• If you feel that u or your other is being to clingy what should you do about it?

    Best answer: Tell the person you need your space. And say how much of it and what you need it for. Like, hey, please don't call me so much because it ... or, I just need some time to myself to do things for me... etc.. Definitely speak up though because if you don't it will only get worse and may you feel more uncomfortable. show more
    Best answer: Tell the person you need your space. And say how much of it and what you need it for. Like, hey, please don't call me so much because it ... or, I just need some time to myself to do things for me... etc.. Definitely speak up though because if you don't it will only get worse and may you feel more uncomfortable.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 decade ago
  • I like this guy but if we get together it going to be a long distance relationship So how can i make that work

    Best answer: if you really like him, then you should tell him. But, LDistance is a problem. If you both aren't ready to commit and make it work, then don't bother. I did a primarily LD relationship fro 5 years, and finally broke it off, for many reasons. It lasted as long as it did because we WANTed it to. If you don't really love each... show more
    Best answer: if you really like him, then you should tell him. But, LDistance is a problem. If you both aren't ready to commit and make it work, then don't bother. I did a primarily LD relationship fro 5 years, and finally broke it off, for many reasons. It lasted as long as it did because we WANTed it to. If you don't really love each other, then its too hard to deal with, because there's no trust about not cheating on each other.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 1 decade ago
  • What do you think about this scenario.?

    Best answer: Hate to say if but sounds like you are on his back-burner and doesn't mind calling you up and making out when he's got nothing better to do. If he's not calling you then he's not interested. If he's dating other people then let him go. he'll call you if he decides that actually you are the more interesting and fun... show more
    Best answer: Hate to say if but sounds like you are on his back-burner and doesn't mind calling you up and making out when he's got nothing better to do. If he's not calling you then he's not interested. If he's dating other people then let him go. he'll call you if he decides that actually you are the more interesting and fun chica to hang out with. Definitely put him outta your mind, and he'll start to wonder why you aren't calling him all the time and that'll make him intrigued... but, i would say move on, have fun and go on your OWN dates!!!!
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 1 decade ago
  • Me and my Girlfriend need real Advice? !!!help!!!?

    Best answer: She first of all needs to decide that she doesn't want his affections, then she needs to tell that guy to stop bothering her, especially if he is making inappropriate advances. PLUS she is a minor, so that is illegal!!! If he won't back down, she needs to decide whether or not to get a restraining order. I would NOT attend that... show more
    Best answer: She first of all needs to decide that she doesn't want his affections, then she needs to tell that guy to stop bothering her, especially if he is making inappropriate advances. PLUS she is a minor, so that is illegal!!! If he won't back down, she needs to decide whether or not to get a restraining order. I would NOT attend that bar anymore, and tell him straight up to leave me alone. If that doesn't work, I would avoid talking to him or seeing him if I were her and serve him a restraining order. Don't go and try to beat him up because that could land you in trouble, and certainly avoid him. Advise you girl to tell him straight off she's not interested if that's the case, and DON't be soft with her - she may be inviting trouble by leading him on, or by NOT telling him no. Hurry and fix this situation before it gets out of control. He could become a dangerous stalker and then you know the rest.
    5 answers · Friends · 1 decade ago
  • What personal and unique touches did you include in your wedding?

    Best answer: While I myself haven't been married, one thing we did for my sister's wedding (my idea) was to give out something homemade, that was easy to do. We made little baggies of homegrown coriander seeds, which was a big hit because its a great spice to cook with. Also, we collected natural reeds from the side of the road (the long... show more
    Best answer: While I myself haven't been married, one thing we did for my sister's wedding (my idea) was to give out something homemade, that was easy to do. We made little baggies of homegrown coriander seeds, which was a big hit because its a great spice to cook with. Also, we collected natural reeds from the side of the road (the long grasses with silver and red tops and also cattails) to decorate the tent. Best of all, rather than have everyone eat a catored meal, we made a menu and put various willing guests to help the day before the wedding and the morning of. It made for a very tight nit day, filled with love and goodwill. Everyone was helping out, and everyone was a relatively close family friend. The other thing i liked was my friend and i gave my sister a massage, foot scrub, painted her nails and with her friends did her hair and make-up, so it was entirely from the heart and no strangers were involved in making her look beautiful. I think she really loved this part.
    14 answers · Weddings · 1 decade ago
  • Can I Still be fit if i don't do a sport but go to gym about 2-3 times a week?

