Get a HDB flat first or Get Married first?

Question

I wonder which is more ideal? To have a HDB flat, then married or to get married first then to get a HDB flat? I wonder does most Singaporean have the same sentiment as myself. Will u get married without a flat?

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What if fiancée wants to have a roof first?

Answer 1

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logically is better to apply for a flat and pay the deposit first after successful in the flat application...

that is why in the first place, u must get your sums right before you marry... the savings plan for the current and future... the backup savings... the responsibilities of you as a father and her as a mother when both u have children... the know-hows to be learnt to certain scope after both u marry on the first day... the temptations and danger both u have to avoid example emotional cheating of feeling and adultery etc...

marriage is a very very holy thing...

get a hdb flat first... even if there is a change of scenario, at least u won't regret u have try your best in marry thing as if me not wrong, there are penalties for both u on the hdb flat if both u have change of mind on the marriage...

no matter what, u must have backup savings for scenarios... and whether u want to disclose the backup savings to her is up to u...

same for her... whether she want to disclose her backup savings to u is up to her... as both u have the right to plan for scenarios as long as both u don't breach each other's mutual trust in other scopes example adultery and emotional cheating of feeling with so-called msn or irc friends or colleages...

wish u good luck!... ^_^

bryan ah chwee michael

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ok

Answer 2

Depends on how much trust you have towards your partner - and the feeling of security and responsibility that comes with all relationships .

Answer 3

Get married