People!!...i am confused..help me?

Question

i broke up with my bf 6 months ago coz i liked this other guy..when i broke up with my bf i didnt give him any reason but this that i dont want to be ur gf anymore. after that he txted me this "i beg u to give me a reason to leave me like this, i love u so much and u r just silent, are u sad?..i cant see u sad, it kills me when u are sad its my biggest weakness..i want ti be the only person to understand u, and i want to erase everything that makes u sad"...but i never replied him coz at that time i had only the other guy in mind,,and in less than a year, this other guy dumped me saying "u r not fun anymore..and i dont want to be with u anymore"..now i feel very ashamed...i suddenly miss my ex..i want to talk to him..but i feel ashamed...any tips?.

Answer 1

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hmm, that was mean what u did to him, ur ex... u just want him dor consolation, dont hurt him again. b4 u left he poured his heart out to you... he said all that stuff about being sad... then u hurt him, u could have at least texted back... hhh this is a sad story.

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i know :(

Answer 2

tell him why you did it, give him the reason he wants, explain how you miss him, maybe throw so min in there about how this random guy was nothing compared to him, and if he loves you as much as he says, he will take you back. But don't be annoyed if he is pissed at you, if you can understand that then it may help

hope it works out
alex

Answer 3

Ohh you definately need to get him back he seems like he really cares about youu.. just talk to him and tell him you feel ashamed but the reason you left is becase you had stronger feelings for someone else but you realize now that it was a big mistake and see how he reacts to that.. He might be upset but you never knoww he miht still have feelings for you :)

Answer 4

Talk to your ex chances r he still wants you, plus what do you hav to lose and if he txted you that i really don't think he'll ever get over you my advice take a chance go ahead and txt him!!

Answer 5

E-mail him and apologize. Just have a normal conversation. Don't tell him why you broke up with him before. If he asks if you want to get back together, answer him yes or no. =)

Answer 6

if you really want him back, i think your best bet would be to go to him and just tell him the truth and that you made a mistake. tell him that you thought you liked another guy, but he turned out to be nothing like you thought he was (after all, you weren't planning on him saying you weren't fun to be with anymore, i hope :D) and that you obviously had someone special in him (your ex). tell him you realize your mistake and you're so, so sorry, and ask him if he can forgive you. be sincere about it and if he's upset, let him be for a while and see what he says. but hopefully he'll just be glad to have you back :) good luck!!