fell into horrible failures in love . all my dreams got erased , now im just a dead meat . but sometimes i want to watch something i like . something i want to hear . but nothing exists of my taste, i know my questions confuse everyone a lot . but hoping that someone has got my answer ..

    4 AnswersMental Health9 years ago
  • where to find music of my taste?

    i have very different taste , i like something others dont like . i am a different person . i feel alone , thats a different matter . but what about music ? i like bit to bit music . not sure how to explain this. but like the music runnig behind a movie scene . or a fast song in slow version , when i was too young i used hear musc in my dreams , it used go very deep , no one has ever made that kind of music . as i grewup and fell into horrible failures in love . all my dreams got erased , now im just a dead meat . but sometimes i want to watch something i like . something i want to hear . but nothing exists of my taste, i know my questions confuse everyone a lot . but hoping that someone has got my answer ..

    4 AnswersR&B & Soul9 years ago