(repost) What if you met the perfect guy for you--too soon?

Question

I met this guy a month ago, and he's everything I have always dreamed of in a potential partner...he's got all the good qualities of my previous crushes, and none of their bad qualities. the only problem is that I'm in high school, he's in college, we're far away from each other, and our only form of communication is Yahoo.

I'm not even sure if he likes me, but we're definitely friends. btw, if you're about to say that he might not be who I think he is, I know the guy personally. I only met him once, though.

I know you'll say I'm too young for all this (I'm only 15, he's 18), and I know I am, I'm not going to deny it. But he's perfect for me, and I can't let go of him.

I've been thinking...if a relationship develops between us, I won't be able to enjoy it because I'm still a minor, and he's already of age, and that wouldn't be legal. And even if we keep it secret, by the time I can have a boyfriend, he'd have gotten tired of me. But, if we just develop a friendship, it might never go anywhere. And lastly, if I ignore him (save him for later) he'll just forget me--he's got other friends anyway, and we're not that close yet.

What should I do? He's the first crush of mine to ever completely pass all my standards (which are pretty high, btw).

PS. yes, this is just a crush, and i'm not in love...yet. haha. but this is a very big crush, and it affects me a lot, sometimes to the point of total distraction (as all crushes do; but this certain crush of mine gives me determination to improve myself, most of the time.)

Note: please answer fast. In half a day I will have to delete this question because my cousin doesn't know I'm using her account to ask this. I'm dead if she finds out! XD

Answer 1

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I feel for you.. I have this crush on a girl and sometimes it drives me crazy!!!!!!!!! We used to be together but now we just good friends.. Anyway for you this crush must be tough.. We all know that girls tend to like older guys for their maturity or whatever but at your age (Im 15 to so know what im on about.), You really cant be getting to serious about a long term relationship with a guy thats so much older than you. Maintain a friendship and keep in contact and maybe in a few years you might just see him and let loose your feelings if you still feel the same wa like.. lol Goodluck xxx

Answer 2

Continue to be friends, that way you will learn more about each other. If he is right for you, than the friendship may develop into something more. be patient and don't rush into this. if he really likes you, he won't forget about you.

Answer 3

i have the same situation. it's sh_it :D!

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mine?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?…

Answer 4

way too soon

Answer 5

first off, you are putting way too much thought into something that requires very little. just let something develop naturally, or not. and since you really only know this guy over yahoo, he really may not be everything you want in a guy anyways. or who knows, maybe you aren't what he is looking for. or maybe it will happen way down the line, when you are ready. i met my husband (the perfect guy) when i was 12 and we didn't start dating until we were 22, which was the perfect time, and i dated a lot of people in between. just go slow and don't over-think this.

and secondly, when you delete the question it will still show up on your cousin's account, it just wont be accessible. so she will see the question but not the details. sorry.