    Best answer: Kudos for just joining the gym! Yes, you can stay fit if you work out 3 times a week for an hour at a time. Make sure to get a varied workout, to work all parts of the body and yes, get that heart rate up, with the stairclimber, or the treadmill. If you want to lose weight, doctors recomment working out MORE than 3 times/per week. Most... show more
    Best answer: Kudos for just joining the gym! Yes, you can stay fit if you work out 3 times a week for an hour at a time. Make sure to get a varied workout, to work all parts of the body and yes, get that heart rate up, with the stairclimber, or the treadmill. If you want to lose weight, doctors recomment working out MORE than 3 times/per week. Most of all, if you eat healthy this will help. Remember, you are what you eat! So eat yummy healthy foods like fuites, veggies etc. (Not that you can't have occasional sweets, just don't go over board). Best of all, have fun with your workout, if its boring, mix it up!
    6 answers · Diet & Fitness · 1 decade ago
  • I am going to be without my boyfriend, please help ASAP?

    Best answer: I think if you really love him, you will stay loyal. I know the feeling you have, because its happened to me, only I was the one that went overseas. There are lots of attractive "fish in the sea", but you have to remember there's a reason you are dating this guy and a reason you love him. Maybe he understands you more than... show more
    Best answer: I think if you really love him, you will stay loyal. I know the feeling you have, because its happened to me, only I was the one that went overseas. There are lots of attractive "fish in the sea", but you have to remember there's a reason you are dating this guy and a reason you love him. Maybe he understands you more than anyone else, etc. Its human nature to be attracted to more than one person, but you can control your urges by being smart and not putting yourself in a position where you might cheat. And if you just can't stop feeling attracted to someone else and you two have something special going on, then there's nothing to really worry about because the new guy might be better for you anyways. I wouldn't worry about it too much, you know yourself. If this guy in England is the one for you, then you won't cheat on him. If you are attracted to someone else, maybe its your conscious telling you he's not the one. Anyhow, just take it easy, stay in touch with your Briton and go with the flow, and always listen to your heart.
    7 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 decade ago
  • Why are all the main actors in BOLLYWOOD fair skinned - india has a variety of shades?

    Best answer: Because Bollywood is a rich industry and rich Indians tend to be fairer skinned. This is pretty typical, I think. They copy other films because its easier than coming up with their own ideas, and they take the ideas and "indianize them" for an audience who likes dance scenes and bad fighting. If you take a look at Tamil movies... show more
    Best answer: Because Bollywood is a rich industry and rich Indians tend to be fairer skinned. This is pretty typical, I think. They copy other films because its easier than coming up with their own ideas, and they take the ideas and "indianize them" for an audience who likes dance scenes and bad fighting. If you take a look at Tamil movies for example, they are darker, but that could be because Tamil indians (from S. India) tend to be darker skinned anyhow. Its probably not worth your getting upset over. After all, movies don't usually put ugly people in them either, and if they are, they're usually the bad guys. So doesn't it make sense that the movies are going to use good-looking people? After all, thousands of people are going to see them, and will be more likely to see the movies if there are attractive people in them.
    9 answers · Other - Cultures & Groups · 1 decade ago
  • Confused about a girl please help?

