I am a seventh day adventist girl, and i have been going out with a muslim guy for over three years now. he wants me to convert, but i have a strong faith in jesus christ. and my family would stop talking to me if i do. same with his side of the family, they will not approve. so we are thinking about just getting it done ourselves, is that a good idea?? i dont wanna hurt either side of the family. talking to them is useless they will never accept. what should i do?