    Best answer: I think what she means is that she wants to take it slow. To take time to get to know each other before you get hot and heavy etc or too serious. Sounds like she thought whatever happened between you two "after 9" was a little too fast. Give her some space and dont' feel bad about it. If you two are meant to be it will work... show more
    Best answer: I think what she means is that she wants to take it slow. To take time to get to know each other before you get hot and heavy etc or too serious. Sounds like she thought whatever happened between you two "after 9" was a little too fast. Give her some space and dont' feel bad about it. If you two are meant to be it will work itself out. Why don't you ask her what she really means by that and tell her to spell it out clear, because the worst would for her to be not telling you the truth because she doesnt' want to hurt your feelings. Tell her how you feel, and tell her you don't want to push her etc. to make any commitments yet etc. Best thing is to just sit down one afternoon over coffee/tea/lunch whatever (not a late night date) and talk it over. Good luck!
    14 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 decade ago
  • What should i do my heart hurts!!!!!!!!!?

    Best answer: Slow down chica! If he has a girlfriend who he's not getting along with already, wait it out. He'll end it with her sooner or later. Be a friend, but keep those sexual feeling in check. The same thing happened to me in high school back in the day. I waited it out and when he finally broke up with her, we ended up dating a while... show more
    Best answer: Slow down chica! If he has a girlfriend who he's not getting along with already, wait it out. He'll end it with her sooner or later. Be a friend, but keep those sexual feeling in check. The same thing happened to me in high school back in the day. I waited it out and when he finally broke up with her, we ended up dating a while later, and it was worth the wait. Until that point, we just became really good friends. Who knows, maybe that girl will end it soon with him too.. Wait and see...
    26 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 decade ago
  • Need ideas for Hubby's B-day!?

    Best answer: Take him on a picnic, make him something homemade, bake him a cake, get him a carepackage of goodies he loves (from snacks to razors), take him to a special place - like a park, or somplace you haven't gone in awhile, cook him dinner (his favorite or something you haven't eaten in awhile). Make him a radio show on cd/tape, make... show more
    Best answer: Take him on a picnic, make him something homemade, bake him a cake, get him a carepackage of goodies he loves (from snacks to razors), take him to a special place - like a park, or somplace you haven't gone in awhile, cook him dinner (his favorite or something you haven't eaten in awhile). Make him a radio show on cd/tape, make videos of yourself doing silly things to make him laugh, give him a lap-dance or belly dance!, the opportunities for cheap fun things are endless!
    3 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 1 decade ago
  • What is more important? love or money?

    Best answer: Life in this case is a double edge sword. Love is more important, but without money, you don't get very far. And you need both to function happily and sanely. And by love, it could be any type.. friend, bf, gf, mom dad etc.
    Best answer: Life in this case is a double edge sword. Love is more important, but without money, you don't get very far. And you need both to function happily and sanely. And by love, it could be any type.. friend, bf, gf, mom dad etc.
    7 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 decade ago
  • Should I leave him.?

    Best answer: you can tell him its me or the alcohol, pal... too many families are ruined by drinking. you can stop this from happening to your life too... especially if he's an abusive drunk (verbal, sexual, physical etc)...and if he won't love himself enough to confront the problem, walk away.. there's only hurt. there... show more
    Best answer: you can tell him its me or the alcohol, pal... too many families are ruined by drinking. you can stop this from happening to your life too... especially if he's an abusive drunk (verbal, sexual, physical etc)...and if he won't love himself enough to confront the problem, walk away.. there's only hurt. there...
    8 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 decade ago
  • There is a difference, what do you think? My husband asked me one morning...?

    Best answer: I disagree too, it is not the same thing. Women are expected to clean the house among other things, and we usually end up doing it on top of the other things we have to do. If housecleaning is something you always to anyhow and are doing a great job, then his asking you to clean the house is something of an insult. You asking him to work... show more
    Best answer: I disagree too, it is not the same thing. Women are expected to clean the house among other things, and we usually end up doing it on top of the other things we have to do. If housecleaning is something you always to anyhow and are doing a great job, then his asking you to clean the house is something of an insult. You asking him to work more overtime to help pay the mortgage is not the same thing. Housecleaning, while it does technically have an "economic value" it will NOT help you pay the mortgage... but maybe he's just stressed out. i wouldn't worry about it.. its a small thing and two of you will get over it just fine.
    24 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 decade ago
  • I really miss my friend.?

    Best answer: Well, you did do some mean things to her, and she's pissed at you for it. If you truely want to still be her friend you need to tell her why you did those things, and tell her how stupid you were. See if she'll listen to you, and give her some time. Try not to overwhelm her with attention or by being super nice, because if... show more
    Best answer: Well, you did do some mean things to her, and she's pissed at you for it. If you truely want to still be her friend you need to tell her why you did those things, and tell her how stupid you were. See if she'll listen to you, and give her some time. Try not to overwhelm her with attention or by being super nice, because if she's pissed its not going to work. Tell her you love her like a sister and you just don't know what got into you to make you behave so badly. Ask for forgiveness. If none of this works, you may have to suck it up and move on, because no matter what, actions speak louder than words and some people have a hard time forgetting. Tell her how you feel, give her some space and a chance to miss you too. Don't push too hard or you may end up making it worse. Meanwhile, maybe you want to start looking for another friend, and think about what friendship means, so that you don't do it again. Good luck!
    1 answer · Friends · 1 decade ago
  • Help getting over a sudden death?

    Best answer: Gosh, how sad. There's nothing like losing someone to put a reality check on life, and to remind you how fragile life is. You definitely need to cry about it, and to talk to people who are close to you about what happened. Whatever you do, please please don't blame yourself. I think with suicide, the people close to the victim... show more
    Best answer: Gosh, how sad. There's nothing like losing someone to put a reality check on life, and to remind you how fragile life is. You definitely need to cry about it, and to talk to people who are close to you about what happened. Whatever you do, please please don't blame yourself. I think with suicide, the people close to the victim tend to blame themselves and think what could they have done to prevent the suicide, but you didn't take his life, he did. I am sorry you are hurting so much. Try to remember the good things about him and the fun you had together. Try to stay positive but at the same time let yourself grieve, and even be mad at him. Give yourself plenty of space and time to heal, but don't isolate yourself because that will make it all harder. Visit his grave (or is he buried?) or make a little shrine for him somewhere and visit it occasionally. Come to terms with it slowly, don't force yourself. Best of luck to you, hugs!
    3 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 1 decade ago
  • If you can go back to one YEAR in your life, what would it be and what was happening??

    Best answer: None. Each year had its share of problems, difficulties, happinesses and laughs (except those I don't remember because i was to small, but why go back to something you dont' remember?). To go back to any one year, if I had to, wouldn't necessarily be any fun. I could choose months out of a particular year, but never the whole... show more
    Best answer: None. Each year had its share of problems, difficulties, happinesses and laughs (except those I don't remember because i was to small, but why go back to something you dont' remember?). To go back to any one year, if I had to, wouldn't necessarily be any fun. I could choose months out of a particular year, but never the whole thing. I'd rather live for the future...
    10 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 decade ago
  • Why is it so hard to let go of someone you love so deep it breaks your heart...?

    Best answer: Love sure is confusing. It is ok to still love someone even if you have decided you can't be together for whatever reason. Maybe someday things will work out. And its easy to fall in the trap of nostalgia, i know I have. It is hard to let someone out of your heart because you don't chose who you love, it just happens. The best... show more
    Best answer: Love sure is confusing. It is ok to still love someone even if you have decided you can't be together for whatever reason. Maybe someday things will work out. And its easy to fall in the trap of nostalgia, i know I have. It is hard to let someone out of your heart because you don't chose who you love, it just happens. The best thing is to look at the situation as if you were meant to be you would be, and if not, then not. Try to let go a little at a time, fill your life up with other important things. Don't feel like you HAVE to forget, because if you love the person you probably never will forget him or her. And talk to this person about what you two are going through. Knowing that the other person hurts too will help you two through it, and hey, you never know maybe by talking about it you two can come to solutions about what is "keeping you apart" Good luck, heart broken.
    13 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 1 decade ago